My bf's ex came back into his life, and he just recently told me that hes not completly over her. He basically told me that he's still in love with her. But he says that he does love me, and still wants to be with me. I love him, but I dont know what to do. Should I end it with him?
2007-12-24 11:09:35 · 17 answers · asked by Ally C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him a.s.a.p
2007-12-24 11:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ipek K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you should end it. A relationship where your boyfriend or husband loves someone else never, ever ends up going well. So tell him that you just can't be with him anymore. You could still be friends, but really, I'd say just break up.
I'm sorry for my bad advice and the situation you're in.
Godspeed and Merry Christmas! ^^
From ~ Kidalanna
2007-12-24 19:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by kidalanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to lose feelings for your ex especially if they're your first love but don't let that get to you. He can't control his feelings but he does love you.. Tell him you don't want him and his ex to have any contact and if it does happen, end the relationship because he told you that he was still in love with her. For now, continue your loving for him as he will for you and one day, he will lose all feelings for his ex and only love you. :)
2007-12-24 19:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him a choice, the ex or you. If he's not completely over her how can he love you? Of course he wants to be with you, I'm sure he want to be with her too. One or other and be glad you found out now.
2007-12-24 19:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by wolfster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only end it after you have given yourself sometime to think about what it is that you want. Do you lovehim? rather are you in love with him? He may love his ex and be in love with you.
Give him some space to see who he wants. You wanta man who can give you his all and nothing less.
Question her- what does she want?
But wait- never make any decision when you are emotional.
2007-12-24 19:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Moni S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes end it. Hun he cant give you the love you deserve if hs hearts with another. I am very sure he loves you. But until he can let go of her. He not going to be fully with you in hs heart and you deserve to be loved 100% not 50% if you like to chat more please contact me
2007-12-24 19:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's time to move on, Don't let him have the best of both worlds. Find someone whose not confused and knows what he wants. Good Luck!
2007-12-24 19:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea bc if he still has feeling this girl to then hes gonna have 2 decide who to pick bc although he may love u he may not be in love with u.its just the harsh reality=((IT SUX lol)
2007-12-24 19:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kristal C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he is telling you that he is/was inlove with his ex. and that he loves you. You may never be able to change his feelings once a person is inlove they are always inlove. good luck bye, jennie
2007-12-24 19:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but let him go
same thing happend to me exact story actually and i thought id give him time
eneded up he cheated on me with her
either break it off with him or spend some time apart and see what happends
sorry i know it sucks but trust me it is the best thing to do even though its not what you want to hear
2007-12-24 19:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you love him but that you will start letting your feeling grow for other men and that you will focus back on him, when he is ready.
2007-12-24 19:14:23 · answer #11 · answered by Bobby K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋