I wrote my profile on yahoo answers and got a message back from someone who said my life was sooooo messed up. Is it really?? heres what I wrote:
about me:
My name is Jamie,
Im 22, I have a 3 year old daughter (Layla) who I see 5 times a year cause im in college and "am not mature enough"-- a quote from my parents! My boyfriends name is Kevin, he's 24, super hot. Plays bass in a band. He just got me a puppy who I named nemo. But te stupid school wont allow pets so he lives with layla until I get back.
2007-12-24 09:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well okay u seem happy in your life but im not trying to bring u down or anything but it so sort of messy becuz
u have a duaghter and u didnt even finish school but u know what who cares if your life is messy as long as ur happy with u r . and honestly it is messy but u seem happy
2007-12-24 10:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by MONKEY.CHIMP.SAME THING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your daughter 3, or 6? Is this a put-on?
Are you messed up? Um, a little bit. Immature may be the better way of putting it. In that way your parents are correct.
How did your parents get custody of your child? And why are you away in college when you have a family to look after? Not that you can't go to college at the same time, but if you're not mature enough to look after a child, how the heck is a college education going to help you?
"Stupid school" not allowing pets kind of gives away your maturity level...
Yeah... you're a bit lost. You need to find your priorities.
Good luck.
2007-12-25 07:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by LJG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have a few things out of order. You need to concentrate your efforts to making yours and Layla's life better, so school is number 1. You should get your self on some sort of birth control if you are not already. The hot guy who plays bass might not be the best choice for "you and your daughter". My guess he is cool and he is hot, but is he someone whom you want as a father for your daughter? My guess the only thing he has going for him is his music. I don't think you are going to want to support him or his life style for long. You have very adult consequence you are dealing with, and it is time to start acting like an adult. God Bless
2007-12-24 10:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds sad and a little messed up. Mean you have a child you carried and bore but your not raising her? On the other hand hopefully she is being raised by someone that is good to her. But 5 times a year. Doesn't that bother you and you sound more excited about the puppy than the kid. And your boyfirend being super hot. I agree with your parents you are immature and may I add self asbored. I hope this time you are not having sex.
2007-12-24 10:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has a life that isn't even a tad bit messed up? a debt no way to go to college still living with my parents no glasses so Im blind Im working a crap schedule that should give you enough to see a little of what is going on... I dont rant well
2016-05-26 03:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your life is not messed up... Just finish school. Things should start to unfold.Try and get good grades, that way your parents might see the maturity and hard work you really do!
2007-12-24 10:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rubber Ducky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOUR LIFE WILL GET MESSED UP IF U WANT IT 2
NO 1 CAN TELL U YOUR LIFE IS MESSED UP
SO .....
yea i have no clue y i am writing in caps
well anyways your life seems perfectly fine
the only problem is i can tell u smoke sooo QUIT
he hee
bye
2007-12-25 07:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♥☺Charlie☺♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not that unusual, unfortunately. You are self-centered and immature. Your child is paying for your foolishness.
Hey, as long as you're happy. That's all that matters.
-Merry Christmas!
.
2007-12-24 10:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one rightly can judge where your life is (but that doesn't mean they won't)...you have some challenges (but who doesn't?), and you've got some really positive things going on, too. Continue to try to better yourself for yourself and your child, and strive to be happy. Good luck, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-24 10:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your life is not a mess. Society is a mess.
2007-12-24 10:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Apathy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋