i am 22 years old and in college. I have been friends with this girl for about 3 months. I like to think we’re pretty good friends… we joke around and stuff. But I don’t know how to approach her. I want to ask her out but I don’t want it to get weird between us. I sometimes get the feeling that maybe shes out of my league. I cant really tell lol. anyway..ive been thinking about asking her out for 2 months and havent done so. I am sort becoming obsessed with her at this point. ( i facebook-stalk her). I need to know HOW to ask her and some opinions about this situation. Please help.. i dont wanna die alone!!
2007-12-24 17:31:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry man, you won't die alone. Just ask her for a moment of her time and explain your feelings to her. Then say what you want to do with them, which I hope is that you would like to explore your feelings with her. And then plan a nice dinner, walk in the park, etc., etc.
If worse comes to worse, which means that she does not want to go out with you, let her know that you'll still be there for her and that you'll be waiting for her. Or you could move on and keep being friends with her. Just don't worry man. If you think she's outta your league, then why would she be your friend in the first place? Give it a shot, and always keep an open mind just in case she changes her mind and decides to be with you. Good luck!
2007-12-24 17:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well has she ever dropped any hints in your friendship about another guy? cause if she did, then she's sending you a message that her heart is taken. if you're not sure, then pay attention closely to how she talks about other guys and see in the future.
however, if no hints about other guys have been dropped, i'd say just take the leap man! if you want to do it so that things don't get weird between you, just make sure you do it in a very friendly, low-pressure, casual way. Just say "hey, I was wondering if you'd like to go hang out with me at this new awsome restaurant this weekend." or something very unthreatening like that. Most girls will get the hint that that one on one time is something more than just "hanging out" but the way you will have put it, will make her feel more comfortable. hope it works out!
2007-12-25 01:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's good that you're thinking of taking the initiative...that is definitely a step in the right direction.....you say you talk and joke, right? well...talk about movies....talk about "insert comedy here" and say you wanna see it. see her reaction...if she's all about wanting to see it, there's your oppertunity to be like "well hey, wanna go this weekend?" or something....and if she is kinda iffy...its not awkward because you didnt actually ask her out.....then again, if you're confident enough, just say you would like to take her out to dinner sometime, no harm there! I'm sure you'll be fine! just think positive and be CONFIDENT! good luck! :)
2007-12-25 01:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Cai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To ask her out for the first time, choose a day or afternoon movie or something. Take it slow and always remember to be respectful.
2007-12-25 02:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and ask her. Take a risk boy! Look at it this way. You ask her and she says ya and youll both b happy. Or you can ask her and she says no and you still stay friends and you can go for another girl. Or you can keep quiet and let another man take her.
2007-12-25 01:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋