I broke up with him in May, and we worked together. At the time, i wasnt being treated right by him. I got transferred up until October, and got put back at the location he works at. He was very angry when he saw me, being that i was out of sight out of mind for 4 months. He was acting crazy, i ignored him and the managers noticed bc it was interferring with work and talked 2 him about it. He would mumble stupid things when i passed still but i decided 2 get him a bday card so he didnt think i hated him n i said its unfortunate about what happened, n i hope one day we can look passed everything and become friends again. He ended up not mumbling anything to me and had a positive effect. He looks at me often, n i knwo he is toos tubborn to talk 2 me. I didnt expect him too after i gave him teh card. Do u think i should write merry christmas?
they say kill em' with kindness right?
2007-12-24 18:30:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it seems you care more than you should about him. Maybe deep inside you still want to get him back but it seems you do not admit that.
Send him that Xmas card - there is lots to gain and nothing to lose.
2007-12-24 18:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by gageki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...he does not want this relationship. Don't treat him differently than any other co-worker...now don't go texting all your co-workers just to be able to contact him. Leave it be even though you want to text him...Keep yourself busy with other things. Merry Christmas.
This may cross a line at work and there's a slim possibility that it could be considered harassment. You really don't want to go there. (Remember they already talked to him...who knows what he said and what might be in the works. Don't give anybody any reason to take action against you.)
2007-12-24 18:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by southwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can "kill em with kindness" but too much kindness can resurrect and bring them back to life. He's probably getting mixed messages from you like you're trying to get back together. How ever you do communicate with him, make sure that he understands that you just want to be friends and any animosity needs to be put to rest so that he can stop the immature behavior and move on with his life like you've done with yours.
2007-12-24 19:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look a guy will never be "JUST A FRIEND" so if ur not thinking of reconecting dont even think abut it ( wen i say just a friend i mean after a breakup) find someone else go other place if u can stand his mumbling (if posible) get a new gob
and MERRY XMAS HAVE FUN WITH F&F AND DONT LET HIM GET U SAD!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-24 18:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course!
you're sincere. he was obviously bitter about the break up,even months after it happened. and probably thought you were a biiiyattch. but after your card to him, i'm sure he came to his senses.
the text is also a good way to be friends again. :)
it'll maybe start new conversations?
2007-12-24 18:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by ohspareme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SG, Sure, as long as it's done tastefully with you naked---lol. Just kidding. That'd be sweet, YES. Merry Christmas and good luck SG!!!
2007-12-24 18:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by "Johns" 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I advise against it; you will be sending mixed signals.
Consider this: he may be less belligerent since you gave him his birthday card, because he thinks there might still be a chance with you.
2007-12-24 18:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Signor Spaghetti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let everything go and leave him alone. It sounds as if he had a hard time when you came back.
2007-12-24 18:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want him but does he want you? - Maybe not. You are playing games. Stop and grow up a little.
2007-12-24 18:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by markisboss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're giving him the message that you want to get back together. Don't fool yourself.
2007-12-24 18:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by the Boss 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋