you have sex in a relationship. i know it varies between people. so i just need some opinions.
2007-12-24 07:37:22 · 23 answers · asked by Nany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whenever the time feels right.
2007-12-24 07:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some wait 3 days, some 3 months.. (usually it's one or the other)
For some reason a lot of people use the number 3 for it... Just depends on the relationship.
2007-12-24 15:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say wait until after 6 months, and thats early..only because the first 6 months are trial an error time, still getting used to eachother and comfortable aoround eachother. 6 monnths then starts to qualify for a long term relationship which is what you need or should have when having sex. So if you don't want to wait til marriage then least wait til 6 months so you know he is serious bout the relationship and you are too.
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2007-12-24 15:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by hihihi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am 14 and 1/2 and a virgin so 2 and 1/2 years + until I might have sex with anyone cause until i am 17 i am not having sex at all after that who knows if the time is right and its with the right person no need to wait longer otherwise i will wait!
2007-12-24 15:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Avaria 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It varies widely. Some will have sex on the first date (or before an official date) others refuse until they've said "I do".
My preference is fairly early in the dating relationship (first date has happened, but isn't what I prefer or shoot for). Being sexually compatible is important to me though, so it's something I want to know about before we get very deeply involved in other ways...and I just happen to enjoy sex.
To each, their own. âºâ»
2007-12-24 15:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
W, I'm a fast mover so I try for the 1st date. If it doesn't happen on the 1st date, that's good cuz then I get bored with that person cuz there's nothing to wait/anticipate for. Sorry if this makes me sound like a "pig," but that's just me.
2007-12-24 15:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by "Johns" 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wwhen it feels right just plan a night for it and go for it. Make it special and romantic so he doesn't think you're just giving it up for the sake of giving it up. Let him know it means something to you. If it's a newer relationship make sure you use protection and birth control. :-D
2007-12-24 15:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on as long as possible. I'm telling you, we (women) hold the power and we don't realize it. Hold out, hold out, hold out. It changes the relationship because we (women) are emtional by nature. Unless you can handle what comes along with involving sex, HOLD OUT! Trust me, it pays off in the end.
2007-12-24 15:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by shana43229 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to really know the guy/girl
You have to know if he/she had sex before
Wait till u know him/her better
2007-12-24 15:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually aim for seconds but sometimes It takes a couple months
2007-12-24 15:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the people and the relationship. its not the # of days--its how well u connect outside of bed
2007-12-24 15:40:52 · answer #11 · answered by LavenderLover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋