okay well im in 8th grade, i have never had a boyfriend, and i have never been kissed (by a guy)
so i need help!
can u tell me if im pretty or ugly!
i need to know cause yeah i wanna find out why guys dont ask me out!
here is a picture!
1: me with make-up (did it for fun!) http://photos-c.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v159/85/117/736897088/n736897088_222678_4370.jpg
2: me without make-up
http://photos-088.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v136/85/117/736897088/n736897088_183527_8724.jpg
PLEASE TELL ME WAT U THINK!! truth is all i need!
2007-12-24 06:47:55 · 30 answers · asked by asmaa(: 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're pretty. Maybe dudes don't ask you out b/c your in the 8th grade and there's not much of a point. Like hey I'll ask my mom if she'll drop us off at the movies so we can make out and then go drink root beer. Most guys get intimidated when asking out women that they think are attractive. Give it a few years and things will get better. Like one time I got so nervous asking out a chick I accidently sharted myself. I really wish I hadn't shared that.
2007-12-24 06:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by A55H0L3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well, let me tell you i didnt get my first kiss til summer before my junior yeear in high school. I thought the same thing, why aren't guys into me am i ugly..etc.
but here it is.
1. guys probably like you but they are intimidated so its easier to go for the girls they know they wont get denied by.
2. you look like a smart girl and guys are intimidated by smart girls. let me tell you!
3. When it's the right time you will have a boyfriend and first kiss, mine was all my junior year and i was ready by then. don't worry bout not daitng in middle school, it gets better and more mature in high school but the best is after high school. less drama
so in a way you're lucky you haven't been sucked into the dramatic world of "he cheated on me with her, he is talking to her" blah blah. lifes much simpler without it.
you are a pretty girl, as long as you feel pretty stay confident and realize youre better than those immature intimidated boys you'll do fine and will have tons of bfs when its right :]]
i promise
2007-12-24 06:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by hihihi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a very beautiful young lady with or without makeup.
One mistake many young people make is they look for other people to validate them but beauty and confidence comes from within. If you begin to feel better about yourself and focus on the good things, you will begin to except your gifts and reflect inner beauty which inturn draws intrest. Be careful because you are still learning about yourself and you want to stay focused on the positive, this way you protect your heart until you are truly ready to take on a relationship. Besides these boys don't even know what they want or how to go about getting it so beware.
2007-12-24 07:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by calandra g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships at your age? Darling, you're not ready for disappointment in this stage of your life. Your education is more important as well as your friends. I didn't get a boyfriend until I was nearly 17 and I never broke up with him yet. I prefer commitment over dating anyday, but to each his own, y'know? Dating seems to be quite degrading to me. True love is in commitment. Only then will you be truly happy with a lover when you both agree to devote yourselves to each other forever.
2007-12-24 06:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only in the 8th grade, you don't need to worry about dating, right now it'll just complicate your life, trust me. When i was in 8th grade all i wanted was a bf but now im so glad i didn't start dating then. Just wait untill your older, your still a kid, so have fun and enjoy your life, happy holidays!!
2007-12-24 06:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by JulyFire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your eyes seem to be your special feature. Try using makeup but sparingly. Too much eye shadow makes you look like a racoon. Makeup is made to enhance...not make you look like a kubuki player in medieval Japan.
Applied properly you'll find yourself beating off hordes of guys with a stick.
2007-12-24 06:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your pretty!
be confident.
i've never had a boyfriend, but thats cause i just dont want one.
your time will come.
relationships barely last in 8th grade, so dont waste your time crying and obsessing over boys, until you find the perfect guy.
go have fun with your friends, because they are the ones who will always be there, unlike guys who come and go!
hope i have helped you! happy holidays! (:
2007-12-24 06:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by sugarsweeti13 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah um i'm a 27yr old male and I dont think that your ugly, my honest opinion is that you shouldnt worry about kissing boys, your too young for all that stuff you should just focus on hanging out with your friends and having fun, theres plenty of time for all that stuff when you get older, but dont think its becuase your ugly your only 12.
2007-12-24 06:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by K.O. Fa sho 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on a scale of 1 to 10 you are a 10 don't worry about the boys they will be around soon enough
2007-12-24 06:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Pooky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not ugly and wether ppl say you are or arnt deep down you know you are and im sure many guys think you are beautyfull and cute and all
everyone has their own taste for GF/BF so dont worry you wont be single for long or for a long time after that
2007-12-24 06:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋