Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

I am 15 years old. I have lived in a town for the last fourteen years of my life. All my friends and family live there. My mom recently made us move four hours away, because of her boyfriend. Is it ok or legal for me to move in with my mammaw? Me and my mom cant get along for five minutes. We always argue and i hate it there. I dont know anyone and i have nobody to talk to. My mom dont realize that i dont like it there. Any advice?please?thank you.

2007-12-24 18:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-24 18:44:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like my friend, but I don't know if he likes me. A few people have asked me if we are dating. A few days ago on the bus, we were wrestling and poking each other. But then I mentioned that I could see why people would think we go out. All he said was "I'm too awesome for you. Hell, I'm too awesome for myself." What does he mean by that?

2007-12-24 18:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an older sister, she's high tempered, she bosses around everyday, I do a very tiny thing wrong she kinda swears and gets mad -_-.... If I don't do something for her she do something ( erases my game, she thinks it's her comp.). I can't hit her, but she can hit me, if I hit her my dad will kill me T_T.
I need help T_T

2007-12-24 18:41:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you react when your girlfriend starts acting weird because of depression? My girlfriend has been on meds for years but last week she switch kinds and it is really messing with her. She hasnt been sweet like she normally is, she forgets to call me, she acts like she cant carry on conversation with me (she wont start conversations, and if I try to she gives me those awful one word answers), she barely even acts like she wants to kiss me (much less anything else)... basicly I just feel like she doesnt want me, all because if her depression and meds. How do I talk to her about it without making her depression worse?

2007-12-24 18:40:11 · 14 answers · asked by filmdog103 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I consider a friend and he says he loves me. I care about him alot and also attracted to him, but I don't think it's a good idea for us to get together because of our age difference and our the difference in our socioeconomic status. I'm 15 years older and make 5 times more money than he does. I don't care about the differences but I know people around us will and it will eventually take it's toll on our relationship if we decide to get together. Any advice?

2007-12-24 18:36:14 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY FEET 3 in Singles & Dating

alri8 ,,m in love..but this guy only flirts around ...we are very good frns frm past one yr ..n i can understand y he flirts its bcoz he recently had a break off with his girl...i always had a crush on him but dumped the feeling ..now tht he is hurt i want to be there for him...! i recently went for a date with him ,,it was ma first date,...he embraced me ,kissd me on ma lips ...i was so damn nervous ...!! now i feel guilty ...have i done anythin wrong by kissin n all ?? i don want him to flirt with me..coz i really feel for him ..!! i kno he can never be mine ...but how do i save my frnship atleast ...

2007-12-24 18:31:40 · 9 answers · asked by Simi 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with him in May, and we worked together. At the time, i wasnt being treated right by him. I got transferred up until October, and got put back at the location he works at. He was very angry when he saw me, being that i was out of sight out of mind for 4 months. He was acting crazy, i ignored him and the managers noticed bc it was interferring with work and talked 2 him about it. He would mumble stupid things when i passed still but i decided 2 get him a bday card so he didnt think i hated him n i said its unfortunate about what happened, n i hope one day we can look passed everything and become friends again. He ended up not mumbling anything to me and had a positive effect. He looks at me often, n i knwo he is toos tubborn to talk 2 me. I didnt expect him too after i gave him teh card. Do u think i should write merry christmas?

they say kill em' with kindness right?

2007-12-24 18:30:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We hurt eachother a lot in our relationship. I guess he got more hurt than me. He has moved onto another girl.He tells me he is still hurting.

But does this mean he still has feelings?

2007-12-24 18:25:45 · 3 answers · asked by babe 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 35 yr old Indian guy working as professor in a US university. I have been living all alone here for 15 yrs now, ever since I came to the US to get my PhD and have been very lonely all along. I Sometime about 6 months ago, I reluctantly acceded to my family's "demand" that I get married and they fixed me up with this doctor girl and we spoke on the phone a few times; six times to be exact. Unfortunately, I was rather resigned in my conversations and didn't really communicate. She asked about my "past" and I told her point upfront that it was " blank". Of late, since I am supposed to go to India and marry her 3 weeks from now, I have started wondering (1) I never asked abt her "past" (2) Since I didn't communicate much, I am surprised that she actually agreed to marry me, so does she have too much of a "past" to be "unmarriageable" in the indian sense? (3) why did she even agree to marry me? am i getting into something i dont understand?

2007-12-24 18:22:27 · 9 answers · asked by mem1775 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was with this guy for 2 months, he started talking to me telling me how pretty i am blah, he came and visit me like 2-3 days a week,BUT today i just found out he has a gf!! she called me because i texted him telling him to come over and she had his phone and called me! she told me they were together for 2 years!!!!!!wtf he told me before we were going out that his last relationship ended 6 months ago! and he had no feelings for that person!!! so after she found out, they were obviously together tonight because i was texting him and called him and it took him awhile to reply, he did reply but when she was out of the room,he said he was sorry!! i feel like **** really, i always get hurt in relationships! its like guys see me as a easy target! he told me he will call me tommorow, and i dont know wat to say?? but my question is why would he do this to me????and what should i tell him on the phone tommorrow? were 19 by the way

2007-12-24 18:18:29 · 18 answers · asked by Portiá 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a black male and I feel dirty after I wake up from them, how do I stop them

2007-12-24 18:15:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are men stupid and women smart?

2007-12-24 18:14:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was about 5 (13 now), I was raped. The person who did it is very important to me, so I'm not turning him in to the police or anything. Now, getting to the point, I was wondering about how this could hava affected my personality. I tend to be a little faster to give away kisses and love than my friends, I guess because I feel that since someone stole my first ones, who cares what I do with the ones that follow. Is this because I was raped or is it just the person I am? Please help!

2007-12-24 18:12:44 · 9 answers · asked by midnafanatic 3 in Singles & Dating

im telling myself not to be clingy, and to fall for him slowly.

we hung out a couple times recently, though ive known him for about 3 years.

a couple days ago we went to my friends birthday where he knew no one. He acted as if we were in a relationship, with his arm around my shoulder and everything.

however i ask him whatsup with that and hes like "i do this to everyone"

i call him up today and ask if he wants to hang outand hes like okay...

i ask him about new years eve and hes like i dont know yet.

Im 17 and never was in a real relationship. he's 19, a guy of many words and not so much action. had 1-2 real relationships.

my friend says even if we hit it out he's going to still be the flirty self he is

how do i hit it out.. and how do i know if i have his heart?

2007-12-24 18:11:54 · 10 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay... well my boyfriend of 17 (almost 18) really wants to have sex with me. And lately... i've been wanting it too. We're sexually active.. and stuff. But i feel like i might go overboard, and i feel like don't want to and do at the same time.

I don't want to for the obvious reasons, like no pregnancy or sexual translated diseases. Also because i'm afraid it could be the only thing he likes me for, and eventually leave me. I want to give my virginity to the man i marry.

What can i do to stop myself?

2007-12-24 18:08:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Bear in mind that he has children

2007-12-24 18:06:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we talk online a couple times a week and are decent firends, she kind of knows i like her, but i try not to bring it up for fear of making her uncomfortable. What is the best way to tell her i am head over heels in love with her?

2007-12-24 18:01:45 · 1 answers · asked by humus02047@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok shes been drinking, and she just stuck her hand into the fishbowl and pulled out my goldfish and ate it. WTF do i do? i was gonna call the cops

2007-12-24 17:59:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do my GirlfriendSSS keep on accusing me of shaking my butt in a provocative way when all I do is just walk past them???

2007-12-24 17:58:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The vagina ... what does it mean to you?

2007-12-24 17:56:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys: if your gf asked you if you are cheating on her how would you react?

2007-12-24 17:53:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in my 20s and have never had a boyfriend. I'm current y
finishing university this year, but this holidays has got me thinking about this guy that I really care about (falling in love) and how I would love to be with him, but I'm scared it won't work out. He knows I want to go to med school, but I don't think he knows the magnitude of how life will change for me... You know, this is how it's always been. No time to even have fun in highschool b/c I was so focused, and I just don't see when it's ever going to pay off. I'm so sad now - I just feel like saying, we should just be friends, but I might break out in tears...

What do I do??

2007-12-24 17:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by mellei 1 in Singles & Dating

I will do what they want and I am good cook. I don't want another man, i know that. Ex in prison for selling crack. I think he gonna get killed in the prison. He snitched. But I have young ones from different boyfriends jsut to eat. I am sick of this. Not going back to Mexico. I been here longtime now.

2007-12-24 17:51:15 · 9 answers · asked by NYC Sewers 5 in Singles & Dating

Scenerio:
You are happily married and live in Massachusetts, but have lost your job. Finding another one in you area is not likely and the place where your field is growing is California, so you go to California where you think you have a better shot. On your second day there, you get in a horrendous car wreck and are hospitalized for the next four months. Under Massachusetts HB 113, a court shall issue a warrant for your arrest because you left Massachusetts for over 90 days without making "provisions for the support" of your spouse.

Should this be the law in all states?

2007-12-24 17:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since my childhood whoever i have been with only i used to adjust. whatever they used to say i was supposed to do and accept it, they never accept the things i say or they make just fun of me.Even now in present days the same thing is going on. what should i do?

2007-12-24 17:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and 3 months. Today while we were in the car we got on the subject of boxers. I told him i liked how he had these white boxers with the bunnies on them...that he hasn't wore for a long time. Then he gets upset with me and claims that he never had boxers with the bunny on them when i'm 80% sure he did. Now hes assuming that i cheated on him because i really thought that he had boxers that had bunnies on them. I think this is so wrong for him to accuse me of that just because of that. Especially when about 4 months ago i found a condom in his visor in his car when we haven't used condoms for about 10 months but he claims it was the one we had used but that was 10 months ago??? So why would he still have it up there??? But then i get accused because i thought he had a certain pair of boxers. Is this right for him to make me feel like this when I found a condom in his car? I need your advice....

2007-12-24 17:48:56 · 5 answers · asked by da2007 1 in Singles & Dating

sometimes I have trouble being on this site... i feel so bad for all the broken hearts and marriges lost and ones in danger.
I have caused pain and lived with it as well.
I just jotted down a lil poem... my heart as i read some of your questions and stories.... here goes

My heart goes out to those in pain.
who have lived with broken promises again and again.
The one who has cried over invested love lost, who tried to save at any cost.
May you once again find a companion soul and may your heart heal and you feel again whole.
May your blanket be not the only thing warm and home again be full of cheer as the days roll on to another year.
may you have the promises of days to come and the days of sorrow be distant, done.
May the kindness of others and love lighten your face and you feel at home and in back in place.
May the love of your God touch you within and you find your strength and start again.

God bless you all...Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!

2007-12-24 17:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by rufstuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy I like (he likes me too)sent me a comment on myspace saying
"merry christmas...."
to me it sounds like hes being mean or sarcastic I dont know why though.
why did he put all the dots for?

2007-12-24 17:47:53 · 25 answers · asked by bianca 5 in Singles & Dating

Rate these things from 1-10[1 not important, 10 very important]

Looks overall-
Body-
Hair-
Style-
Smarts-
Honesty-
Niceness-
Money-
Family orient-
Friends-

This isn't for a test or anything, I'm just curious. =]

2007-12-24 17:47:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating