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Question

MY QUESTIONS: (1) So do you think Stacy overreacted and (2) do you think Stacy read into what her mother meant and (3) My friend Stacy told me that she starts to think "What if" her mom meant. Oh I think you would pick out things that look like crap." even though Stacy knows that isn't what her mother meant. So what do you think? STORY: Today Stacy and her mom stopped at the 99 cent store at her mothers suggestion. Stacy grabbed a beautiful dark green cardigan and two other items (which her mother did not like). Those two items Stacy looked over and decided she didn’t like either. Well actually one her mother did not like the other one her mother said was too short (and Stacy hates short items) Then Stacy also saw royal blue turtleneck to wear under a sweater. When Stacy was on the line to pay her mother noticed the royal blue turtleneck wasn’t in great shape so her mom pointed that out. Stacy got upset and in her mind she thought that her mother was saying that Stacy would only buy ugly things. Stacy said “I just wanted to wear that under a sweater - this one I just needed the collar” Her mother said “Maybe so but you would be able to see that it wasn’t in such great shape” As they were walking to the car her mother said “The dark green sweater you brought is gorgeous” Stacy said “But it sounds like you are saying that I would have brought crap as well”. Her mom “Well you were going to buy that turtleneck. I even told you to get rid of things like that” Stacy “I was just going to wear this under something.” Then about two hours after they got home her mother came into Stacy’s bedroom to ask her something. Stacy said “The dark green sweater I brought is gorgeous” Her mother said “Every thing you brought in the past at the 99 cent store is gorgeous - I even told you that, you just have to stop being so insecure.” Keep in mind Stacy brought many sweaters in the 99 cent store and each item would have sold in Bloomingdales, etc for $100 a piece. These were closeouts. I saw the sweaters: Ralph Lauren, Talbots, etc. NO THEY ARE NOT JUNK. AND her mom loved every sweater Stacy brought at the 99 cent store. Stacy even wore one of the sweater two weeks ago when her family had a fancy dinner party to go and every one wanted her sweater

Answer 1

Stacy needs therapy. She is making stupid comments up in her head and projecting them onto other people. She needs help and fast before she becomes a psychotic mess.

Answer 2

MY QUESTIONS: (1) So do you think Stacy overreacted-No stacy just felt like her mom was judging her taste in clothes. it was normal to feel like she was being attacked about her choice in how she wants to look.

(2) do you think Stacy read into what her mother meant -No she ddn't her mother only wants the best for stacy and doesn't want stacy buying crapy looking clothes but kids and parents dont like the same clothes. clothes kids buy are considered hip to them but to their parents it doesn't seem like good quality or its ugly which is ok because other kids (or that cute boy) may think its tight (cute or tha bomb)

(3) My friend Stacy told me that she starts to think "What if" her mom meant. Oh I think you would pick out things that look like crap." even though Stacy knows that isn't what her mother meant. So what do you think?

My aunt told me one time (i dont understand why you like beyonce's new music it sound crazy) keep in mind my aunt is 40 and she likes marvin gay stuf and luther vandross stuf I don't like. older people just don't get the fashion. Stacy shoudn't be mad. Her mom is alot older than her so she wound't really understand her choice in fashion.


The 99 cent store down here doesn't have all of that. She's lucky

Answer 3

I wish there was a 99 cent store here where I live

Answer 4

that was a long and confusing Question but mothers and there kids will always argue over stupid stuff and in the future this will be water under the bridge. But again that was a long and confusing question.

Answer 5

Didn't you post this before? Or something quite similar? You seem way, way too involved in this person's life. None of this stuff really matters either way, sad to say, and you all need to get a life of your own. One that doesn't revolve around "stuff, " and around shallow, boring people who only hyperfocus on "stuff."

Answer 6

Huh?

Answer 7

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Answer 8

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