but she has a drinking problem I think-she drinks beer every day-almost enough to get drunk. What should I do? Any tips, help or advice? Thanks
2007-12-24 17:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Should I move out and try to get my own place or what do you think?
2007-12-24 17:37:47 · update #1
At 30 years old you shouldn't be living with your mom. If she has a drinking problem contact your local AA chapter for advice.
2007-12-24 17:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by i138152930 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats nice that you're with her for support, but you need to ask a professional. Yes, beer everyday, especially more then 1-2, is not normal, she has an underlying issue. Check online for local agencies that you can contact, even anonymously, for advice.
2007-12-25 01:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kimpossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well contct ab AA chapter close to you , see a good counselor that can help you on how you should bring it to her. if you think you can handle the situation you should stay there. I hope you are working. at least you'll keep the aapartment for her . But really try to do anything you do to get her out of this situation. shes your mother. and if you're not working go and find a job
2007-12-25 01:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's doing it on purpose to give you the hint of moving out?
People sometimes have weired ways of showing feelings and instead of asking you nicely she might just try to annoy you out?
I'd say have a nice long talk to her
2007-12-25 01:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by German 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact Al-anon and go to some meetings. Are you taking care of her or she taking care of you? You need to make sure that you are not an enabler
2007-12-25 01:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have advice.. take care of you... try Alanon.
alcoholics can't be told "you are an alcoholic" -- it's one of those things they have to admit to themselves before they can receive true help for themselves.
hugs
2007-12-25 01:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact aa
and she needs your support
2007-12-25 01:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by PANGTA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do if she does not realize she has a problem.
2007-12-25 01:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by tomisohere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋