Seriously do you think most girls just want guys for the money?, is that how almost every single male out there who gets a girlfriend so easily because he has money with him all the time?, and I'm not talking about prostitutes, they don't count for me. When I mean girls I mean the attractive, cute ones, average and above. Is that how most guys out there attract girls?, just because they are loaded with money?, it sure seems like society is like that today.
2007-12-24 12:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No no no. Trust me.
I personally want someone who is reasonably well off, has a job, an education and potential. Nice car, house indicate to me he is capable and independent and INTELLIGENT.
Monetary staff is an indication he could take care of a family -be a provider, not a drunk sitting on the couch when not working at a drive-through (which is ok when you're young...but not as your lifetime job;)
Let's put it this way..when you're under 22, it's ok to be broke. I don't think girls expct you to have money..you're still in school and stuff.
Between 22-30s, it's ok not to be rich..but you should have a reasonable job, a car..pay rent or own something small. No huge amounts of money or bling:) Just normal stuff for this age. It shows a woman that you are career oriented, capable and have potential to become something in life and that you seem respnsible enough for a serious relationship and kids.
Over 30s, I don't know. I guess women want to see the guys have accomplished something and are father-material.
I think guys weigh a girl in the same way -you don't want an uneducated, illiterate, jobless woman but someone who is responsible, clean, works, makes money, owns stuff..the older a woman becomes the more a guy expects from her too.
2007-12-24 13:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, humans are the way they are, and it's not right for us to judge.
The fact is, the most beautiful women will always only be with the men with the most money. ... Have you ever seen the hottest woman in town with a guy who makes average money?
Beautiful women simply do what average looking women wish they could do: bag a rich guy. The only difference between the two, is that beautiful women have the ability to get the guy they really want, because their looks allow them to do so. And so average looking women have to settle for guys who are not rich. But that's just the law of the jungle, and it's okay.
Conversely, have you ever seen a rich guy settle for an average looking woman? Probably not, because he doesn't have to! A rich guy can have beautiful women. Guys who are not rich have to settle for average looking women.
So, it's really simple to understand, when you strip it down to the bare facts: Rich guys and beautiful women can have the partners they want, while guys with average money and women with average looks can only get something less than what they would really prefer to have.
To say that a beautiful woman is shallow for only wanting a rich guy, we would have to say that every beautiful woman in the world is shallow. But that's not fair to say that. Most woman would love to have a rich guy. ..... And to say that a rich man is shallow for only wanting a beautiful woman, we would have to say that every rich man in the world is shallow. But that's not fair to say that. Most men would love to have a beautiful woman.
I was fortunate early on to see things for the way it is, and develop myself into the kind of person who could have what he wants.
Keep in mind, these are rules of nature that have ( probably ) existed since the beginning of time. This is nothing new. It will always be this way, and probably always has.
You can count on two more facts: There will never be a time when the majority of drop-dead gorgeous women will want men who are not rich. And there will never be a time when the majority of very rich men will want average looking women.
Most men want beautiful women, and rich men can have beautiful women. ... And, most women want rich men, and beautiful women can have rich men.
Anyone who says they don't want it is probably just trying to save face, because they know they don't have what it takes to get it. It's just sour grapes.
All you need to do is make yourself into the kind of guy who can get what he wants, and then you will be able to get it.
Good luck to you, and enjoy the life you make for yourself! ;-)
2007-12-28 02:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by johnsmith2025 ( Cavs Fan ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely don't agree with the person saying that rich guys have great personalities. sorry, but that's pure bull.
i know a lot of girls who are interested in men with money. i think most women are like that...attractive women could use their cuteness as a way to get a rich guy.....but really, who wants to have a partner who is there only for secondary gains? relationships like those fall apart so easily. they lack love, passion, warmth, true friendship...ppl who are after money don't deserve ur time or effort, bcoz they have a price and they can be bought. love, warmth, passion, friendship...those stuff cannot be bought...if anyone is gonna like you, they've gotta like you for who you really are.
2007-12-24 13:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Flona 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I could care less about money.
I want an attractive, nice, sweet guy.
But yes, alot of girls do care only about money. But can you blame them? I mean, all guys care about is sex right?
2007-12-24 12:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by antonios mama ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls should like guys for who they are, and thats whats most attractive.girls aren't always after money, but it sure does help...sometimes
2007-12-27 12:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by caca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah some girls will go for a guy cuz he is rich, but that is not all girls, i think you will find that the majority actually look for other things in a guy like his looks and personality and that stuff
2007-12-27 11:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by Olive 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea some girls like that cus they probably just gold diggers
2007-12-24 13:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Emmanuel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just those who are sucessful (have money) have great personalities and thats how they have earned what they got. they continue to use this personality around the girls, and they just cling to it...smart clever outgoing...etc...what girls want, and normally thast what the ones w/ money got
2007-12-24 12:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by csd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
but if a guy approaches a girl with the same question, she is permitted to slap him because: **** Logic
2016-04-10 23:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i dunno abt all gals coz all are diff in their own way.. but fer me all tht i wld look out fer in a guy is good character and unconditional love.. seriously... there are still gals who would love guys no matter hw they are.. rich or poor.. wat matters is he gotta be rich in e heart... money is smthng tat wld cm n go. it's nt permanent.. and i hate gals wo go fer money... there are some like tat.. so dun give up... wish ya all e best to get a wonderful gal... there's still manii out dere... tkc.. =))
signs, meera
2007-12-27 18:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋