i have a girlfriend and she thinks that i am cool, but she doesnt no that my Ex-girlfriend moving back in to town. I have bein with my current giflfriend for about 4 months and was with my Ex-girlfriend for a year and i still have feelings for her. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
2007-12-24 13:56:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a girlfriend and she thinks that i am cool, but she doesnt no that my Ex-girlfriend moving back in to town. I have bein with my current giflfriend for about 4 months and was with my Ex-girlfriend for a year and i still have feelings for her. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!( By the way i am 16)
2007-12-24 14:06:52 · update #1
Hmm...
Sry for this harsh answer but:
Decide.
You cant have both :/
And dont have your current girlfriend on reserve, if ya still have feelings for the other gal, you should break up with your current one seeing as it wont be a honest and real relationship if you have feelings for more than just her.
Life is hard :/
2007-12-24 14:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by MistyNight15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get caught cheating the odds are your gonna end up single... so you have to pick...or take a chance...(or take a chance, see who u like better, then pick)
Think about these questions:
Who do would you rather live with?
Why did u break up with your ex?
Would be willing to forgive your ex? Try a relationship again?
2007-12-24 22:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by jerm1027 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you don't say that you even have feelings for your current girlfriend...just that she says you are "cool"...you need to break up with her. How old are you? You sound very young and immature....break up with this girl and be by yourself. You are obviously too young to be in a relationship.
2007-12-24 22:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Queen of Beer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you haven't bn with your new g/f that long so if you to broke up it wont hurt as much as if you where together for a long time. ask your self first why you to broke up. If something minor some people would say get back tighter and OTHER people would say if you to broke up over something that small what would happen if SOMETHING big poped up. ASK YOURSELF WHO YOU HAVE MORE FUN WITH AND WHO HAS MORE FUN WITH YOU. you BOTH HAVE TO BE IN A FUN AND HEALTHY RELATION.
2007-12-24 22:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'You really need to talk to your current g/f and let her know what is going on..Maybe your ex has no feelings for you and then you wouldn't have to worry about it..But if you really like this new g/f give her the respect of talking before you act on any impulses..Or you might lose both of them...The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2007-12-24 22:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by spldharleymom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can only have one, can't have your cake and eat it too.
Keep the one you love. Whoever gets kicked to the curb she will find another love...in no time. Good Luck!!!
2007-12-24 22:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Buttterfly123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds perfect pal.. Do em both for as long as you can get away with it. Then dump them both when it gets uncomfortable and find a brand new squeeze !!
2007-12-24 22:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by personalmoment 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you had a good teacher you can get both and neither will know unless ofcourse u had a really great teacher and u can get both together! good luck in your ventures young man
2007-12-24 22:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you can't be in an exclusive relationship anymore. You want to date others.
2007-12-24 21:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
avoid, run away, go on a vacation
2007-12-24 22:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by Alucard 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋