my girlfriend moved a year ago into my house which i owned already before i was with her and i`m the only one on the mortgage.we had 4 month ago a baby and since we fight more and more.she won`t leave and says she got the right to stay. she also has a 9 year old child from a previous relationship which lives with us.my partner makes my life hell and is threaten me with false assault charges incase i don`t behave and do what and how she wants.any chance someone can give me proper advise how i can get her out preferably from someone who got legal knowledge.thanks
2007-12-18 00:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by THE POWERCIRCUIT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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Discuss it across the table with legal professional guy.
2007-12-18 00:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by ssd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't learn to "fight fair" so you can work out your relationship for you baby's sake, you need to talk to a lawyer. It doesn't matter if her name isn't on the mortgage, she is your live-in partner and mother of your child, she can sue you for 1/2 of the house depending on which state you live in. And rightfully so, you BOTH now have an obligation to provide a home for that baby.
The saddest thing is having a baby with the wrong person - for the couple and for the child. Ask yourself what you can do to make it work, not what she's doing wrong. You can only change yourself, then she'll follow you.
2007-12-18 08:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Deb D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't advise legally what you can do.. But i can tell you this...stop arguing and give her what she wants then you'll be surprised how eager she'll be to please you... Other than that, all I can say is be a man and take responsibility for your actions.. Take care of the baby and act like a responsible adult. You created this monster, now tame it! (or just find another girlfriend)
2007-12-18 09:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Free legal advice is not abundant on this site. Contact a lawyer and know that whether you are married or not, whether you get along or not, your child is your financial responsibility and you will have to pay child support.
2007-12-18 08:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to seek the aid of a lawyer in this one dude. Another way, albeit somewhat cruel, is to pack all their stuff, put it outside or in your garage, and change your locks. But there are children involved...so...I would only do that as a last resort.
2007-12-18 08:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There aint no right way. But try to get legal advice but she do got you at her finger because she can put you on child support if you make her unhappy.
ps she got legal advice before you thats why you in this mess
2007-12-18 08:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat her to the punch and file a police report that she is going to file a false report and have the police come and evict her. This way she won't have time to react. Make sure to get a restraining order and file a petion for cutody of your child.
2007-12-18 08:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow..that's a tough one, especially if she is making false accusations. I know you came here for some help..but have you seriously looked into some professional advice?
2007-12-18 08:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to the sherriffs office and have her evicted. And in order to file assault charges she must have marks on her person.
2007-12-18 09:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the police are just a phone call away !
2007-12-18 10:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋