Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and 3 months. Today while we were in the car we got on the subject of boxers. I told him i liked how he had these white boxers with the bunnies on them...that he hasn't wore for a long time. Then he gets upset with me and claims that he never had boxers with the bunny on them when i'm 80% sure he did. Now hes assuming that i cheated on him because i really thought that he had boxers that had bunnies on them. I think this is so wrong for him to accuse me of that just because of that. Especially when about 4 months ago i found a condom in his visor in his car when we haven't used condoms for about 10 months but he claims it was the one we had used but that was 10 months ago??? So why would he still have it up there??? But then i get accused because i thought he had a certain pair of boxers. Is this right for him to make me feel like this when I found a condom in his car? I need your advice....
2007-12-24 17:48:56 · 5 answers · asked by da2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also I remember when a girl called his house looking for him asking where he was all upset and he thought it was me??? But i get accused for that??
2007-12-24 17:50:01 · update #1
Hate to break it to you he is cheating on you and he trying to play with your head meaning he is trying to confuse you. He knows that he is cheating on you and he had those boxers he just wants to make you feel like crap you deserve better but you have to come that conclusion yourself hope you make the right decision
2007-12-24 19:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by TallyLady83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a red flag! When someone starts accusing their significant other of wrong doing, its usually because of something that they are doing. Especially when you are finding suspicious condoms around.
Was this condom used? Or still wrapped?
This is one of the red flags of infidelity. Don't assume its because he's over protective of you, and just wants you to himself. Something is going on with him thats making him insecure. Just be alert for suspicious activity.
2007-12-24 17:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by SeXySoApYbUbBlEs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you've probably heard the saying the guilty dog barks first. To me it kinda sounds like this is the case. He may be cheating on you and he is trying to find ways that makes you look like you could be cheating too. That way when you find out that he is cheating he can bring up all this crazy stuff that makes it look like you were also cheating and not all the heat is on him.
2007-12-24 17:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's an excuse to break up with you ?
2007-12-24 17:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by wendy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why on earth are you with that jack*a*ss?
2007-12-24 17:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋