if i get asked to have sex by i guy that likes me and i really like him should i just tell him yes or to wait because im kinda ready but im kinda not
2007-12-24 10:38:13 · 23 answers · asked by Kara_Sue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ready for what? A few moments of pleasure with the possibility of a kid, a disease, and the emotional trauma of him loosing interest after conquering the virgin??? If you have to ask us strangers you are not SURE and YOU ARE NOT READY so WAIT. There is no rush to let a guy that only l-i-k-e-s you use you up. Think ahead after the deed is done what will the result be? Wait Wait Wait till marriage.
2007-12-24 11:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one on here will be able to tell you the answer to this, the decision is yours and yours alone, if you feel you are not ready for any reason then make sure you dont rush it, there will be a time when you are completely ready and it is worth the wait! Good luck!
2007-12-24 18:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Susan F 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its your choice. No one can make this decision for you. If you feel as though you are ready and you really trust the guy then go for it. If not, then wait until you are ready, and you are positive that you are ready. It is only up to you, not anyone else. You cant be forced to do anything.
2007-12-24 18:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by cher-roll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is no future in giving it up before marriage. Once you give it up why would he need to make a commitment to you. A lifelong commitment is far too valuable to throw away for a few minutes of gratification. You will respect yourself far more if you wait. If he won't wait he is not worth it. No matter how attractive he may be.
2007-12-24 18:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question; I cannot imagine you making it till marriage but I will be proud of you if you do. The real answer is when you meet the right guy that you decide is worth your virtue then you should think about it. It is will be a special moment if you choose correctly and he takes care of you your first time. But take your time and decide on your own not by what someone else wants you to do!!!!
2007-12-24 18:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. You can't "un-ring the bell". Wait until you're absolutely ready...don't just have sex because he wants to and you're just "kinda" ready.
Wait until he's so special that you can't imagine being with anyone else...and he feels that same way.
Also...use protection....pregnant or infected...bad, bad things to have to deal with.
2007-12-24 18:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you are NOT ready. You will know when the time is right for you. If you have one moment of doubt, one inkling of maybe I shouldn't do this then you are not ready. When you wait to do this until there is no doubt in your mind left, then it will be worth the wait.
2007-12-24 18:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jen N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to wait until you are married but eh no one listens to these things anymore. But if your like sure he doesn't just want it but actually loves you go ahead. And if your questioning yourself wether your ready or not then your not trust me.
2007-12-24 18:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your age.
if you in highschool, i honestly would wait. i mean even though it doesn't seem like it were still just kids, no matter how grown up we think we are, were really not.
but its up to you, if you really think your ready. than thats your choice. but if your not DON"T, don't let some guy think your stupid for not doing it, cause if a guy pressures you into doin something you don't want to do, he doesn't really care about you, hes not worth your time.
2007-12-24 18:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! Wait til your married . You never know if you have a break up. Or if he's had sex with someone else.
2007-12-24 18:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by AaronLuver25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋