her parents are crazy, she cant go anywhere and its christmas break
but she wont come
2007-12-24 11:05:07 · 23 answers · asked by johnny B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to all of you who think im a bad person you have no idea
her parents hit her and dont let her go anywhere
im trying to show her that people actually care about her.. she doesnt respect her parents she hates them, and they deserve that
2007-12-24 11:20:01 · update #1
Smart girl.
2007-12-24 11:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. Do you care about her, or only if you can have what you want?
Asking a girl to go against her parents, no matter how "crazy" they may be, sets up a conflict in her, puts her in the position of choosing between them and you.
Why would you do that if you care for her?
Or do you?
If this girl is important to you, she should be more important than to risk her relationship with her family just so you can give her a smooch, "show your love" or even hold her hand.
If you care about her you will encourage her to reason with her parents, maybe even help by offering to meet them, helping them to trust her in your company, but not by encouraging her to break the rules.
Love is not selfish....
2007-12-24 19:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has strict parents then you will only be getting her into trouble by encouraging her to sneak out.
And as a mother of a daughter "GO TO YOUR ROOM AND STAY THERE!"
If you are trying to help this girl then you are going about it the wrong way as by putting her in a situation that can only cause her problems once she is caught. You need to think more of how to really help her and this is not the way.
2007-12-24 19:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And will you be there to pay the price with her when her parent's find out? Sounds like you are exactly the type of boy they are afraid about. She respects her parents.. or perhaps is even afraid of them. You, on the other hand... don't respect them at all. That's no basis for a relationship.
She's right not to go with you.
2007-12-24 19:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Twice as Nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Girl. Nothing good ever comes out of sneaking or lying. You need to respect her and not ask her to do something that would disrespect her parents wishes.
If you want to get to know her better, have her AND her parents over to your parents house for dinner. Be respectful.
2007-12-24 19:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think you should ask her to break the rules. It takes good character to not break the rules. And it wouldn't be worth it to sneek out anyways. She would be in a world of drama when she got home!
Can you hang out at her place? Even if the parentals are home?
2007-12-24 19:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Porsche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't. How are you going to talk her out of sneaking out of her house. That's obviously wrong and she's obviously right for not doing it. She doesn't want to defy her parents and take such a dangerous risk like that.
2007-12-24 19:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You talk her and her parents into letting you come over for a chaperoned evening together.
2007-12-24 19:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents already tell her what to do. Now you want to tell her what to do, too? Sounds like you are just like them, you want to control her. What a prize you are, no wonder she doesn't want to be involved with you.
2007-12-24 19:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just going to get her into enough trouble! dont think about it! places are really crazy during this holiday. people are drunk.....the possibilities are endless. dont force her, she'll may never be able to go out with you if you get her in trouble!
2007-12-24 19:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by Nagito Dorito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋