Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

I've been dating my boyfriend for seven months now........he is hoping for something more serious in the future but I'm not sure if he's "the one".......is there any sure way to know????

2007-12-18 09:07:46 · 7 answers · asked by addisun taylor 1 in Singles & Dating

For me..nnnnnnnnnoooooooooooo way man
I hater her..go to hell
lol

2007-12-18 09:05:49 · 16 answers · asked by High_Sun 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I whant a girl friend any good sites or any other ideas?

2007-12-18 09:05:00 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex is very confused. we broke up 7 months ago but are still both very much in love. She has never had a relationship before even tho she's 23 because she never found the right guy. Then she met me. anyway she thought that the honeymoon period was what it was always ment to feel like, after it started to fade she thought that it was it, that i wasn't right for her. The break up dragged on and on, we'd sort of get back together but then she'd change again. She has depression and is prone to mood swings. Anyway she is now seeing a shrink who has told her it is natural for the honeymoon period to fade. he said "you have been given (by her parents) very unrealistic views on relationships". Since then she's been quite lovey dovey but i don't know where i am, are we back together? i don't feel like i can ask her because everytime we do she freaks out about it. but for some reason it drives me mad... what should i do?

2007-12-18 09:03:48 · 3 answers · asked by Allan J 1 in Singles & Dating

I caught this girl in a hotel with a guy but she claims she was in his town and he needed help with a business plan.

She's been trying to convince me that they didn't do anything but I think they did since they were in a hotel together. What do you think?

Wish she would just tell me the truth.

2007-12-18 09:03:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, where do I begin...?

I see all my friends attracting all these guys, and yet no one ever makes even HALF of an attempt to approach me. Most of the time, I'm fine with this, because I'm not feeling any of those men anyway, but this seems to be a never ending occurance. So every now and then, I'll ask my friends point blank "Am I ugly?" They always tell me that I'm not, that I'm pretty, and that men are just intimidated by me. But I can't buy that. I don't see how men can be intimidated by a woman. I just don't. So I assume that my friends are just telling me that to be nice.

Then every now and then, there'll be this influx of men attempting to talk to me, and then they all fade away. My friends also say that I give of this "Don't effing talk to me vibe" but I don't see how that can be since I talk to my friend's boyfriends and their friends whenever they come around. So what's the problem? Are men really intimidated by attractive women?

Thanks in advance!

2007-12-18 09:01:57 · 30 answers · asked by prttyyngthng06 1 in Singles & Dating

Im scared because I am pregnat this would be the third child, first daughter is not his. After almost 6 years of a really rocky relationship , I still have alot of issues with him and my first child.I feel i dont want to put up with him anymore. I was excited to have this baby , would be my last. but at this point I dont know what to do. Our last argument was because I took myself to the hospital and came home late after 1 week of having fevers, thank God im ok, well he decided to destroy our christmas tree because he was so mad, I cant take it anymore . I want to leave him , Im just very scared!

2007-12-18 09:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 09:00:31 · 35 answers · asked by XXenvyXX 1 in Singles & Dating

I am sixteen years old and my mom still treats me like a baby. I cant even cross the road without telling my parents!!! People say its because I am the youngest that she treats me like that.

My sister had a boyfriend at age 15 and did something with him (you know that three letter word) my mom was hardly mad at her at all. My mom wont even let me out to have a boyfriend.

Please help I need advice

2007-12-18 09:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-18 08:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Her name is Katie. I have known her for about 7 years. Her boyfriend of 3 years broke up with her last week. I really really like her, but I dont know if it is to soon to ask her out. Also how should I ask her out?

2007-12-18 08:59:27 · 26 answers · asked by Kyle M 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean she drops her kids and partys all the time she can go from nice to ugly whats up with that!!

2007-12-18 08:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by Emily I 1 in Friends

My friend is engaged to her son's dad. She loves him but he doesnt treat her right. She has tried to leave before but always goes back to him. Today they had a counseling appointment and about 2 hours before he told her he didnt want her to go with him. She got mad because she already had a babysitter and would have gone shopping if she knew he didnt want her there. They were in the car. She got mad and asked why he always cancels things at the last minute. Then he flipped out. He was yelling, swearing, calling her a b**** and c*** all in front of their infant son. He was hitting the stearing wheel too. She went inside with her son and all her stuff to a meeting she had and they made him leave but she wont leave the relationship because she loves him. is thatabuse? what should she do?

2007-12-18 08:57:54 · 3 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay I got a few good answers to my question and some of u made me out to be the bad guy while others took her side.
maybe u need more details.
we had been married for a total of four years she commited adultry i tried to forgive her for it but about a year later after i had just brought a townhouse for us to live in she started right back up with her decitful ways and nothing i was doing was appreciated so i stopped making payments for about three months on the townhouse car note and etc cause she always said i dont do anything all she had to pay was the gas and lights and that total bill every month was no more than 50.00$
i eventually left cause we started to become physical with eachother within that time she kept my son from me for a total of three months then almost another half moth after that im 30yrs old she's 23yrs old am i still wrong for wanting to have custody of my son and she have visitation the way i feel is if she has to ask the state for support she dont need him

2007-12-18 08:56:56 · 17 answers · asked by REDRUM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My spouses' last name is not legal. There is no record of adoption by the people he took this name of. Does that mean our marriage isn't legally binding?

2007-12-18 08:54:41 · 9 answers · asked by used2bannie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yes i know..its a stupid question. and dont say im not ready if i dont know cuz i totally am. i need answers FAST! no links please..
THNXX <3333

2007-12-18 08:53:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I like and he is popular. We text outside of school, but he never talks to me in school. I really like him, though. Any suggestions?????

2007-12-18 08:53:02 · 4 answers · asked by Manda Panda 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband works. That's all he does. Days, evenings, weekends.

For months he's been telling me he's going to take off xmas so we can spend time together. Today he tells me he has work to do and won't be taking those days off. We never see eachother, it's just rediculous.

I don't need his money, I make my own and do just fine. He's just a workaholic that can't stop for anything. We had plans this Friday - my birthday - which of course got cancelled because of...guess what? Work.

I'm not sure I want to be married anymore. I mean, what is the point? What is the point of a relationship if you never spend time together, never talk, never go anywhere, do anything? Am I right?

2007-12-18 08:52:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I have been with a girl for about three weeks and last night I wanted her to sing for me on the phone (she used to sing). She refused and said she didn't sing for people anymore. I tried joking around with her and teasing her and saying she better sing for me but she didn't. Plus she got her hair cut and she knows I want her to grow it long. This really ticked me off. I don't want to threaten her because we haven't been going out long enough for her to establish an emotional bond with me so I think if I did she would leave me. How can I get her to do what I want her to do? Serious answers please.

2007-12-18 08:52:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this boy at school and I and pretty sure that he likes me back. Today someone said to him, you like her, you told me that.
But,, I don't know but I just said eww.. b/c I was kinda nervous
He also said she probably will like Asian boys( since I am an Asian)
I am too afraid to ask him my self.
What do I do??

2007-12-18 08:51:56 · 32 answers · asked by 『♥loveholic♥』 3 in Singles & Dating

I see this more and more. The wives neglect there husbands and want no part of them but, the son who is married they keep running over there looking to cook and do things that the wife should be doing. I see this often. My friends wifes won't make there husbands a cup of tea but the son who no longer lives at home she is making a full blown meal because "his wife can't cook".. What is it with some of you ladies?

2007-12-18 08:51:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I'm 21 years old and i have a 11month old daughter.Her father left me when i was 7months pregnant.I have a really good paying job, and i have my own place, i'm ready to live the "married" life and want a husband to love and to love me and my daughter! Do you think i'm rushing to want to get married since i'm young?

2007-12-18 08:49:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Many of you ladies have heard my story but to refresh. I am 8 months pregnant. My boyfriend cheated on me and I caught him. Me and the girl set him up. Anyway. Now today a girl called my cell phone which he usually has and asked for him. When I asked who she was she hung up on me. When I called her back on my house phone she told me her name and said they are just friends should I believe her? Even though honestly I dont because that is what the other girl said at first to. He also gave my number to some girl on myspace. Many of you have told me many times that he is just using me for my home and my car. Should I take this as him still cheating and call it quits? i wanted him to be here when the baby is born. Why would the girl just hang up unless she is guilty?

2007-12-18 08:48:55 · 10 answers · asked by kindra1988 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 08:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok lets say have a best guy friend (brad) that has a gf (shanon). but that girl is cheating on him (brad). so the point is that should i tell my best friend that his girl is cheating on him. brad really likes her. the other guy is my other guy friend (jake) that lives in texas and is moving to cali for his girl (shanon). but he dosnt know he's dating a other guy (brad). should i tell both of them that or just one of them. or should i just keep my mouth shut.

2007-12-18 08:47:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in 6 months and my fiancé and his father are at eachothers throats. I have ask my fiancé if he wants to invite his dad and he says no, blah blah blah...you know how stubborn men can be. And since he isn't very active in planning the wedding I don't know if not inviteing him is the best thing to do.
Now his father did call him at work on his birthday and he is being stubborn and saying no he called my work not me. He didn't end up talking to him.
So pretty much should I invite him if they are not getting along?
Oh and his mom passed away 4 years ago so no parents at the wedding just seems not right.

2007-12-18 08:46:11 · 4 answers · asked by *~♥Mrs♥~* 2 in Family

Long distance relationship... one day she is say I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread then all the sudden no contact fo a few months then you are really great but I want to stay near my family but her family tells me she thinks I am the greatest too and are trying to tell her how great I am I'd of made those sacrafices why would I not be allowed just shuting the door on 3 years something is amiss wouldn't you say?

2007-12-18 08:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend went out twice and i dumped him both times because i thought he was too shy.

its been like a month and we talk a little bit but not really that much more. everytime i look at him it goes back to really nice memories but i think he has moved on.

everytime i think about him, i always smile and think of things we could have done if we stayed together longer

what should i do???

i miss him but he has i think moved on =[

2007-12-18 08:40:00 · 4 answers · asked by tyandcocoafastpitcher 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know who to trust.I'm getting to know and like this one guy then I find out he's leading another girl on. Another guy is leading ME on then I see him holding hands with some girl in the hallway. ANOTHER guy stares at me in a way that is hard to explain and hard to forget and makes me feel special....untill I find out he's done it to at least TWO other girls.
how do you know which guys you can trust and give in to?
It's rediculous, but I'm about to just keep guys as friends and ALWAYS keep them at a distance.
I don't know who's a playa or who's really even serious about me.
Why do guys do that s h i t?
I don't know, girls/guys what do you think I should do?

2007-12-18 08:38:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 08:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by ubah a 1 in Family