Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

I've been seeing this guy a month now, I'm eighteen and he's 23. He works 5 days a week and lives an hour from me. He seems to be honest and when we hang out things are good, the chemistry is great. Problem is we never get to see each other cause of me going to college and him working all the time NOT TO MENTION he loves to hunt whenever he possibly can. He always tells me he will come and see me, but never pulls through on it. This has happened atleast five times now, but yet we still talk everyday. He's finally pulled my last straw by us planning to go out Saturday, but yet I didn't ever hear from him that day or the next day either. I tried talking to him and received no response. Now he is trying to talk to me and I've been completely ignoring him. I finally told him it ISN'T ok to walk out of my life a few days then expect things to be fine when he returns. He admitted to messing up. What's up with this? No matter what happens he always comes back, but what's the deal?

2007-12-24 17:43:57 · 9 answers · asked by Sherry 2 in Singles & Dating

alright i just got a boyfriend and im nervous to kiss him any tips?

2007-12-24 17:43:13 · 13 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I learn to fight fair and stay on the issue?

2007-12-24 17:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you know if men are broke virgin or not?

2007-12-24 17:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by Mommy to be<3 Due 03/09/11 4 in Singles & Dating

(not like a porn model, like an art nude model for nude photography)

and she says you can't go to her photo shoots with her because it makes her uncomfortable and is distracting and unprofessional, what would you do?
would you tell her no, you don't let her,

tell her that you don't want her to and if she does then you will leave her,

tell her that you don't want her to but it's her body and you can't really stop her,

or tell her yeah why not, you think it's cool..

or.. something else.

2007-12-24 17:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by mr_fillerbunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very opinionated and have high expectations of people (friends, family). Whenever I feel angry, slighted, or if they do not meet my expectations, I then express to them my feelings, most of the time, in the heat of the moment, which leads to me saying hurtful things. I am then later upset at myself for "laying in to them." How do I stop being so quick to tell people "like it is?" When I hold in what I am thinking and/or feeling, I feel like I am being fake.

2007-12-24 17:36:55 · 17 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he's courting me for almost 2 weeks...this christmas he told that he will go home to his hometown...i communicate with him everyday...and then i find out that he didn't spend christmas with his parents...i doubt..!who is he spending christmas with? he's own family? or maybe he has already a girlfriend that he spend his christmas with her....before he left he asked me if i want him to stay with me or not...i told him just go home spend it with your family...how would i know him better...i dont know anybody who knows him...what would i do to know him better.....pls help....

2007-12-24 17:34:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this guy friend we went to a fastfood chain to have breakfast after work.. we both ordered spaghetti..and then while were eating i noticed him looking in my lips while im eating my spaghetti and then back into my eyes..does it have meanings?

2007-12-24 17:33:53 · 8 answers · asked by blue_angel08 1 in Singles & Dating

he smells bad. he is a loser. please help me so i can tell him.












say yes

2007-12-24 17:33:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 22 years old and in college. I have been friends with this girl for about 3 months. I like to think we’re pretty good friends… we joke around and stuff. But I don’t know how to approach her. I want to ask her out but I don’t want it to get weird between us. I sometimes get the feeling that maybe shes out of my league. I cant really tell lol. anyway..ive been thinking about asking her out for 2 months and havent done so. I am sort becoming obsessed with her at this point. ( i facebook-stalk her). I need to know HOW to ask her and some opinions about this situation. Please help.. i dont wanna die alone!!

2007-12-24 17:31:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have a boyfriend who alot of girls want , they are alot more attractive them me , but why does my boyfirned pick me out of everyone else ? he says im not like every other girl and that he really loves me alot but i find it hard ot believe................i have be lied ot and hurt alot by other boys ..........me and him were firneds before we hooked up and he liked me then should i trust him ??????

2007-12-24 17:31:36 · 6 answers · asked by Nisha314 2 in Singles & Dating

they feel lonely?

2007-12-24 17:31:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm very serious.

I encumber an unyielding feeling of guilt every time I look at girls who aren't in the vicinity of my college.

It's basically like, should guys like me feel guilty when we look at girls that we know are (much?) younger than we are, and think "You know, she's not bad" et cetera.

I can't help but feel like a creep when I see a girl who's 17 or whatever and mentally recognize her physical attractiveness.

I know some people think this question is stupid, but seriously, I do wonder.

I mean I know thinking and doing are two different things. I would never do anything with any of these girls. But is talking to them in a friendly context also kind of wrong?

Assuage my insecurities, or rightly shoot me down! Help! :(

2007-12-24 17:29:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13.
My dad just came upstairs and said he had pain in his back, his chest and his shoulders.. he's gone to the hospital now.
But I'm really scared for some reason..
Will he be okay:( I know there's no way you guys can know that.. but what could it be? Something he hate? He only had soup. I know they won't be back till morning.. it's already 1:26AM.. :( Any similar things happen to anyone? I'm seriously so scared..

2007-12-24 17:27:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I almost didn't let them over yesterday, but I was lenient, since it's the holidays. They just figure they can take advantage of me & dog over me. They were whispering about me & laughing & violating my house rules. I'm 24, & they're 34 & 28. They're lucky I let them in & fed them. They know that smacking loud on food triggers off an anxiety attack & a hospital trip. When I put on my earplugs, they started laughing & then lied, saying they were laughing @ something else. Why do people choose ME to pick on? Why can't they find their entertainment & kicks somewhere else? Get your laughs from a comedy show. Don't mentally torture a mentally disabled person. They also stole my music CD's. 1 of them showed up with his girlfriend without letting me know in advance, KNOWING I HATE that girl! I tried to ask for advice on here, but answerers said my brothers are right, & how I deserve to be bullied in MY house. I'd hate to have to be unnecessarily hospitalized for the holidays. I'm very angry.

2007-12-24 17:26:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am an electrical engineer, I just started working
Now my cousin ( whom i dislike for many reasons) is studying to become a doctor .
He'll be starting to work , i dn't know after his residency ..

I recenly researched the money he'll be making once he graduates and it's over a 100K-150K

Now i have no problem with him making enough money and enjoying his life , but I do believe that I am much smarter and motivated than him .

Now I am stuck with a degree where I can't get a starting salary of 100 - 150 k .( WHICH I WANT !!!!)


This sucks !!! mann!!
Any constuctive critisisms?

2007-12-24 17:24:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So Ive had this girlfriend for 3 years. She broke up with me about 5 months ago because I was hanging out too much with friends and not paying enough attention to her. I let her go, I didnt care when we broke up and now, 5 months later Im depressed and really started to miss her

I talked to her and told her I would change but she just said that although she still loved me in a way, I better apply my changes and show my love on my next relationship.

Now we're best friends and we almost every night for about 2 hours but I still love her so much. However, she has blocked every romantic feeling she has for me and apparently feels nothing for me right now.

PS. We got together in high school, cause we're both nerdy but then I stopped being nerdy(still am, just more conident) She still is nerdy and extremely shy, never drank a drop of alcohol and never will. She doesn't dress in an atractive manner so guys dont notice her, so that's a plus for me.

What do you think?

2007-12-24 17:23:49 · 2 answers · asked by Piccolo B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-24 17:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by just breathing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

short version: dh has to fly back home- emergency with his mother- he's gone from me and our two kids now. Back a few years ago while we were dating- he was seeing another girl and didnt tell either one of us that he was dating the other etc- so have trust issues- and they havent been totally restored yet since that incident. Anyways- so he's back home for 2 weeks and i havent talked to him in 3 days and we talk for all of 3 minutes and in that time he says, "I'm going to a party at ___'s house tonight" (said friend is a male btw).. however said friend is friends with the "other" girl from back then who still elaves him messages online that say "i think thats why we hit it off so well" yada yada.. anyways and then he says, "i went to __bar___ last night and ___females first and last name__ followed me around all night until she staggared to her cab. it was creepy." What did he mean by that? Should I assume he's cheating? What would have his point have been for telling me?

2007-12-24 17:20:08 · 10 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Marriage & Divorce

but she has a drinking problem I think-she drinks beer every day-almost enough to get drunk. What should I do? Any tips, help or advice? Thanks

2007-12-24 17:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-24 17:17:07 · 51 answers · asked by Janet 3 in Friends

I am 15 years old, and a sophomore in HS.
I don't exactly live the dream life, but whatever. I am one of the most popular girls in my class of 830, and naturally treat everyone below me like crap. I feel like they HAVE TO KNOW that I am more popular than them.
I also love making young children cry, because it makes me feel like I can "make a defference."
I'm a total gossip, and theres nothing better to me than adding unappreciated spice to some innocent girl's life by starting horrendous rumors about her.
My GPA is 1.0, and I couldn't care less.

Last night I was thinking how disrespectful I am, and that I want to apologize to everyone for everything. I know that I won't get anywhere with the level of respect that I have, nor wit the grades I have.
I want to straighten myself up, and become a girl who accepts everyone for who they are. I want to be the girl that goes and sits with the loner at lunch one day, and starts a conversation.
I don't wanna be "me" anymore.
I need advice!

2007-12-24 17:16:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Over the past two months I became friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me and be nice, and even made me a cd for me a while back after she asked me if I liked a band. She also copied notes for me and asked me my number recently, so we could study together. When we got done studying and I was walking to my car she stopped and picked me up and we talked in her car. We went and got coffee at school the next day after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam. She also dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in hers. She then asked me to goto church with her recently, and we've studied together outside of school. In passing one time she said didn't want a relationship when talking about this guy from church that called her...we've been hanging out for a few weeks now at her house or going out to other places.

2007-12-24 17:12:46 · 3 answers · asked by cracky 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 years old. my boyfriend is also 20. He tries to make decisions for me and tell me what to do. In a way I think, well if you love someone, then you should try not to do things that you know are really going to bother them.

But at the same time, I don't think it's fair for him to tell me what I can and can't do in my life. I only have one life to live and if I keep doing what he says then I'm not living my life, I'm letting him live it for me. Is it fair for him to expect me to do that?

2007-12-24 17:05:56 · 30 answers · asked by Shannon XoXo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

love starvation?

2007-12-24 17:04:16 · 7 answers · asked by Bijou 2 in Family

well i like this guy but the problem is that he doesnt like me only as a fren!!! but all kinds of other (stupid)so called frens of mine are all up on him, them knowing that i like him!!! it gets me soooooo jealous and pissed and makes me want to go slap them!!! other problem is that most of the girls hes gone out wit are (sluts) excuse my language but its true!!!he doesnt realize that!!! and some of my frens that like him only like him cuz of his looks and dont realize how nice and sweet he is!!! it pisses me off cuz they dont even get to know him and they say that they like him that fast!!! it just gets me mad!!!pleaz help me wat can i do for this guy to notice me!!!!????!!!!????!!!???

2007-12-24 17:03:07 · 3 answers · asked by ali 1 in Singles & Dating

he has been talking to a woman half my age,same ethnic background,and beautiful. He says it has nothing to do with her, but he loves me, he just is no longer in love with me. We have two kids, been married for 15 yrs. I want to save my marraige. We have had alot our plate. Both accidents were not our fault, but the other parties were uninsured.We have mounting debt. We both just turned 40. He has never been like this before. It seems like the healthier I get the farther he gets. I lost 120 pounds, he hardly noticed. I have been cancer free since June .He says cruel things now. It's like he likes to hurt me and than comfort me. Is this mid-life crisis or more. He says all he has done is talk to her. He can still be loving and I will see parts of the old him and than he justs snaps out of himself and is the new him. What do I do?

2007-12-24 17:01:55 · 7 answers · asked by yourumbrella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when a guy says your beautiful or if he says your cute or if he says your gorgeous or if he says your sexy...what the difference/ is there even a difference.

2007-12-24 16:59:53 · 14 answers · asked by Emily C 1 in Singles & Dating

My favourite contact went of to die.

2007-12-24 16:59:22 · 9 answers · asked by D 7 in Friends

My mom said she was going to bring some people over for tonight...and I'm like okay, Just can they not play Loud music till like 3 in the morning? and shes like okay.

So earlier, I went to go to sleep earliy, like mabey around 9ish...and I wake up to my mother screaming, and loud gutairs and thumping on the ground...I come upstairs and say Uhm what about what I said the other day, and she's like W(Whatever) and shrugs it off like nothing....

>:( ...What should I do? Also, Revenge sounds good.

2007-12-24 16:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family