i met this girl at a party about 4-5 weeks ago and then we were in touch through facebook and she gave me her number and we were so close to go on a date but everything changed...we stopped talking for no reason and then once on msn she said im sorry that i didnt call u or sent u anything cuz i was busy and bluh bluh and i said it's alright and then we talked a bit and she said g2g ill talk to you later thu bye ..we never talked after this.... lol i kindda miss her so i thought i would send her a facebook gift for christmas to just make her happy...do u think that would be ok ? or lame and creepy ?? she is special to me !!! im 19 and she is 17...it would be a gift and that's it !!! i just wanna be nice !
2007-12-24 18:57:56 · 25 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MERRY CHRISTMAS !!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-24 19:02:38 · update #1
That sounds so super nice!
Do it!
I'd let her know on a note what you told us.
"I kinda miss you so i thought i would send you a facebook gift for Christmas to just make you happy" (or smile).
I bet she will smile when she reads it...lol
Best of Luck!
2007-12-24 19:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Xena77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some girls at 17 don't really know what they want, I think the real problem is that you don't meet any more, its not the same to chat online. She's probably surrounded with many real people and so having second thoughts. Sending present is ok as long as you don't overdo it but how about to find the way to be at the same place same time again? suggest something in the Christmas card, or find out where she's spending New Year's Eve?
2007-12-25 03:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead bro! send her a gift, it is a nice gesture and she would appreciate the thought that is within, and I don't think she would think other wise although me being 27 yrs old you from experiance you may want to wait a year before taking it further then just being friends alot of girls out there and I am not saying all girls are like this but just to be safe alot of girls take avantage of guys who are over that jail bait law! But go ahead and send her the gift this is the time of season to be giving and not recieving.
2007-12-25 03:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by jerry h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say why not? Really, what 's so creepy about giving her FB gift...it hasn't been all that long since you've spoken...what do you have to lose?
So just get her the gift otherwise you'll never forgive yourself and then it'll be too late and you'll have to wait till Valentines Day!!! lol
Merry Christmas
2007-12-25 03:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by sunoverla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. There isn't a major significance to sending a facebook gift. People give them all the time to friends and others. I think it would be nice..
2007-12-25 03:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by DTott 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
christ pal at 19 m8 u wanna be going out clubbing and pulling the women on a regular basis not fretting over this gal!!! seems to me she aint intrested in you anyway besides if u wanna be a man let the women do all the running obviously show a little intrest but u act to keen she gunna think your either a creep or someone she can take advantage of if i were you id just leave it at the face book gift and then let her contact you l;0)
2007-12-25 03:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by nath1de 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Send her one...But maybe a funny one or a merry christmas one...hopefully it opens a window for you...Dont send nothing about love you or anything weird yet. Something to make her smile like a funny one or one to make her think to write you back. Make the right choice this is a pretty nice oppurtunity for ya ;-)
2007-12-25 03:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by AirForce1s 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How about you give her a call? By all means send her the facebook gift, though. Go for it! Good luck!
2007-12-25 03:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
lame... here's a thought why don't you sit wild-eyed by the phone and wait for her next call. Nevermind. The moment she made the excuse you should have figured she just wasn't into you. Move on and save those gifts for people you care about, like me.
2007-12-25 03:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by qris 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thats okay, don't even worry about.Giving your friends or crushes gifts isn't weird it just shows u care. Besides, like you said, its just a gift. its not like you proposed to her or something..
2007-12-25 03:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋