Ok I slept with a guy and afterward realized it was a huge mistake. I don't want anything more to do with him, but he keeps calling and texting me and basically acting like he owns me now. He hasn't threatened me about the pics but I'm afraid of what he might do once he realizes I'm not going to give it up again.
2007-12-24 07:39:14 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"does he have pics of you guys havin sex"
yes!
"Just live with it, we all make mistakes. If anyone asks be like "hell yah i slept with him"."
um..i don't know how to put this but he's black and i don't want that kind of reputation.
2007-12-24 08:04:43 · update #1
"If he tries to blackmail you with some pics just tell him to think twice. Chicks aren't impressed with what he's carrying around. If you can't beat em be an A55H0L3."
I don't think this would work if he is very large??
2007-12-24 08:17:24 · update #2
Haha you removed one of your stupid questions didnt you (of belonging to black guys)? cause people knew you are joking(fake acount)
I'll tell what your next question will be:
Oh i missed my period am i pregnant.
Oh i tested positive for pregnancy
Infantile BS
2007-12-25 10:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by freeboyonearth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not interested in him. If he tries to blackmail you with some pics just tell him to think twice. Chicks aren't impressed with what he's carrying around. If you can't beat em be an A55H0L3.
2007-12-24 07:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by A55H0L3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should ask him 2 meet u for a date in public like the movies or a resturaunt only one date so u can get 2 use his phone.. get good in2 the date and be like can i use your phone 2 make a quick call because my phones going dead and i have a text that say call immediatley and i want 2 make sure everything is aight or say u left ya phone home and u want 2 make sure u lock ya door at your house so u want 2 call somone 2 go check make up any excuse and asked can u be excused and u delete your photos!!!!and then return and act normal till the dates over and never call him again!!!!
2007-12-24 07:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by mz.Un4gettable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live with it, we all make mistakes. If anyone asks be like "hell yah i slept with him". They aren't going to make fun of you or anything like that if they know that it doesn't bother you. And sooner than you think, it will go away.
2007-12-24 07:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rowz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and tell him what happened between you was a mistake. If you don't feel safe telling him alone, take a friend or adult you trust with you. He may think you still like him; you did sleep with him after all. You need to let him know how you feel.
2007-12-24 07:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by trivkc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a older brother or a good BIG friend--have one of them pay the guy a visit requesting that the picture be removed at once.
2007-12-24 07:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one save those texts and voice mails he sends.
If he does try to bribe you, you can always go to the police and report it. You'll have proof, and you should probably get a restraining order on the prick while your at it.
This is all assuming he tries to bribe you. Or if he stalks you. Or threatens your safety.
2007-12-24 07:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hang out with him then ask to barrow his phone and delete the pics then say good bye and leave!
2007-12-24 07:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him on one last date and say you forgot you phone and you really needed to make a phone call, walk away delete the pics and give him the phone back. it will be like it never happened.
2007-12-24 07:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by rawritsjamiegrrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sucks and he is a jerk...but whats done is done. Try to accept that. You have learned a great lesson. Never let anyone take pictures and never put anything questionable in writing.
2007-12-24 07:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ernie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you got 2 choices.
1) Sleep with him again, and when he falls asleep delete the pics on his phone, and then dump him
2) Dump him now, and take your chances with what he does.
2007-12-24 07:42:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋