2007-12-24 14:00:42 · 10 answers · asked by the insider 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
the last answer there is the only good one on here. i cant believe you guys think a woman is crazy for not wanting to marry some selfish jerk of a guy who cares so little about her that he'd have cheap strippers over. good answer but who said i was a guy? lol.
2007-12-24 14:41:53 · update #1
funkymon.. ur totally wrong.
2007-12-25 12:57:24 · update #2
>Fortunate.<
2007-12-24 14:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Druid 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
From my HTB:
If she called it off ONLY because I had a party then I'd consider myself blessed to be rid of the controlling biotch because she'd probably make my life miserable and throw a hissy fit every time I wanted to go anywhere without her. I'm not a toddler. I'm a grown man and can make my own decisions about my freetime and if she doesn't trust me enough to seperate for one night she doesn't trust me enough to marry for the rest of our lives.
Now if there were agreements we made beforehand like no strippers, or not getting completely plastered the night before the wedding and I violated her trust and did them anyway (or if she did the same thing to me) I think her anger would be justified. But just because I'm having a bachelor party doesn't mean I'm doing anything I shouldn't be.
2007-12-25 17:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl here answering anyway.
I'd think that that girl has very low self esteem and has serious issues.
I personally do not mind if my fiance wants or has strippers at his bachelor party, because he's going home TO ME.
I have enough trust in our relationship to not let it get to me.
If I were the guy, I'd be thinking "whew, glad I found THIS out before I married the witch!"!!!
2007-12-25 17:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i am was like 100% sure based on the title you are female, and i still think this is the case .
Most times women would say "guys only" b/c the problem is with that sex. Why would a guy who had a bachelor want guys views- all guys view the event similarly= harmless fun.
I believe you are female, you had a bachelor party, with male strippers, and your conservative and probably prudish and or religious husband to be flipped out calling you untrustworthy and whor-ish? and called it off in the heat of anger.
For one, i would not worry , he would come around. Second, i think he is being an a s s . For women it is not even the same as men, its more about having fun with the girls and getting a little wild , not about sleeping around with the stripper, i think at most girls usually make out with each other instead of with the guy thats there. So maybe he is comparing it to what he knows of male parties and thinks you are being promiscous?
2007-12-24 23:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by FunkyMonkey 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ya Got Out Cheap....lololol
2007-12-24 22:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Glad, like it was for the better because later on in your marriage she might be too jealous/ paranoid to give you your freedom and own space based on her reaction to the bachelor party.
2007-12-24 22:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Albrion S 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think bachelor Party is wrong, trust me Man, you should keep that woman, and you should go to her and make things right....she loves u, she wants u for her only, she wants you for her self not for some cheap hookers. How would u feel if she had some HOT GUYS at home to give her a GOoooooooood time...........ha. how would u feel?
2007-12-24 22:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by snow_man_nksa 1 · 5⤊ 4⤋
I'm sure you feel like crap, but believe me U didn't wanna marry this one anyhow. If she was jealous of that think what it would be like to be married to her!
2007-12-24 22:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by rhgizmo 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Very Lucky to have escaped marrying a psycho...run dude, RUN!!!
2007-12-24 22:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by jivemee 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
well depends on what happened at the party
2007-12-24 22:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mom to one cute boy! 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋