2007-12-24 07:18:47 · 13 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What and Who you are O.C. has nothing to do with that Guy.
Don't Let Him Take Control over you to the point that you loose yourself.
Remember who you were before he came in your Life and Don't Allow this person to Drag You Down.
Everyone is here for a reason and you are a Special Person with or without him. If he let You Go it is his loss and You Pick yourself up and Say I know who I am and what I want out of my Life.You are Most likely Better off with out him even though I know you are in pain right now. This too Shall Pass. Believe me you will look back on all this soon and it will be a well Learned lesson. Sometimes they are Hard-But it makes us tougher and we can use this to better ourselves. Good Luck Sweet-Heart- You are on My mind and I'm pulling for you.
2007-12-24 09:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say find that one gift that you do better than anyone you know and practice it, but, lately (yeah, the self esteem bug stole mine away for awhile too) I find that learning a new hobby has really turned my bummed out feeling into a "feelin Groovy" time. I won't say which hobby, (you can probably figure it out from my old answers and questions) but, get one that you have never done and the focus taken off your self alone will brighten your day. Plus my son walked up looked at what I was doing and asked if there was anything I couldn't do? Damn! I Rock!
2007-12-24 07:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't specify how you were robbed of your self esteem to begin with.
Don't delve on it. Don't think about it. Look at yourself in the mirror each day and repeat:
I am a beautiful person. Nobody is going to make me feel down and miserable.
I'm my own best friend and other people will have to earn my respect not demand it.
2007-12-24 07:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can steel your self esteem. The only person that can effect it is you.
You made a bad choice. You had a feeling that it was the wrong thing to do. You did not listen. Now, to in-print your mistake, you are punishing yourself. When you are done, you will start again. Smarter, I hope.
2007-12-24 07:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by jeff shaffer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By taking responsiblity for your actions and quit blaming people of "robbing" you of anything when YOU make the choices you make.
2007-12-24 08:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend did the same thing to me and i am still working on mine he never had anything good to say about me he even called me names and said that i did everything wrong and told me eveything was my failt.i don't know how to help you but if you ever need to talk to someone you can email me anytime my email address is thepimpshellie@yahoo.com
2007-12-24 07:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not possible. It's "self" esteem, not "his" esteem.
Get a clue and take control of your own life.
2007-12-24 07:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
By standing up for yourself instead of solicting advice here. try thinking for yourself for a change. thats always a good start.
2007-12-24 07:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, you should start by taking responsibility for your choices. As Eleanor Roosevelt wisely said "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent". So......stop consenting and take control of your emotions.
2007-12-24 12:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by CateCarter27 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get in a bible-based church. Do some self-help reading and just know.......GOD DON'T MAKE JUNK..you are WONDERFULLY AND FEARFULLY MADE..by God. Say that yourself every morning eventually...it will get down in your spirit because you are.....WONDERFULLY AND FEARFULLY MADE..
2007-12-24 07:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋