Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

i mean, losing someone special ,your mom, dad, brothers, sisters how do you ever cope mentally if something daily like this happens, how can you cope someone special which you had a great time with, like how could i ever cope if i would lose my mom?
any ideas, but like saying they're in heaven is just not proven, mean you always wander..is there a heaven , am i really gonna see them back ever again :'( what do you guys think?

2007-12-18 21:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-18 21:14:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

you always wished for .but never ever recived ;but still hope too .

2007-12-18 21:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they separated 3years ago, but the divorce cant finalise because his wife is making financial demands that we cant come to, we have been together two years and have a daughter together, its putting a strain on our relationship, she is being unreasonable and we cant get her to see that she wont get anything cause we don't have anything to give, will she ever let up and just let the divorce go through?

2007-12-18 21:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

can a kind person go into specific detail?

2007-12-18 21:01:14 · 20 answers · asked by Malcolm 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been having these ongoing internal issues with the fact that my bf chooses 2go out every week with mates & get drunk...stayin out till 4am. I talked 2him about it and said that the fact he feels the need to do it every week makes me feel uncomfortable and I don’t understand why.
His argument is that we spend a lot of time together and when the lads are in town he gets to see a lot of them all in one go etc. He said he feels that hes just trying 2ave best of both worlds as he doesn’t want 2lose his mates/ neglect them…says he needs his friends &that they mean alot to him.
Part of me knows hes right,cause even when he is out on a Sat night he’ll more times than not spend alot of the day with me &then we’ll likely have dinner 2gether as well before he heads out so I really don’t know what is wrong with me.
But in my mind when I know hes choosing to go out on a sat and get hammered I get all emotional and I don’t like it….dont know how to move past this…any advice?

2007-12-18 20:58:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 20:43:06 · 13 answers · asked by FOBI 1 in Friends

i walked into my brothers room while his girlfriend was waxing his chest is this right?? do boys do waxing??

2007-12-18 20:42:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Bought A really expensive ring, due to finding her untrust worthy I have decided not to propose anymore. However I now sit with a ring that I cannot give back and the jewelers want it for nothing?

2007-12-18 20:25:49 · 18 answers · asked by Gillas Ballas 1 in Weddings

2007-12-18 20:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by winecuse 2 in Singles & Dating

can she get pregnant? she said she was off her period. grrr i'm 19 i should know this! wtf help me. she didnt take any pills either.

2007-12-18 19:55:08 · 40 answers · asked by pogiboy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 32 year old mother of 3. I was married to a man that really truely destroyed my selfesteem. I had gained weight during our marriage and he continued to belittle me and honestly still tries.

Now divorced 3 years, I am yet to find a man to love since. I often wonder if I will ever find love again and I am so scared that if I do he will be like my husband was. I have dated men but I can't seem to find 'the one'.

Everytime I date someone and I see any red flag my feelings just turn off... like a light. I can't even see past and litterally get irritated by them if I try to look past it. I can't stand that I am judging people but I want to be happy.

How do I get past my fears and my insecurities to find love and happiness again? Will I be like this forever? Is there any man out there that will see past my plus size and see my heart? I know I have to be happy with myself 1st but I don't think that will

2007-12-18 19:40:37 · 6 answers · asked by Karen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everybody. A few nights ago, I hung out with a friend of mine I have not seen in a while over my house and I knew that she liked me for a long time. I remember her cooking for us and then next thing I remember was waking up on my bed and I had an ache in my lower body and I felt really drowsy and I found my friend watching a movie in my living room. I don't know what had happened...but I have a feeling that she might have used something to make me fall asleep and then had sex with me. Is that possible? Can my penis function when I was unconscious? What type of drug might have caused this? Would I have gotten an orgasm from this? I know this sounds incredibly weird, that's because it really is to me as well so any help would definitely help.

Thanks,
Aaron

2007-12-18 19:08:35 · 13 answers · asked by soinlove 3 in Singles & Dating

im 16 years old and my bf is mad at me and i think we will brake up im so sad and scared....what if i cant find another bf what if no other boy likes me or my body what if i die old and alone....what if boys dont like me...im scared that if i move to japan japanese boy wont want to date me! i dont know what to do...

2007-12-18 19:02:02 · 35 answers · asked by Charlotte B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 18:59:49 · 10 answers · asked by Terriann R 1 in Friends

2007-12-18 18:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I went out to this bar and i got up to go to the bathroom and this guy in front of me turned around and said "Oh wow you are ugly... definietly no going to be with you..." I was so upset i just turned around and left. The worst part is it is not the first time someone has said that to me..
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I had almost decided that it would be good to stop trying but i thought i would give this a shot. Should i stop trying? And just face the fact that i am ugly...

2007-12-18 18:50:27 · 52 answers · asked by tree319 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband dont like my child and he is always ugly toward him, what must I do? I love my child so much and hate to see him so unhappy. In the week he always got something bad to say to him, he never sees any good in him. Weekends my husband drinks and then its the only time my husband will talk to him without being ugly.

2007-12-18 18:45:16 · 24 answers · asked by annie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please be honest... I want to know, even if it hurts, because I think I know the answer, but I just want to be sure.

Let's suppose that the guy in question actually mustered the courage to talk to you (girl), but completely butchered his "line" or whatever he tries to say to tell you that he is interested in you. And he comes across as not very socially skilled in general either - whether in spoken or non-spoken language, and you can tell that easily.

Would you really be as turned off as I am reading in some various sources seem to suggest?

Again please be honest - I don't want the standard answers of "awww I love dating shy guys" or "don't worry you'll meet someone eventually" even though those kind of answers are nice, they aren't helpful... I basically fit the profile of this guy, so I need to know just how bad my condition is (the articles I've read seem to make it look like I have no chances at all with women as it is now because of my lack of sociability)

2007-12-18 18:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by Xan 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it called as a 'sex' if my boyfriend kisses and caresses my breast?....will it have any effect on my breast?..thank u

2007-12-18 18:32:05 · 10 answers · asked by young_chemist 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I always joke around and make fun of each other in a nonharsh way. We first started talking when he came up to me and asked why I'm so quiet and if I see anyone I would "give it to" because he thinks none of the girls are cute and I told him no and he said, "you're lying, who do you think is cute?" but I kept insisting I didn't find anyone attractive. After that we started talking more and more and a group of us were talking about sex and he said "you probably don't have a boyfriend, do you?" and i said, "yes I do" and said "damn"...I don't know if he said that because he guessed wrong or what. But then he said that he also has a gf. A few weeks later someone asked him if he wanted to my phone number and he replied "she has a boyfriend" but then we joked around about people being sexy (they really weren't) and he said, "I guess I'd have to settle for someone like you". This was over the summer and then I had to move away for school. And now that it’s winter break we finally saw each other again and he asked me a few questions and if I’m still with my boyfriend. I said no and he asked why and I told him because, “He’s stupid” and he replied “Yeah, guys are stupid.” I haven’t seen him much after that. But does he seem interested or just friendly?

2007-12-18 18:31:56 · 11 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 1 in Singles & Dating

I bet they would outsell Xbox

2007-12-18 18:31:38 · 6 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4 in Singles & Dating

(on behalf of my friend)

I have been married from last 1 1/2 years. Mine is a joint family. When i told her evrything about me she promised me she will look after everything and she will support be from all angles. But when she came home after 2 months she was not comfortable. Seeing i m very attached to my family. I take care of my family, she use to loose temp. I do take care of her also. Later on i came to know that she is very short tamper and narrow minded, since she has never seen a joint family. We even had a talk on this problem after some fight. Inicially she agreed but she kept on doing the same thing (arguement) on silly things. I am a very open minded and cool person. I think i too have life to live and that is my right. But the tension is not reducing. Even i thought about the divorce, but i didnt dare to take this decision thinking about her and her family (they are very simple and innocent people). I think this will go on and on. I am in a fix. Kindly need your advice

2007-12-18 18:30:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm basically looking for advice on how to meet an intelligent girl. I find girls that are a bit different and are able to hold meaningful conversation extremely attractive. I'd be lying if I said looks didn't matter at all, but I certainly value intelligence and personality above all else.

I'm a freshman in University so there are plenty of people to meet, but I don't really know where I should be going/what I should be doing to find the type of girl I mentioned. I don't have much relationship experience.. mostly because I have a lot of trouble finding the type of person I'm talking about. I honestly can't be attracted to flaky girls, regardless of appearance.

Thanks..

2007-12-18 18:28:47 · 3 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was in a relationship 4 2yrs and he loved her but she left him and im having major issues with his past love. i read all the answers on Y/A about how u never get over ur first loveeven after 23yrs of marriage and 3kids. 1s i wanted to brakeup with him and he said i dnt wanna lose u how i lost her. i dont know what to think ....?oh yea another thing he used to buy her things he never brought me anything we been 2gether 4 a lil over a yr and only twice he brought me food. not that im a gold digger but i think that says something he brought her what ever she wanted

2007-12-18 18:28:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 18:19:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 18:09:52 · 23 answers · asked by mr MAN 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that likes me but i really dont like her that much, shes not really my type,We went 2 the movies a couple of times but i really like her best friend b/c she has real good personality and we have a lot in common. Do you think i have a chance to get with her best friend?If not what can i do? Help me please!!

2007-12-18 18:07:42 · 3 answers · asked by dstreetz55 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry to burden you with feeling that are not of your consent.I just wanted to let out my feelings. Well first of all my father cheated on my mom when she was pregnant. Their relationship is badly damaged by that factor. Also my mother loves my sister more than me. When going to my sisters room and mine there is a significant difference in both rooms. Her room has several new and advanced technology. Meanwhile mine had only a bed, tv, and closet.Last Christmas my mother and father gave my sister a car, tomtom, laptop and 600 dollars. Meanwhile all I asked for was a scooter and they only gave me a gift card to in an out worth 5 DOLLARS!UGH
Again sorry if I'm being a downer ,but I need to cool off.
Feel free to share your opinions.

2007-12-18 18:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by Charlie N 2 in Family

she broke my heart (cheated) and i'm still having a hard time forgetting about her cause i really loved her, but i know that it will never be the same again- how do i forget and if i can't forget then shoudn't i just go back to her? i'm not sure if she would that me back. she lives in england now

this just sucks

i've been with others since then but nothing compares to being with her

2007-12-18 18:05:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating