I guy I met months ago whose in another country recently exchange some pics of each other. And he said that I'm so pretty! LOL cuz I don't think I am. I don't know if really meant it cuz someone who knows him told me he's a player and has a beautiful GF.If I knew he had a GF wouldn't have bother. Why are men like that I never asked him to what he thought about the pics. Why bother and lie or is that the womenizer wants some action that's never gonna get from me anyway. What you think?
2007-12-24 11:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he wants a green card
2007-12-24 11:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by DAVE H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol you think too deeply into it... if a guys sees your picture and says your pretty. then take it as that. you are pretty.
But you should also understand, that if a guys says your pretty doesn't mean in any way that he wants to have a relationship with you. or has any intentions in breaking up with his girlfriend or even thinks your prettier than his girlfriend.
So i don't agree with you already getting angry and putting him under the generalization of him being a "bad guy" or "just like every other guy". from what you have posted he has done nothing wrong.
until he says he wants a relationship or whatever, then you can start digging for answers.
2007-12-24 19:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cwisteeny Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he honestly meant to just give you a compliment. You can flat out ask him.
Don't always go by what you hear by the third party, he said she said stuff.
I would just take the compliment and smile. You don't have to go anywhere with it.
Although there are some men who are players, don't assume he is. Sounds like he just wanted to give you a compliment.
I have met a lot of cheaters and finally found the one guy for me that I can honestly trust. Have faith.
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
2007-12-24 19:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then you are relying on an outsider's opinion who neither knows you or the other person. Not a good vibes.
My questions would be;
Do you have enough information about him to make an informed choice?
What are the consequences if the decision you make proves to be wrong?
Which of you loses more by your decision?
Is it a joint decision?
Are you merely flattered by his interest?
Finally, is he still interested?
This is a precious time in your life. I wish you the wisdom to choose wisely.
2007-12-24 19:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to people on the internet...........my advice is to run at the first sign of a shady person. Do not involve yourself any further with this person. For all you know, the person who knows him could just be him using another ID and using it to try to get feedback on how much of his crap you're actually buying.
2007-12-24 19:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Rock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may just be a flirt. i used to date a guy that i thought only wanted sex (I wouldn't give it to him) so he went out, got some from a few other girls, AND was talking to girls long distance online that he would never see! He is just a jerk who's girl crazy. If this guy you're talking about really has someone, then forget about him! Find someone who only loves you or date around and be okay w/ the guys also dating around.
2007-12-24 19:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by jenny n 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he wants to dump his GF for you and he really thinks you are pretty cuz!
2007-12-24 19:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to hurt your feelings but he probably is one of those fake guys. My advice is to not be so open and be cautious.
2007-12-24 19:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when are girls going to learn what boys and men want? i am so sorry to have to tell you - most of them want, you know.
if it's love you want then stop looking for it and it might come your way unexpected and from the right guy
2007-12-24 19:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should drop this guy. guys only says this because they want to sleep with u don't waste ur time on him move on.
2007-12-24 19:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋