ooo so i'm having some body image issues today?

Question

I feel like guys only want girls with perfect bodies. What if you just have an average body? Is that like really gross to you?

And ladies if your body is average do you feel really unattractive because it not "really good"

Thanks for any honest opinions

to janicajayne: your kinda rude. good luck with that.

Answer 1

every girl in the world including hot chicks have body issues...trust me, if you are average, guys are gonna dig you too! I never was a good looking as all my friends, but I ended up married to the best looking guy...its not all perfect bodies, some guys want more...

Answer 2

First, I'd have to say that realistically most of us ARE just average. Very few of us have the body of a movie star -- without the help of a line of make-up artists, hair stylists, personal trainers, etc, oh and the occasional nip tuck :)
A "perfect" body is one thing, but more importantly it's the self-confidance that makes a woman even more attractive. Try to accept your body just as it is, embrace what you have.
Not all guys want girls with perfect bodies, just the shallow ones. A REAL man wants a real woman who is confident in her own skin.

Answer 3

There is no such thing as a "perfect" body or average body! Every woman's body is different and unique. You should love the body you have and if a man (or men) do not realize that you beautiful then you do not need them (and should not want them)! NEVER let a man's thoughts define who you are or how you think of yourself!

Answer 4

Guys fantasize about women with perfect bodies, to be sure, but that doesn't mean that's who they end up with or even who they choose. For one thing, there's competition for gals with perfect bodies. For another, the ones in magazines have been airbrushed and have had plastic surgery - i.e. even "perfect" women do not actually look that way in real life. For another, not all guys would go for Ms. Vapid-with-the perfect-figure (or Ms. Bratty-with-the-perfect figure) instead of Ms. Nice-and-reasonably-decent-looking.

If you aren't happy with your body, try getting into some kind of sport that you ENJOY - exercise for that reason, not to take off pounds or inches.

Answer 5

I'm larger than average and had issues with this for a long time, but i've come to realize that i'd rather be a little over average than waste all that time trying to become perfect. I'm not fat...i'm fluffy, but more imporantly i'm healthy. Don't put too much stock into your body image...eat healthy and if the guys don't like you because you're not perfect....then they're worth it and they're not perfect for you. be good to yourself FOR yourself...not for others

Answer 6

i have a less average body. I am in high school 13 yrs. old and weighed 95 pounds for 4 years i just gained weight now i weigh 113 pounds but i still have a boyfriend sometimes gurls just pick and choose the wrong guys that they think are right for him everybody's body is average and i love my body even though it is small and forget anymore who thinks other wise

Answer 7

You know I have an average body, actually am slightly overweight and small chest. But, I found a great guy, got married and had a great little boy. I have been married almost 5 years and have an awesome 4 year old little guy.

Answer 8

I like average bodies better than perfect bodies, I don't know what it is but hour glass bodies are nice but average bodies I just want to smash on MMMM

Answer 9

i know i am far from the perfect body and it really bothers me sometimes, but there are guys out there who like u for who u r and like the way ur average body looks

Answer 10

I like a cute face. And I wanna tell you that you don't need to worry about what others think, but if it bothers you, try to fix it. Diet and exercise are key. Anything you do will help. I like a girl with curves, BTW. Not all dudes like skinny "perfect bodied" girls.