Should i braek up, if alot of the sexual stuff i want, seems to be a problem. If i do get the stuff, i dont feel right, knowing she wasnt necessarily the most willing and it bothers me. This has been a long and reoccuring problem. There are other problems, but this is the latest and most fresh on my mind...
2007-12-24 13:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by YahooAnswersFutureAllstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been together and having sex a while. Its just a few small things, I wish we did more, and she did with a better attitude. We do it, just not as much as I want...and I just dont see this stuff getting better. I probably shouldnt want it... but what I like is what I like. Its not crazy like a three some or anything...
2007-12-24 14:01:41 · update #1
You shouldn't be having sex before you get married anyway.
Grow up.
2007-12-24 13:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by N L 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
It sounds like you yourself are confused as to why you want more. I agree with brotherotter, take this as a learning experience and learn more about you and how you can help this relationship instead of give up on it. If she's willing to do things for you, even when she's not comfortable speaks a lot about her feelings for you. Would you do the same for her? I say stick it out, try to talk about it before it happens. Find out what would make her more comfortable. Find out her fantasies and fulfill them so that it's more of a give and take instead of a take and take. Ultimately, sexual frustration will take over your relationship, it will filter into your every day activities and the relationship will end. Work it out while you can.
2007-12-25 00:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by lippy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you are willing to deal with long term. If your friend doesn't enjoy the same type and level of sexual intimacy that you do, then you will eventually have to lower your expectations to the level they are willing to provide. Otherwise your friend will become resentful about participating in sexual acts they find disagreeable. You probably don't enjoy it if they don't anyway. Sexual incompatibility is a big deal breaker in many relationships.
2007-12-24 13:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that it's not a sound reason. Relationships are great places to grow up (really the only places) and sex is only a very small part of that. If anything, coming to grips with your frustration and working with the relationship anyway would be the smarter thing to do... that is, if she's otherwise someone you really want to be with.
2007-12-24 13:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, ure lame! sex doesnt make a relationship! if a person cant go w/o sex, then it's not love. it's lust and using a person. so no it's not a valid reason @ all to break up w/sum1! so ignorant! thinking about things like that, you arent ready 4 a relationship!
2007-12-24 14:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finally got what you want huh? If it's not what you hoped for then move along before she gets pregnant.
2007-12-24 13:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are not really digging the person just move on
2007-12-24 13:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by NEVER EXISTED.... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont use her like that. break up give her a favor and move on to soemone who will easily give it up for you
2007-12-24 13:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
perfect reason,you are not satisfied in the relationship.simple as that.
2007-12-24 13:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by None 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it's a good reason...........
2007-12-24 13:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋