2007-12-18 20:43:06 · 13 answers · asked by FOBI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"Fault" or "guilt" is very difficult to assign and very subjective. When 2 people see a car accident, they seldom see it the same way.
Tell her you are sorry that you two argued and if you were wrong you are sorry. Also tell her that your relationship with her is way more important to you than who was right or wrong in a disagreement.
Good luck.
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2007-12-18 20:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she was angry about. It might seem like something simple or nothing to you but more than likely it is something deeper. For example she explodes because you always have the remote. It is not the remote she is arguing about it could be that she feels she is being controlled not in just the remote area but in other areas also and she took it out at that particular moment.
If she suddenly argues or starts an argument it could be that she was really angry from someone at work and you did something similar and she took it out on you. She may not even realize it.
Chances are though whatever she is arguing about is not the exact cause. Dig deeper and calmly to find out what is really bothering her. If you do that you will end up with a deeper relationship not just a surface one.
2007-12-19 04:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about the problem without blaming anyone and im sure if she loves you she will be just as sorry as you are for having a fight in the first place.
2007-12-19 07:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The solution is to not disagree, but to compromise. Holding judgment on either side does not create a resolution to reconciliation. It creates dissension.
2007-12-19 04:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters don't be so adamant that it was her fault, that isn't going to help when it comes to trying to sort it out.
Sit down and talk to her, you have no way of knowing what she wants unless you talk to her.
Good Luck
Happy Questioning
2007-12-19 04:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Kate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is a woman. She is always right. The sooner you learn that the happier your life will be.
Kiss and make up.
2007-12-19 04:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Seminarian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk out your problem. Talk to her not at her. Maybe she thinks that it is you fault. You will have to talk to her to find out for sure. If you solve the problem then I guess things will be ok, if not then I would say it is time to move on.
2007-12-19 04:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Doodle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you are sorry for being so stupid and unfeeling, and that you promise never to be so foolish again. if this does not work, ask her if she's being a martyr, if not you are going to have to take yourself in hand until you meet another girl.
2007-12-19 04:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you carry on saying it was her fault then you are not going to get back together.
You need to talk to each other and maybe try and see her side of the story.
2007-12-19 04:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long ago I learned to just nod and say yes.
There is an expression:
"Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy"
2007-12-19 04:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋