There's this guy I consider a friend and he says he loves me. I care about him alot and also attracted to him, but I don't think it's a good idea for us to get together because of our age difference and our the difference in our socioeconomic status. I'm 15 years older and make 5 times more money than he does. I don't care about the differences but I know people around us will and it will eventually take it's toll on our relationship if we decide to get together. Any advice?
2007-12-24 18:36:14 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY FEET 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think that you should worry about what other people think. If you care about him and him you then why not go for it. If you dont there will always be a "what if" and if you do you never know he could be "the one". dont worry about other people do what makes you happy.
2007-12-24 18:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would only take a toll on your relationship if you allow it . By worrying what other people think will do that . Do what you feel inside . It should be about you two . Not anyone else . Maybe he might be the one guy you've been looking for . Take a chance on it .
2007-12-25 02:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by coach.ricky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like/love him then forget what people may say. I think as long as ur not supporting him, completely then don't worry about the money thing. Its just money after all. As for the age thing i say go head on, men have been doing it for years with out question.
2007-12-25 03:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by buttacupsl2r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your hart. If he makes you happy and you him then what does it matter. Life for the moment, don't worry about tomorrow till it gets here so to speak. Tomorrow you may be looking back on great memories.
2007-12-25 02:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Stockton C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you care what people think about you dating him?? also age is just a number so what if you like him go out with him and people that you work with should just mind there own business weather your dating him or not.... never care what people think or say about you liking him or dating him
2007-12-25 02:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not mean to hurt your feelings, but that
is truly a goofy question.
find a man your age who makes ten times more than
you do.
2007-12-25 02:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for money or sex, look for love
2007-12-25 02:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell me ur his teacher
2007-12-25 02:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋