Ok so here is the deal, I kissed this guy who liked me, but I really didn't like him. Just so I could have my first kiss. I was 16 and had never been kissed, how pathetic, so I thought might as well. Is this bad? i feel really guilty that i lead him on and used him for my first kiss? What should I do?
2007-12-24 09:47:33 · 9 answers · asked by Kate♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think before you go back and say anything i think you need to look at your original motivations for kissing this guy, you are 16 you will find a person you like and find attractive but take your time, or you will keep finding yourself in situations such as this , thinking that it is pathetic not to get your first kiss at 16 is pathetic, you will find that you will be more empowered to find someone truly worth your time and attention than to seek the first guy that looks your direction.
i know it is hard but please try and be patient
peace
2007-12-24 11:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If kissing him is the only thing that you have done so far, then you have nothing to feel guilty about. First , being kissed by or before you are 16 is not a contest or race that you have to win at any cost.Kissing is a personal intimate act that you do because there are some feelings involved, hence you're not pathetic as you seem to imply.As long as you did not tell this guy you love him, or encourage his own feelings for you, or go out with him knowing he thinks you have feelings for him,or send him mixed messages or signals, you are safe. Just tell him the truth should it become necessary.
2007-12-24 18:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good ol mercy kiss. Gave a guy a kiss on Halloween, only on the cheek had no interest in him but the joy on his face was priceless cause he just got kissed by a really hot girl.
2007-12-24 17:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sigh so sad that you used the boy but all you can say is i didn't mean to use you and there is no relationship between us.
2007-12-24 17:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by EternalMemories0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someday youll like him, or otherwise, its the past, its ok he must of loved it =)
2007-12-24 17:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's done. You can't do anything about it...maybe apologize but by now I guess he forgot about it, right?
2007-12-24 17:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by pepperland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just proceed as friends, no hangups on this kiss.
2007-12-24 17:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can watch a romantic movie now.
2007-12-24 17:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by Chris Chase 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...that is kinda bad! actually its cruel! you shouldn't of done that!!!! you should go tell him!!!!! tell him that u r very...extremely sorry!
2007-12-24 17:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Carrot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋