im 16 and we usually had sex atleast every weekend now he just says not nnow or that he's to busy..
am i ugly or something??
im really tall and a little chubby.
im scared he doesnt like me anymore
any suggestions?
2007-12-24 06:54:47 · 35 answers · asked by sadie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop think about it you guyss are teens that why .. What would happen if you got prego??? Im 27 have 2 boys and bearly can afford them and they take up every minute i have .. be happy because later on you will be greatful to have you freedom still.
2007-12-24 06:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadie,
You are not ugly. You have a bf and he was having sex with your atleast every weekend until recently. So, you are attractive and desirable.
Now, the current problem is he is no more having sex with you. He sayshe is busy. He could be. Or it may be something else. The best thing you can do now is to stop worrying, stop thinking bad of you.
Just give some time to him. Maybe 2-3 weeks so that you are sure you gave him enough time. After that, if still things dont change or if he does not even do heavy petting or cuddling up, you talk to him. Tell him you are missing being physically close to him and ask him why things have changed now.
Your age is quite early for all these and regular sex, so, it may be good that you have a break in between.
Take care.. All the best..
Merry Christmas and A Very Happy New Year to You..
2007-12-24 07:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak to him about it. He might not tell you the truth but it will help more than asking here judging by some of the replies.
It might be because of other things in his life or a chemical imbalance resulting in a lowered sex drive. Or it could be something simpler like him not being attracted to you as much anymore. Sex is often more exciting with a fresh partner, it's only natural. Don't worry about it too much and make the most of the time you have,
2007-12-24 07:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, at 16, there are more important things in life than having sex with someone, and especially someone who doesn't sound like they're that interested anymore. Stop wrecking your self-esteem over this, this guy probably got what he wanted, and now is being a jackass and keeping you around for whatever reason. Harsh to say I know, but, it's the reality. You play with sex and men at a young age, and you learn life and relationships are alot harder, and take more maturity than you realize. Dump this guy before he completely destroys you, cuz it sounds like he's already starting, and concentrate on being a fun teenager.
2007-12-24 07:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by lisarizer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you doing having sex anyway? You're 16, you can't find anything better to do? And so because he won't sex with you, that means he doesn't love you anymore? Maybe he's just realized that what y'all were doing "every weekend" wasn't right. Maybe one day you'll realize it to.
Your relationship shouldn't be all about sex. Why not find something else to do? Go to the movies, or go eat, or go look at Christmas lights.
2007-12-24 07:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's tired of being treated like nothing more than a sex object. For crap's sake child, let the boy be. Keep your damn clothes on and find more worthwhile things to do. A relationship is not and should not be based on sex. You need to grow up and learn this.
2007-12-24 06:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A few reasons:
1) He's getting some from another girl behind your back
2) Medical reason he isn't telling you about
If he suddenly stops and he was getting it on every weekend something is up.
3) He fell in love and is getting it from from Adam or Steve and is too tender for you after his last encounter.
2007-12-24 07:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by triton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he thought you were ugly or something he wouldn't have had sex with you in the first place.
Maybe he really is tired or busy.
Or maybe, just maybe, he is a little tired of sex and just wants to hang out.
2007-12-24 06:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by You're Driving Me Crazy 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's cheating on you. Like he's found a "hotter" girl.
Or maybe he is too busy.
Or since you're having sex at least every weekend, he's probably tired of it. You two syouldn't have sex so often. Keep it once a month, on random days, so he'll want "it" more.
2007-12-24 06:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Thao Kun 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
how about NOT having sex in the first place... you're still young! i know exaclty wht im takling about coz im 16... just leave that for marriage then you wouldn't be worried. and even if you were ugly, that shouldn't matter because it's the beauty inside that counts.
2007-12-24 07:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋