People who have been mean to you...treated u like crap for no reason....do you REALLY forgive them?
2007-12-24 07:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by S i r i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's more than just forgiving. You also have to forget. It sounds cliche but it's true. The only way I can forgive someone who has done me wrong is to forget that it ever happened. If you're sitting around letting it marinate all the time, of course you're never going to forgive them. If you just accept that some people have issues and take them out on others in a negative way to make themselves feel better, then you can forgive them for being that way. In the end you will feel like a better person because you will not have any wieghts holding you down.
2007-12-24 07:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by ForestGirl20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had my share of crap in my life...ppl who meant the world to me and then back stabbed me and treated me like **** for no reason, after lots of things i do forgive but i never forget...some wounds can never heal, so keep an open heart, give people second chances, just keep an eye on them, and dont just throw ur trust out casually to everyone...be careful.
"I trust every body i just dont trust the devil inside them" The Italian Job
2007-12-24 16:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by F15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think of too many people as real enemies Only those who make themselves so. Enemy is a serious word. Yes, if they show that they won't mess with me anymore or apologize if it's super serious I would forgive them.
2007-12-25 00:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it juss depends...if one of my friends talked crap behind my back i wouldnt forgive them but if it is somethin stupid like over a boy u only had for a less than a mounth the yes forgive them
2007-12-24 16:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by lonsomecowgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.Well I have not enemies.But if I should have enemies,I will forgive them,and move on,and never deal with them again.Because we can not be fool twice.very important question,yes.
2007-12-24 15:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.it btook me a year of praying but god took the hate away. now i love people carney
2007-12-24 16:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by pastor carl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!
but....
i wont talk to them for life!
2007-12-24 15:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by bianca ysabelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋