Since my childhood whoever i have been with only i used to adjust. whatever they used to say i was supposed to do and accept it, they never accept the things i say or they make just fun of me.Even now in present days the same thing is going on. what should i do?
2007-12-24 17:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you have to be someone that you are not or should I say bend to be friends with someone that is not your friend. Be YOU if they don't accept it then find a new friend.
2007-12-24 17:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by tikababy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should be letting people know how you feel about things at the time don't wait for things to build up. Secondly you need to learn how to live your life for yourself, within reason of course. You are not here to please your so-called friends, it is your life grab control and take charge.
If you need to make some new friends and want to meet some caring people, volunteer some of your time to a local charity, you will meet some good people there. You don't meet many friends in a bar just drinking buddies.
2007-12-25 01:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by freywayne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to open up more to those friends you want to be accepted by. hanging out with these people just because you want to fit in isn't going to be your answer, a friendship is double sided you can't expect someone to notice you just because you notice them you have to give them something to notice and-being yourself is the best way to do that. just try to ignore all the what if thoughts.
2007-12-25 04:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by tc_sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them as companions, or associates, not trusted friends. Keep on searching for more associates. If you are lucky, you may get a true friend also.
2007-12-31 11:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ajay D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**old is gold**
u can lose friends fast but it takes a long time to find true friends dear
2007-12-25 02:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to speak up let them know your opinion count to.....
JUST SPEAK UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is not a friendship because they don't care how you are feeling about what they THINK you like.
2007-12-25 01:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by ladibuggs917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a fool.When they did like that you should have slowly.now they won't leave you.They will come to your mother and complain that you are ignoring them
2007-12-25 02:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by kaamil z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very easy change friend's
2007-12-25 01:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by alfie thai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS LONG U R ALIVE
2007-12-25 01:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jawhar H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let that ship sail away from you.
2007-12-25 05:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋