Me & my boyfriend have been together not even a week
& I feel like he's pressuring me to makeout with him or even have s3x =/
I know I'm wayy too young, I'm only 14 & I'm not down to do any of that...
I'm still learning to makeouttt! Hahahaha :)
If he tries to make a move on me, or moves too fast I'm gonna have to breakup with him..
Good idea?
2007-12-24 11:10:52 · 24 answers · asked by Brii. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks guys! & He's a sophomore & I'm a freshman.
2007-12-24 11:22:31 · update #1
TOTALLY a good idea! dont let a jerk pressure you into things youre not ready to do. ESPECIALLY when youre way too young to do them
2007-12-24 11:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by vampire_princess_of_the_realms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great idea.
Never let anyone push you into what you are not ready to do. High Five to you!!! Stick to your guns.
You have plenty of time to get to know them as friends first. There are too many diseases and too many of unwanted pregnancies out there to be pushed. You are a good girl. Always tell them upfront what you are not going to do. That you just want to be friends and get to know them slowly. That way if they want someone who is easy, they know it isn't going to be you. I was not even allowed to date until I was 16 and even then, I was not ready.
I didn't date until I was almost 18 and then it was not all it is cracked up to be. I found that most guys your age and well into their late 20's cheat. I am not saying that all do that, just that was my experience. Most think with the wrong brain.
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
2007-12-24 11:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's moving too fast. If he doesn't respect that, then you need to stop even seeing him at all. There are lots of things to enjoy with a loving BF before you get that serious... and you have a ton of time.... The right boy would not pressure you to do anything you didn't want to. Tell him to step off....
2007-12-24 11:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Twice as Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All around this is a bad situation. You're clearly not comfortable with intimacy of any kind. Nor should you at that age.
Draw the lines. Let him know you feel pressured and uncomfortable. A boy who genuinely cares about you will stop it.
If he doesn't, break up with him. Sounds like he's only in it for the hookup.
2007-12-24 11:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by lolaimarobot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how old he is you might ask him if he's ready to do 15-20 for statutory rape.
The age of concent for sex is 16 in most states. Although I know kids are doing it a lot younger than that. You are a child and you don't need the hangups that a pregnancy at your age can bring.
2007-12-24 11:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is moving way too fast. If he acts like a jerk then tell him that if he wanted a Ho* for Christmas that its not you. So break up with him if he can't keep it in his pants or slow it down. Its not going anywhere and he has a hand to help him out if he thinks he's going to die.
Merry Christmas hon!
2007-12-24 11:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by *Beba* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea guys are stupid like that.
They think a relationship is all just about having sex.
But I think if he pressures you to do stuff that you dont want to do then, it would be the right thing to break up with him.
I know you love him but, its better than being forced to do this stuff u dont wanna do so yea good luk
2007-12-24 11:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ashleigh S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Idea Sweetums! He probably just wants you physically and not any other way which for a boy that age is pretty expected so you are better off without him!
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Kassandra
2007-12-24 11:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Kassandra♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you should take things slow. If he continues to pressure you into things then call it quits until he can stop acting like a dog.
2007-12-24 11:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tatianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he more then 4 years older than you. You have to tell him how you feel. If he does not listen, breakup with him. Good luck.
2007-12-24 11:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by ~Ellie-boo~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋