Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

I don't get it, all you do is stand outside all night in the cold. Why is it a big deal? I've done it many times???

2007-12-24 07:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by mikoashinakowu 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy you don't know and aren't interested in declares his love for you and tells you how beautiful you are and how he cant stop thinking about you? how would you feel? what would you tell him?

2007-12-24 07:11:19 · 33 answers · asked by ballalot6 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well, my boyfriend is kind of popular in school so he has ALOT of friends. I go over his house almost everyday. Its like my second home and his parents are the sweetest people in the world. Well, recently, my boyfriends ex- called him and told him that there was a girl named Katy that liked him. My boyfriend told her that he was not going to dump me for her because he likes me and he does not have feelings for Katy but they could be friends and hang out. So the next day Katy went over there to hang out for a few hours. Talk about Basketball and watch a movie with him and his parents in his living room. So he called me and he was pretty upset. He said that Katy left and his mom told him that she liked her a little bit more than me. And asked why he didnt go out with her. He told her that he didnt like her that way and how dare she even THINK like that and his mom said, "Whatever, its your choice." Me and my boyfriend are kind of hurt by this, and I want his family to be closer to me

2007-12-24 07:11:13 · 17 answers · asked by *Natalie.* :P 5 in Singles & Dating

know what you think if you heard this from your spouse: comments that the neighbor is beautiful, but you're "pretty", we can't afford to go away anywhere (been together for yrs.), forgot my bday more than once, jewelry and flowers are a waste of $, since I do the grocery shopping, I shouldn't need a couples night out, that should be my outting, when I suggested we go away after my big surgery (see other posts), was told he forgot all about it, then said "well, you did have a double mastectomy" (like I was some sort of freak).....and the best one of all....insinuated that he was doing something he didn't want to by performing or*l sex on me.....didn't want me to do oral on him.....didn't look at me during sex....which was usually only 10-15 min 1x about every 6 wks. And didn't kiss me either. I also found out he's been lying to me about working overtime for 15 yrs. I haven't been happy for a very long time and he's trying to get me to stay, yet talks about 3somes and me w/other men.

2007-12-24 07:10:57 · 7 answers · asked by justlilme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy i worked with, he was nice to me, then he got mean , well he got mean with everyone, i guess when my manager told him to quit being mean to people he didnt realize he was being mean, so anyway ,we went out to the bar for a friends going away party and the minute i got there i guess he told a co worker he didnt know why i was there, since i am 20 and not old enough to drink , well then afterwards he saw me and gave me a hug and said my hair looked beautiful, i noticed of course he was drunk but all the people he is mean to at work he was nice to , except me, he kept saying ":arent you 19" then we went to a friends house and i went with a friend of mine and this guy kept saying "why is she still here?';(referring to me)and he sat next to me when i was by myself and he asked me that and then i heard him say something about my boobs (maybe it was my imagination) but he said it when i put on a jacket and he couldnt see my clevege, hes said i have nice ones before, anyway

2007-12-24 07:09:09 · 5 answers · asked by angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sons father has been paying me so much a week to stay home with our son (we are not together). I wanted to get a job but he talked me out of it, saying it was better for our boy if I was home to raise him. Over the last several months he has complained that he has not had the money, and that I need to get a job because I am just a golddigger. I finally found a job but will not be able to start until the first of the year and will not recieve a paycheck until end of Jan. My problem is that he has only sent 2 out of the last six checks and I have had to sell everything of ANY value to buy food for my child, I have nothing left to sell and three weeks until have more money coming in and I do not qualify for welfare or unimployment. I have even had to sell plasma twice a week. My sons father stores his belongings in my home, including two antique rifles belonging to his grandfather. I am desperate enough now that I feel I have no choice but to sell one of them to make ends meet.

2007-12-24 07:00:27 · 3 answers · asked by Sunny D 1 in Family

Is paddling appropriate?

Is grounding the answer?

Or both or neither?

2007-12-24 06:59:07 · 14 answers · asked by backtothepast 3 in Friends

2007-12-24 06:57:03 · 16 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This year I bought her a pair of leather gloves and a warm-up suit (one of those running suits). She would have never known, until our 4yr old decided to tell her and she approached me yesterday and said, please return those gifts. I won't wear them. We were out shopping last night and she found some Christmas dishes and said, here, get these, wrap them up and make that my gift from the kids and You.

I feel bad. I wanted to do something that would have been a surprise, but now its too late. Were just about to go out for Christmas Eve.

We are talking about updating her wedding ring after Christmas, so I think that will suffice, right?

2007-12-24 06:55:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need to get my girlfriend something for Christmas...I know its hecka lete but I have 24 hours to get her something!!! lol... I need ya'll help... I'm not good at buying girls gifts...So what should I get her? Thanks

2007-12-24 06:55:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 16 and we usually had sex atleast every weekend now he just says not nnow or that he's to busy..
am i ugly or something??
im really tall and a little chubby.
im scared he doesnt like me anymore
any suggestions?

2007-12-24 06:54:47 · 35 answers · asked by sadie 1 in Singles & Dating

i was with a group of my classmates when one girl blurred out that this other girl that left the school cheated on her boyfriend. anyway so just recently i told the girl that she was talked about. but see the thing is im not that close to her nor am i close to the girl that blabbed. but both of them are close friends. was wat i did wrong?
and now she knows that it was one of her close friends. what do i do?

2007-12-24 06:54:19 · 1 answers · asked by Leena R 1 in Friends

Ok, I turned 21 in Sept and I am confused and it is mainly because of yahoo answerers. Last year, I was concerned that I was too old to be living at home, but the majority answers 20 is not too old to be living at home and I have until I am about 24 before it's considered inappropriate to live at home with my parents. But it's ok until then, but that I should be working or at college while I live here. So I felt comfortable with that. Anyway, I recently asked a question and I added that my 27 year old brother who never went to college recently moved back in. He was living here for a few months earlier this year but got a girlfriend and moved in with her. Anyway, they apparently got in a fight and she kicked him out. He ended up in jail and my father got him out. Nothing like that has ever happened to me. Anyway, now whenever I speak of this situation on yahoo answerers, now the majority is saying we're both too old to be living at home and need to move out. ) : / so I am confused 21

2007-12-24 06:53:49 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife's best friend sent her a floral arrangement for Christmas - thanking her for her friendship and wishing her the merriest of all holidays.

My said to me, see, other people send me flowers.

2007-12-24 06:52:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm nothing special. I'm not the prettiest girl. I'm not the smartest girl. I'm not the skinniest. I'm not the nicest. I'm just nothing special. so why does he like me?

2007-12-24 06:48:36 · 21 answers · asked by guys~r~confusing 4 in Singles & Dating

okay well im in 8th grade, i have never had a boyfriend, and i have never been kissed (by a guy)
so i need help!
can u tell me if im pretty or ugly!
i need to know cause yeah i wanna find out why guys dont ask me out!
here is a picture!

1: me with make-up (did it for fun!) http://photos-c.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v159/85/117/736897088/n736897088_222678_4370.jpg

2: me without make-up
http://photos-088.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v136/85/117/736897088/n736897088_183527_8724.jpg

PLEASE TELL ME WAT U THINK!! truth is all i need!

2007-12-24 06:47:55 · 30 answers · asked by asmaa(: 1 in Singles & Dating

i live in illinois and am trying to get a divorce. is it possible to do this without the involvement of lawyers? what are the steps involved? how long will the process take. we are very civil and are not fighting or diving anything and are looking for the easiest way to go about doing this.please help im clueless

2007-12-24 06:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The family reunion coordinator said we would "sagway" the 2009 reunion with a family member's wedding. What do you think "sagway" means?

2007-12-24 06:45:32 · 2 answers · asked by BONNIE S 1 in Weddings

why are people on yahoo answers?don't u have family to go see?

2007-12-24 06:43:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out that my boyfriend cheated,when I confronted him,he says that he & I are gonna stay together no matter what,he also said that he is gonna kiss & sleep w/ other girls,& said that Im not allow to even talk to other guys,dont know what to do,any advice?

2007-12-24 06:40:46 · 16 answers · asked by Alicia L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 19 yrs old and this morning my father took my car to put gas in it and wash it Without my permission. I was very upset and said that he should have asked first. He said i should be thankful that he did a favor for me. I feel that it is disrespectful to use my car without my permission. Am I wrong for being upset? Or am i just unappreciative?

2007-12-24 06:38:23 · 21 answers · asked by Ben D 2 in Family

I love to and almost always walk around my house nude but I am 19 and have my own apartment I have no room mates BUT my kitchen window doesnt have any blinds should I stop walking arund nude

2007-12-24 06:32:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have done literally EVERYTHING for christmas. I did the shopping, I cleaned the house for realatives visting on Christmas day (husbands) I've wrapped all the presents, etc.. All I have asked of my husband is that he come home today from work during his 2 hour lunch break (works 5 mins away) so I can shower before we go out tonight to visit family. We were suppose to go to his aunt and uncles (last minute plans made yesterday without me knowing) and then to my moms to celebrate christmas tonight (have had the plans for monthes!!!) We have 2 kids one is going through the terrible 2's and the other has SERVE behavior problems that we are currently working with a doctor with. I literally cant shower to go out with out my daughter getting into god knows what with her disorders and he chose not to come home during lunch because they had a nice christmas lunch there. I ready to pack up my kids and go to my moms and blow off the aunt and uncle thing because MY family is willing to help

2007-12-24 06:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Family

Johnny Depp!!! ne way i wanna see sweeney todd and i was wondering if you could give me ideas on how to let them let me gpo see it... THANKS!! in 14 by the way and its rated R

2007-12-24 06:19:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

make a long story short we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.She lives with me in ny.We had broke for 2 weeks about 3 months ago.We back together now.
However everytime we get into an argument she threatnens to leave and go back toher mom house in nj.Everytime she says she gon go spend the night over there.Im getting tired of her throwing in my face after almost every argument we get into.I told her if she keep throwing it in my face she might as well stay over.We had an argument yesterday but we talked it out.
She said she not gonna do it again but I dont know if I can be sure or not.
What should I do?Is she really gonna stay with me or should I just leave her and try to move on

I was real stressed out the last time we broke up.Its like my heart is telling me to beg but my pride wont allow me to do that.I wouldnt feel right if I had to beg.I really do love her a lot though

2007-12-24 06:18:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 06:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by zeepaddy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 06:16:25 · 20 answers · asked by alsyedmc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I admit it!! I played the bar game lying about my age, I am 39 she is 25,But we made a connection.Fell in love, I told her I was 35.I hate myself for that, she found out told me she was disappointed because she has strong feelings for me, and I think she is the right one to settle down with.

2007-12-24 06:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by Tim M 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you kidding me? I'm 5'2, 98 pounds. And I'm skinny. I think I have a good personality, and I'm not flat. But I am constantly told by guys to gain weight. And it sucks. I have a fast metabolism so it's difficult. And I especially hate it when girls think they have to lose weight to be attractive.

If a guy doesn't find you attractive the way you are, then shoot he shouldn't be with you anyways. Us girls have to accept what we have even if it's hard. But don't you ever think that you have to be skinny to get a guy. I've been seeing that around here a lot. Just saying. I have to tell myself that if guys don't like me skinny then that's their loss. So embrace it. If I was bigger, I know I would.

2007-12-24 06:14:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband for 3 years, we've been married only a year. When we first got together I wanted sex alllll the time anywhere, that's how high my sex drive was, but now it's really bad. I don't even want to have sex anymore....Let me tell you how bad it is......Do you know sometimes in the middle of the night my husbad tries to have sex and I pretend that I'm sleep until he just stops trying. When I do get horny I masturbate intead of telling him. I need help, this may ruin my relationship, I can't tell him I'm not interested anymore ( he's a man..PLEASE HELP

2007-12-24 06:12:29 · 40 answers · asked by Love Angel 3 in Marriage & Divorce