conversation. I am all heart but to keep your man you also need to be fun . How can I be more that way ?
2007-12-24 09:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go out and do stuff together, talking about chores, the kids, and bills can get boring! Marriage is kinda boring but doing stuff together makes it feel less mundane!
2007-12-24 10:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I'm reading this as a 2 part question. If he's calling his ex for stimulating conversation, you got a problem. There are lots of ways to start conversations with your husband. Try starting with things that interest him. If you don't know a lot about some things, look them up on line. Go to the library, check out a book.
As for part two, there are a lot of things you can do around the house that can become fun. Try having fun making dinner.How about doing the dishes? You just have to have a bit of imagination while in the kitchen, and you'd be surprised the "fun" things that can come out of that. Just watch out for knifes put in the wrong place!
2007-12-24 10:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Scott M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are work. Find out what engages your husband and do it. Perhaps he wants to talk about certain movies, tv, sports, etc. Be there for him, learn about those things he likes, watch things he watches, support teams he likes, etc.
Also, it's important to have a life of your own so you bring something to the relationship. I see a lot of relationships were the couple spends all the time together and they have a host of shared experiences -- and little to share among themselves later. But if you go off and have a fun time, you can involve him in it later.
If it's about sex, that's the easier thing. Find out what he likes and do it. If there's something he wants and you don't want to do it -- perhaps simply talk about it, rather than doing it. Or, find something you do want to do.
2007-12-24 10:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by comixguru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, it's him. He's cheating on you and making you think it's all your fault. This is called emotional abuse. Kick him out, get a divorce, and move on with your life. This guy's a loser.
2007-12-24 10:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you start talking with him about your relationship. start doing some things that you think he would love. even just small things
2007-12-24 09:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by donea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce and find a man who deserves you. What a puke he is. God bless****
2007-12-24 10:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋