2007-12-24 13:34:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was in college and I was in high school. He told me he felt I just could not understand the whole college thing right then and thought that we were not on the same page.
2007-12-24 13:41:40 · update #1
yes its OK to get back with an ex when there hasn't been any betrayal. everything else can be worked out, the only thing u can't forgive is getting betrayed.
2007-12-24 22:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on why you broke up in the first place. Think hard on those reasons. Sometimes it is just that both of you were too immature to make a relationship work but the feelings for both of you are still there and you have each a new perspective on what a relationship should be. Then give it a try. If there was anything in the relationship that was abusive...Don't go back as it won't have changed no matter how many promises are made. Follow your instincts, they are usually right.
2007-12-24 21:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by catehokte1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if nothing bad happened that ended the relationship and you are still in love with him/her than by all means give it another shot, but it depends on why you broke up in the first place and if you do get back together, do you feel that this time it could really work or will you just be wasting time, just listen to your heart and do what feels right.
2007-12-24 21:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by MEL25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the reason for the breakup in the first place. Was there abuse? Did you grow apart? Did one or both of you need to grow up? Sometimes it is OK to go back just make sure the reason why you left has been taken care of. Don't make the same mistake twice.
2007-12-24 21:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated women that I really fell for, but for various reasons, the timing was really bad. (She was taking a job in another state, I did not have job or money, etc.) If we were to meet up again, and the timing was better, I would get back together with them. Like others have said, it depends on the reason you you broke up in the first place. And, you don't have to start from scratch on a new person.
2007-12-24 21:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would really depend on the why part. Why did it fail the first time? It is going to be an issue the second time around? People generally don't change so the things that drove you crazy the first time will drive you crazy again.
2007-12-24 21:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by Brian S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get back with your ex even if there WAS cheating, infidelity, etc. People do change, despite what so many on here like to believe.
2007-12-24 21:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go back to an ex. No matter what the reason is we broke up. There is an reason they are an ex. If you guys do get back together, then I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-12-24 22:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would be ok as long as abuse or something else major wasn't the cause of the break up. People age, mature, and change over time and may make a better mate than before.
2007-12-24 21:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by grneyes8621 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was no cheating then I think its fine. It's like you took a little break, and then you got back together. I think that wont be to bad, especially because there was nothing bad that happened between the two.
2007-12-24 21:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous_563 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋