he's courting me for almost 2 weeks...this christmas he told that he will go home to his hometown...i communicate with him everyday...and then i find out that he didn't spend christmas with his parents...i doubt..!who is he spending christmas with? he's own family? or maybe he has already a girlfriend that he spend his christmas with her....before he left he asked me if i want him to stay with me or not...i told him just go home spend it with your family...how would i know him better...i dont know anybody who knows him...what would i do to know him better.....pls help....
2007-12-24 17:34:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he comes back asked how it went, how is his family etc. If he lies you can then ask why he lied. If he doesnt you have no reason to suspect. He may just be catching up with old friends etc.
2007-12-24 17:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Chinchilla Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, You don't know anyone who knows him so that means you need to take it slow and really get to know him first before any thing serious goe's on between you two.
If you are doubting him already then that is a big sign that something is wrong.
2007-12-24 17:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Gina 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out before you go to the next level
dont be ashame to make sure
if he ask tell him you have to be sure cause there are alot of cads out there and you dont want to be fooled and look stupid
good luck!!
2007-12-24 17:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking is usually the best answer on that.... so if you want him ask him asap. just try to avoid the awkwardness after words...
2007-12-24 17:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nate B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is but do you know if he did spend time with his family he might or not.
2007-12-24 17:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by pisces86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to trust him, because he already ask u for stay with u, so trust him or ask him for his family or just forget him.
2007-12-24 17:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by kp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why NOT ask him ????
....So simple !!!!!!
Or, DOUBTS have already started creeping into Ur relationship ?????
I can understand !!!!
ASK HIM VERY CLEARLY.....!!!
EXPRESS YOUR DOUBTS FULLY .....!!!!!
It is far far better to Resolve NOW & NOW only, .....
......And never AFTERWARDS, when it is TOO LATE ....!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-24 17:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by (9) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way you would get to know him is by talking to him.
2007-12-24 17:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a hit if he asked you if you wanted for him to stay.
hometown....can meet seeing friends. i do that
2007-12-24 17:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by erishka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him
2007-12-24 17:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by ayu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋