i have a bf who are 3 month separated and two children it is hurting me to have this relationship because i know the fact that he would never put me 1 and i would never be his priority? and miserable feeling soround me everyday he werent there for me when i needed him most very sad,,he goes to me i will introduce you to my kids in two months time and this and that i am sicking tired of his excuce what should i do? we been out for 5 months now but i never felt happy of this relationship from day 1 i called it off most every week and change my number and everything but i ended up coming back to him why? do u think i love him? or just scared being alone or lonely? i am 24 and he 43 btw.he`s very insecure,posesive,obssesed too i am so confused what i should do ? i really want to end this craps for goods but he always say u need to be patience everything will be ok,,dont throw something good that we mingh have in the future this and that and that`s melt my heart,,, please help,,!!!!
2007-12-24 10:51:48 · 2 answers · asked by milarosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have listed many negative qualities about this man (possessive, makes excuses, etc.) but not a single good thing that would indicate why you might love him or even like him.
It sounds like you are insecure yourself to continue to be with a man that you seem to know is not the best for you. You say that you might have something good in the future but the truth is that it sucks right now, and it's probably not worth the trouble.
2007-12-24 10:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this guy. He's way too old for you and a loser to boot. He's only looking for one thing and you know what that is. Get some counseling. You really need it.
2007-12-24 18:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by mustanger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋