I found out that my boyfriend cheated,when I confronted him,he says that he & I are gonna stay together no matter what,he also said that he is gonna kiss & sleep w/ other girls,& said that Im not allow to even talk to other guys,dont know what to do,any advice?
2007-12-24 06:40:46 · 16 answers · asked by Alicia L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
umm..
your gonna end up on Dr.Phil if you dont drop him.
2007-12-24 06:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds scary. It sounds like 1) you NEED a restraining order 2) tell a close friend or family member what's going on so that they can be alert. If you are living with him, LEAVE. He has no respect for you and must think you can treat you that way. There is no need to even give him a head's up or discuss anything further with him. Because if a man can say something like that, it is not beyond him to follow through with whatever actions necessary to make them happen. I don't mean to scare you but there are crazy people out there, and yes, they do stupid things.
2007-12-24 07:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read these three sets of articles, carefully:
Sexual Harassment :
- A Global Problem
- How to Protect Yourself http://watchtower.org/e/19960522/article_01.htm
Help for Battered Women! :
- "Maybe This Time He'll Change"
- Why Do Men Batter Women?
- Help for Battered Women
- Machismo--A Global Problem
- Correcting Misconceptions
http://watchtower.org/e/20011108/article_01.htm
Women--What Does the Future Hold for Them? :
- Discrimination Against Females
- Appreciating Women and Their Work
- What Does the Future Hold for Women? http://watchtower.org/e/19980408/article_01.htm
2007-12-24 20:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his candy as$, that is not love. Do you really think you desrve that. I dont think so. He is a sick bastard with no feelings. Kissing other girls my as$. And who knew that he took the role of your father all of a sudden. If your going to break up with him and your kinda scared have your family around, do it in a public place, that kinda stuff just for safety. Good luck. If he is acting like that now, imaging later on in a few years. No girl let that as$hole go. GO!
2007-12-24 06:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by dianadee17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though leaving a bad relationship can be hard, it will be even harder to look at yourself in the mirror when you are allowing yourself to become a doormat. You have to believe that you deserve to be respected, and if you are not, you have the right to make changes. I'd say, tell him the conditions under which you will stay, if he still disagrees, leave. you can do it. good luck. Dr. Max S.
2007-12-24 06:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by therapyphd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choice one. Drop him for his immaturity and controlling and cheating.
Choice two. Stay with him and get treated like dirt and watch him cheat on you constantly.
Hope you make the right decision for you and your future, and have a Merry Christmas.
2007-12-24 06:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what to do? I think this guy is convinced that you will stay with him regardless of what he does. Leave him, or else pretend to leave him and see how he responds.
2007-12-24 06:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be okay with this because anyone with any smarts knows the answer to this already.
2007-12-24 06:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an order of protection on him!
2007-12-24 06:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by annita g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you accept it will you be happy in a year? If you go find someone else will you be happier in a year?
2007-12-24 06:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Yeppers! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!!
WHY WOULD YOU EVEN WANT TO STAY WITH HIM.
unless he abusing you. if he is, call the police but first get proof.
2007-12-24 06:45:40 · answer #11 · answered by x_daddyslittleangel_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋