Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

Everything is Ok in our relationship.He wants to marry me. He always dreams of our wedding day and us having children etc. But I have got my own issues. I am quite overweight and thus lack self-confidence. I am always selfconscious about my looks and my movements. I am getting nervous about meeting my parents-in-law and I don't think that I will be able to give birth to healthy babies. I cannot even believe that he truly loves me since even I can't love myself. Should I leave him? I do not want to ruin his life too.

2007-12-18 07:01:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, my sister has always been jealous of me and wants to copy whatever i get in life. When i told her i was pregnant i knew she would have to do sumthin about it. She never likes being left behind & now is pregnant too. She recently stayed with me for the weekend and everything was about her and her unborn baby, nothing about me or my baby which was nearly due! I also got engaged recently and now she is pestering her boyfriend for the same thing!My mam said that my sisters attitude is "anything you can do,i can do better!". Other family members have also commented on this.
It bothered me at first that she was pregnant because she will take some of the limelight away from my baby,but it will be nice that there will only 6months between them.
It just seems that whatever i do,she has to copy me and try to outshine me by doing it in a more expensive way.
She is eight years older than me & only back with her boyfriend 8mths after a split of four yrs
Would someone like this bother you?

2007-12-18 07:01:10 · 9 answers · asked by stef s 2 in Family

I'm seeing two guys at the current moment. I've been on dates with both of them, but we're not going out. Both of the guys know that I have been doing that. I also been in bed with both of the guys.

Guy #1: 19 years old. A freshmen in college. Works at T-Mobile right when he gets out of school. Knows the value of things. He makes me know that I have to work hard to earn things and that things are not so easily granted to you. Has very nice personality. He's not a cheater because his ex cheated on him various times so thats why he dumped her, they were in a 2 and a half year relationship. Drives a Neon Dodge. Does not like his family too much. Blond and blue eyes.

Guy#2: 18 years old. Also a freshmen in college. Works at Dave&Buster as a bartender. His friends like me very much. A lot of his things are granted to him, but works for stuff also. Loves his family, very close with them. Lives in a 6 bedroom house. Drives a Ford Mustang. Brown eyes with curly brown hair. Pays 4 eveyrthing

2007-12-18 07:01:05 · 37 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant get my printer to line up right to print on the regular envelopes and the response card envelopes, either. Is it okay to use sticky labels?

2007-12-18 07:00:29 · 18 answers · asked by **leigh** 3 in Weddings

How can you stand to listen to that Gap commercial all the time?

2007-12-18 06:59:40 · 4 answers · asked by queen of snarky-yack again 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it that men don't want to talk to their spouse about sex and it's easier to find someone to have sex with? Or is it men need that new feeling of being attractive to other women?

2007-12-18 06:58:38 · 28 answers · asked by wvmomma96 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 06:56:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why is it most of you girls (mainly high school) tell us guys what you want is a sweet, loving, smart and caring guy when everytime I see a guy treat a girl like crap, they like them more. Is this because you girls like the challenge of trying to change a man? As it would be boring to be with somebody already like you. I have tested this myself and have indeed attracted more girls through the "bad" side (don't get me wrong, im Mr. nice guy lol but thats usually why I finish last heh). Perhaps it is because the ****** guys show more confidence and act more "manly"? I don't know. But what I do know is, more girls (keep in mind im talking about mainly teenagers) are definetly attracted to the bad guy. Girls in your opinions, why is that?

2007-12-18 06:56:27 · 20 answers · asked by llskorchll 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know when it will be happens and I want to know how will i die from.

2007-12-18 06:53:58 · 11 answers · asked by Beauitful White Wolf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 06:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean I love him don't get me wrong, and he loves me...but we want to wait to get married until we both get out of college and have enough money to get married in Ireland. We still want to be togehter though. We've been together a long time and we never fight and we are so in love so we're not going to break up. What can I do?

2007-12-18 06:45:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 06:43:37 · 25 answers · asked by queen of snarky-yack again 4 in Singles & Dating

I really shouldn't have to prove that I love him, right. Because I love him and when I say it I mean, and I don't be saying it to be saying either. In my heart I really do feel like i love him, but I really don't know how long it's going to last, simply because of the situation that were in. Nobody knows for sure that we are seeing one another. We just keeping it on the down low. Do our thing behind closed doors.

2007-12-18 06:39:35 · 8 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1 in Singles & Dating

what does this mean

2007-12-18 06:38:08 · 1 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Friends

Ever since I was small, my parents have always called me a liar. I never lie when I can and I always tell the truth when I can. My sister used to lie to get me in trouble when I was little so my parents used to think that I was a big liar whenever I tried to insist the truth.

Now my parents never believe I tell the truth. Its very annoying as I just get angry and argue with them. This is now leading to my parents never believing a word I say.

Eg. I found a photo on my dad's camera of my sister smoking. I showed it to my Dad and then just about to show it to my mum and my sister takes the camera and lies to get herself out. Whenever I tried to tell my parents that she smokes they used to tell me to go away.
Then they caught her smoking 2 weeks later.

But even with revising as my GCSE's (national exams) my parents tell me I lie when I say I HAVE revised. They say I lie about everything and when I protest they say I always lie and to shut up.

Any advice/help?

2007-12-18 06:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Chrisicus 3 in Family

My friends know though and he used to be one of my friends. He's really sensitive all of a sudden. We also have trouble talking. It's bugging me and it's pointless and tiring all the time to talk and not get a response. please give me advice, because I DO love him.

2007-12-18 06:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend but recently I went out with a group of friends and I met this other guy. I think he is nice but I would never like him in a romantic kind of way, at least not while I'm dating someone else. Only problem is that he seems to like me in a more than just friends way. He told me I looked beautiful and he asked me if we could go out for lunch or dinner somewhere. I would like to go but just as friends. Is this alright of me, or should I not be going out with male friends while I have a boyfriend? Please help!

2007-12-18 06:33:00 · 47 answers · asked by cat_lover 3 in Singles & Dating

a death occured in my family and i am feeling its my fault should i think like that

2007-12-18 06:32:06 · 14 answers · asked by louis g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love him but i am so sick of him everytime i want him to spend time with me he always has something better 2 do. i'm getting sick of getting da back seat. he has been getting on my nerves since i was about 6 months pregnant with our daughter. he argues with me everytime i say something he is just annoying. he does things just cuz he knos it annoys me like eat my food while i'm gone to work... hde da remote... and anything else he can think of.... WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-12-18 06:31:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am one Im just asking.

2007-12-18 06:30:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 06:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by davejoyce1286 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am married to a guy who is wierd lol. we are having lot of problems.and yesterday he gave me a present IPHONE. even though i always tell him do not ever give me anything that has to do with electronics i mean god how hard is it to understand that ur wife likes coach purses and chanel perfumes. i feel like he buys stuff with an excuse as in buying it for me but he wants it. i mean its 400 dollar phone. i dont want it. last year he bought me a GPS ON my birthday and returned it after he opened it and didnt like it and got me a laptop which he uses, he likes electronics and i end up with sumthihg i don't want. well anyways yesterday after i saw what he bought me i told him u can keep it , how hard is it for u to buy me 80 sumtihng dollar thing that i like, i mean talk about me being mean right when i told him i don't want it.so he starts fighting about that i don't want my wife to have cheap stuff bla blah... and he kinda made me open up the iphone... more details

2007-12-18 06:25:09 · 9 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ve been living with my SO for ten years.We got married 5 years ago.Six months ago I found out my wife has been cheating on me.She has been communicating with him for about a year or so.They have grown very close and she has fallen hard in love.They have been intamite but she mentions they did not have intercourse but did do just about everything eles.She says she is committed to our marrige but It seems she cant seem to let go of him. I can tell she is still longing for him.Things just havent been the same.She has no interest in sex with me at all. It seems she occupies her day doing things to keep her busy.She met him at a bar and a relationship started at her work on the phone and in emails while at work or after.She insists that it has ended but I still have no way of knowing what is going on at her work.She can email and talk on the phone at work and I would never know. I keep asking her to be honest with me she says its over. I keep asking about what's gong on. What do I do?

2007-12-18 06:24:58 · 7 answers · asked by Messed up Mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this kid had kind of had a “thing” and to make a long story short I was being weird in the beginning but now irealized I do like him . he told me the other day he was confused about if he liked me or not because of the way ive been “acting” and he told his bestfriend that he felt a connection between us and he can ‘tell me anything’ and now I find out that he just kissed a girl yesterday and I guess likes herr!1 but he still flirts with me al lthe time= / and gives me this look I think he still likes me.. I don’t know what to do..

2007-12-18 06:24:25 · 12 answers · asked by JessicA :) 1 in Singles & Dating

Is that Bad or Good

2007-12-18 06:22:51 · 19 answers · asked by Reginald R 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.ewedding.com/v20/?a=ambamellen1/

2007-12-18 06:20:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It's always the same with them, going out to bars/clubs, wearing trashy slutty outfits, shiny silk pink slutty shirt, short short jean skirt, bleached blonde hair. They're obsessed with reality tv, and celebrity gossip. They have serious alcohol issues, and refuse to quit drinking and "partying", meanwhile they want to be closer to god and not have sex. HUH?!? Exactly.

It's getting real old, real fast, and I've come to terms that i will never understand these women, or be able to reason with them, even in the stupidest arguments, if in a relationship with them.

Where can i meet a sweet kind girl? Library/Book Store? Coffee shop? Mall? CD shop? Where else?

And how do you approach THESE girls, because the party girls you offer a beer and let them run their mouths, enough said. But the sweet girls, this is a new one to me. Help me out.

2007-12-18 06:20:04 · 38 answers · asked by philanselmodown 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 06:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Continuity 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy and supposidly he likes me too but he never really shows it. I mean we talk like every weekend cuz that is the only time we work together. I have had people tell me that he likes me but he dosent know how to ask me out. He has never had a girlfriend none the less a first kiss. Should i help him along and ask him out or should i lay low. I want to ask him to the movies on new years eve...but..i dunno....should i go with friends or go by ourselves or should we just have dinner....i dont know what tyo do////hel;p!

2007-12-18 06:18:15 · 8 answers · asked by Fighter 1 in Singles & Dating

Question the guys in this room, those over lets say twenty-five. Lets say you were sexually casual with a woman for a few years. Everything was cool, because you both new the deal. HERE IS RIPPING TIME.
Lets say a five years ago the woman(ME) went back to her ex husband because he became terminally ill. The womans husband asked the woman never to see the BUDDY again and she never did, but continued to keep in verbal contact with the man via the phone and emails. Husband dies and woman decides its time to see the BUDDY meaning going to visit him a thousand miles away. HERE IS WHERE YOU CAN REALLY RIP. Guy has kept asking woman to visit, she takes him on it, then he tells her that he is coming up north to visit his parents for Christmas while he is up there he wants to see you? All of this is the same time the woman is suppose to come down there for a week. AM I MAKING SENSE. Is this guy getting back at me for all the years of me choosing my ex husband over him?
RIP AWAY GUYS.

2007-12-18 06:17:10 · 12 answers · asked by Me M 1 in Singles & Dating