I've known this girl since I was around 10 we hung out every day her brother was 20 years old and I thought he was real cute, it was just a little crush. well He found me over myspace today and we talked. im 18 years old now. Hes 28. It was our first real conversation ever, when I was little he would always play around with me throw me over his shoulder and spin me around, stuff like that. Now hes saying maybe we should hang out some time.. He has 3 kids Been married once but he got married when he was 17 because he had his first son at 16. would this be weird to you knowing he watched you grow up??
2007-12-24 14:11:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ditch him... he sounds like a loser
2007-12-24 14:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that you are 18 and he already has 3 kids would put a strain on any relationship you would try to have with him. It's hard enough for an older women to take that on but at 18, your life is just starting. Do you really want all that added responsibility at your age?
2007-12-24 22:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by DaBrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does sound kinda desperate that he's trying to hook up with an 18 year old. I mean he has three kids, and he had them when he was way really young so it seems like he's a lil irresponsible.
Since I don't know him I don't really know because he might have changed. But personally it would be so weird knowing he watched me grow up. I would constantly be thinking, was he thinking of me this way when I was like 12? Cuz that's dangerous territory.
2007-12-24 22:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by jinxmalfoy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a lady, but been around...this guys is T R O U B L E....stay away, find a nice guy your age. This guy should be looking for someone closer to his own age. Sounds like he wants a nanny with privilages.
2007-12-25 16:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Big Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats weird
2007-12-24 22:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by I AM Smarter than a 5th grader! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so - it should be fine
that is unless you still like him - then that might make you think that its a bit odd
however if this is the case you know you have to move on for the pure fact that he has kids and is married.
the fact that he wants to hang out is good - he still wants to be friends with you.
happy xmas to you
2007-12-25 07:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by sigsall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really. Not if he was a nice guy. So he has 3 kids and was married young. Sh*t happens ... people make mistakes. If you think you might be attracted to him ... meet someplace public for coffee and see how it goes.
2007-12-24 22:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by traceilicious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds really abnormal,dont get involved with this guy,you will only end up in a mess of pain and sorrows.good luck!!
2007-12-25 00:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he would manage to come across you in the wittiness protection program also.
Bad news is what he sounds like.
2007-12-24 22:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a lady, but I can tell you to ditch this guy.
You won't get anything good out of that relationship.
Not worth it.
2007-12-24 22:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could be a friend, but I wouldn't let it be any more than that. There's still too many years between your ages.
2007-12-24 22:17:29 · answer #11 · answered by Bette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋