Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

my friend has been married over 4 years to this man she think is gay....they sleep in seperate rooms,he does not care if she comes home at night and he refuses to have sex with her...he even told her she was disgusting for trying to turn him on...but...he is weathy he pays all the bills..she works as well but she get to pocket all her money..should she stay or leave....i told her to stay for the free ride

2007-12-18 01:03:56 · 43 answers · asked by =lost soul= 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my bf a few weeks back,ever since he just cant seem to accept it's over and keeps begging in txt msgs for me to take him back,it's really annoying. Me and him have money problems which would be solved if we moved in together,i told him i didnt mind if he lived in my house as long as it was just as friends and he sleeped in spare bedroom,now he's saying all or nothing,problem is i have this new guy and i dont know how he'd feel about an ex living with me,plus how wud my ex feel about me dating another guy,what should i do?

2007-12-18 00:59:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sensible answers pls!

2007-12-18 00:58:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have found on nights out recently that some girls sit and give me dirty looks for no reason. These are girls that I have never met before. Its like all girls have turned on other girls. Why is this????

We should stick together!!!

2007-12-18 00:57:53 · 21 answers · asked by bauraducks 2 in Friends

After having sex for the first time with my boyfriend he says "You're a workout" Should I be offended by that comment? Then says" do you regret doing this?" I say "No" Why do you ask and he says "cause I don't want you to"

2007-12-18 00:52:56 · 12 answers · asked by Unsure 1 in Singles & Dating

he said he loved me and he wanted to spend his hole life with me but no were not together and hes messin with someone else

2007-12-18 00:50:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i got married 4 months ago, i was told that if i had thank you notes at each place setting i could bypass thank you notes after wedding. i have since heard that thats a major "no-no". how do i go about fixing this, i am so ambarressed, im losing sleep. HELP!

2007-12-18 00:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by marble77ny 1 in Weddings

her wife and Ex and just becoz of their child they still live together. Wife is addicted of alcohol and and most of the day she been drinking and also fight her all the time.....

2007-12-18 00:46:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband of four years because he was lazy and hadn't had a job the whole four years we had been married. When I left, he finally got a job...and not just any job...a good job with state benefits and salary pay. The problem is that although I did not leave him for another man, I fell in love with someone else. But I still love my husband and I miss everything about him. I want him back, but I do love this other man too and I don't want to hurt him. I'm torn between both of them and I don't know which way to go. I feel like I didn't give my husband a fair chance, but at the same time I feel like I haven't given this other man a fair chance either. I also feel as if the relationship with this new man is going way too fast...we've been together for two months and we already have a place together, but I'm still not over my husband. What shoud I do? I would prefer responses from others who have been in the relatively same position. What would or did you do? Thanks!

2007-12-18 00:45:39 · 25 answers · asked by Nicole W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you found out after your children were born and you were married for 15 years that your spouse had cheated and a kid was a product of the cheating affair. what would you do? guys and gurls please answer.

2007-12-18 00:36:18 · 14 answers · asked by mimi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 00:29:27 · 12 answers · asked by safia 1 in Friends

my girlfriend moved a year ago into my house which i owned already before i was with her and i`m the only one on the mortgage.we had 4 month ago a baby and since we fight more and more.she won`t leave and says she got the right to stay. she also has a 9 year old child from a previous relationship which lives with us.my partner makes my life hell and is threaten me with false assault charges incase i don`t behave and do what and how she wants.any chance someone can give me proper advise how i can get her out preferably from someone who got legal knowledge.thanks

2007-12-18 00:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by THE POWERCIRCUIT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

someone of the internet if so what country were they from and your country and how was the experiance

2007-12-18 00:26:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, yesterday I was back stabbed (check my last questions for a more complex story) by someone who was supposed to be helping me. I ditched these bastards who WERE my friends and yesterday there was a big argument. They have all went up to the teacher and some told me that the teacher believed them ALL ! :( ! I've been off school today because it is nearing Christmas and I've got to help my parents to do stuff ... But I really need help ? What should I do ?!

2007-12-18 00:26:16 · 5 answers · asked by pop 4 in Friends

I've developed a personality disorder that won't allow girls to like me anymore. They are driven away by my personality and other problems that have come up over time. I'm not interested in fixing my personalty anymore since I've wasted over half my life trying to do so with no results. Now that I've gotten over the drug addiction that I acquired from years of psychologist drugging me up, I've learned to live without most things. I've gotten over needing a family or religion. I've gotten over needing most material things. Now I just need to get over wanting a girlfriend and my track to happiness will be complete. How can I achieve this? How can I shed the shackles of needing a mate?

2007-12-18 00:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Hilow H 1 in Singles & Dating

If i like a girl alot but im scared of commitment because i like to flirt with another girl so im stuck and scared to make my move so What shoud i do!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-18 00:22:33 · 11 answers · asked by Dillon 1 in Singles & Dating

hi! iam deeply thinking about a woman whos already married .. i even think that she is missing me and she also wants to be my friend . we ave never spoke to each other but believing in telepathy i assuming that she also likes me... can it be true?

2007-12-18 00:17:19 · 17 answers · asked by caaant2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, My moms is dating this black douche (nothing wrong with black people but hes a douche) and last night they were driving home and that douche had opened beer in the car. They got pulled over and long story short car got impounded.
I had to take a Taxi to work and spend $40 just to get there so today I made jack ****..what should I tell this douche? I'm definetly asking for my money :-D

2007-12-18 00:16:54 · 7 answers · asked by Crazy 2 in Family

I have a 14 yr old daughter and she's very close with her 18 yr old cousin recently. They usually stay overnight at granny's place once every 2 weeks. They stayed in different rooms of cause. The 1st incident, i accidentally saw both of them hugging on the bed. But it seems like they were only playing as they had pillow fights. We adults usually would chat downstairs. So we do not know what they were doing. 2nd incident was the maid told me that my daugher fell asleep in her cousins room. Both of them were sleeping together. I asked my daughter if she had any boyfriends lately, she said no. I told her what i saw and scolded her angrily. She started crying and said she love to be with her cousin cause they were happy around each other.

I told her im not gonna separate them or something but just warned her that she's too young to enter a relationship. Furthermore, its her cousin and he's 4 yrs older. I asked her to confess what they have done or im not letting her stay there overnight

2007-12-18 00:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and i are seprated and i wrote him a letter telling him how i'm shocked by the way he has treated me. Anyways i go to his brothers to give it to him he never comes to the door i don't know if he is home or not because there are 2 cars outside the third one is gone. Anyway i go and put it in the mailbox without even an envelope! do you think his brother will throw it in the trash orwill read it then give it to him my sister and law i think will jst hand it to him. I really wanted him to read it i texted him asking if he got it and he never answered but lately i can't reach him by his cell he hardly answers ect.

2007-12-18 00:11:01 · 17 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok im 16 and she's 13 and before u say anything we both DO know what love is when we are without each other or we go one day without talking to each other it torments us. The big problem is that her parents don't want her seeing an older guy which is understandable to an extent, because i learned that as long as u really do care about someone age shouldn't matter. Its not me personally they let us do things together like go to the mall before she knew we were dating and she IS allowed to have boy friends. So how can i make them see it our way i wanna talk to them

2007-12-18 00:05:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My kids are grown and gone. They've been a true disappointment to me - barely finsihing high school or GED, getting pregnant and married very young, and living like trash. How do I put my feelings aside, especially during the holiday season?

2007-12-18 00:04:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this junior that i like at my school but i don't know him that well. he is really hott and people tell me he is nice. I would love to get to know him!i am a freshmen though. but EVERYDAY when i pass him in the hallways he always glances at me, he glances at me at lunch, he looks at me when he thinks i am not looking but my friends are for me, he sometimes stares at me in the morning times, and he will kinda show off by bending over to tie his shoes in front of me, sticking his butt out in front of me, and standing right in front of me stretching and taking off his sweatshirt. My friends think he is interested in me but he has a gf from a diff town and they have been goin out for like 3 weeks.

All this stuff that I listed above was going on for like 2 1/2 weeks and today at school he didn't look at me.not even once. What is going on? Do you think he is just trying to play with my head? He did look back a few times in my direction at lunch but idk if it was directly @ me.

2007-12-18 00:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating