Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

There is someone in my life who I once considered a true friend. Recently however, she's become very destructive and bitter. She's encouraged me to cheat, told my fiance I'm going to cheat on him, tried to me convince that he's cheating or will, start rumors about him that almost got him bashed and basically caused all manner of trouble. She's used and abused me, tried to manipulate me and she's zapping the life out of me. She gives me bogus relationship advice, puts my fiance down and pushes me around.

I understand why she's bitter as she's miscarried three times this year, her relationship's on the rocks and her life is in shreds. But she's taking it out on me.

I've been there for her 24/7 (literally) but I can't handle her destructiveness anymore. She's texting me as I write this, demanding to know why I haven't called her in the last week or so. "Don't you love me anymore"

I feel so guilty turning my back on her. What the heck do I do?

2007-12-18 15:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by . 6 in Friends

this was when we were doing it for an hr or so and then took it off and did it for a few mins with out it, but she or me didnt ejaculate is there any way she could get prego? and then she took the morning after pill, is she going to get prego?

2007-12-18 15:52:19 · 13 answers · asked by bashbro2002 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 15:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I saw the guy I like other day for the 1st time in like five months at the movies. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. Then at the end of the movie he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out for a couple of minutes and the he just left. I'm not sure if he waiting to talk to me.His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering when he was talking to his friend. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways he had me blocked before I added him to myspace.

2007-12-18 15:49:05 · 9 answers · asked by shanta 1 in Singles & Dating

everyday I have to pretend Im fine, in order to cope with work and having to shop for food. If I could I would stay in my room and never come out. I am in my thirties and I am so sad and lonely. I feel like I will never have a family, but I dont know how to get one. I see other women like they just got a family, like I feel like they were just handed a family. you say well they must have done something and Im like I was a nice person and I was very good looking but no one will come rescue me. it's not that I want everyone in the world to care about me. it would be nice if just one just one person specifically a man would care about me , but they don't and I fear they never will. I get so stressed out. someone today accidently spilled his water on my clothes and I got upset because I was minding my business and this guy who Im not crazy about spills his drink on me. and thats all I get. I put them in the washer they will be clean right? I almost threw them out. I don't know

2007-12-18 15:45:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this guy in English lets call him K and anyway we were doing an activity and the teacher but us into teams.
About half way through the activity K (who is not on my team) come as stands beside me. Then he puts his arm around my shoulder and he says don't we make a cute couple to some random people. (I tell him that he is really creepy and he is like i no) And then he tells me to move over (because i am sitting on a chair) and he sits down on the same chair as me (and those chairs are really quite small so we were like really close) And then he puts his arm around my waist and shouts his friends name and then he points at me and smiles. After he gets up and goes back to his group.


Also I like K i think he's really cute and i don't think that he knows that.
What do you think this means we aren't really friends but we don't hate eachother

2007-12-18 15:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by penguins 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I think im falling for this girl, i really like her for who she is,
I cant sleep sometimes b/c of her...

I have 2 class with her, In our last class we have a group project.. lucky 4me, we are in the same group, I kinda flirt with her, get her the papers, we work well together, im not really that shy arround her any more... im kinda just at my norm

The signs im getting from her are like laughs after i do something funny or w/e. in a good way. Also every time I see her when im driving somewhere, either lunch or home, she is always with her friend in her car, and ALWAYS waves at me, and of course. i cant help myself and wave back

I dont know, I want to take it to the next step, past the friendly stuff, know what i mean...I got the hook-ups for a nice restaurant b/c we own it... its nice and romantic..trust me

I have her number, i know where she works, lives, her little brother, all b/c of this big group project :D

Help me out...what direction I should move in?
Thanks

2007-12-18 15:44:23 · 7 answers · asked by how_l3git 2 in Singles & Dating

He says he hates living here. What can I do? Is this just a phase he is going through? Please help! Thanks in advance

2007-12-18 15:38:06 · 16 answers · asked by beach_huzzy 2 in Family

Does anyone else have an issue with a 15 year old and a 19 year old sleeping together. They claim no sex. Im I "too old fashion" for protesting this?

2007-12-18 15:37:04 · 13 answers · asked by sexyredheadedtiger 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes when I wear thongs I just think they are plain annoying so when he asks me to wear one for him he gets mad because I don't really want to. Today I wore one to work and the reason is because I hate how you can see the lines through my dress pants which have no pockets. He is so angry with me because of this, he thinks that I'm wearing it so that other guys can look at me or I don't know. He says that I won't wear one for him but to work I will wear one. I don't really think this is something to be mad about. What are some things that I can point out to him so that he won't be so bothered about it. Or just stop wearing them??

2007-12-18 15:34:06 · 17 answers · asked by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im just having such a rough time right now with my confidence im so up and down with it. people tell me im very pretty which is a huge compliment im flattered, but i dont see it or i have a hard time seeing it sometimes. i think it has alot to do with guys(which it shouldnt i know) i fall so hard and they just want some from me. even though am i saving myself for someone special, i was about to give myself to this recent guy who ended up breaking my heart. which brings me back to my confidence it makes me look in the mirror and think whats wrong with me???? my friends just dont understand why i dont have a boyfriend. Im 20 years old and sometimes i feel so odd and left out, but thats a side of me i dont show alot of people. i had to get all this out.

2007-12-18 15:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for; such as inpection of the womb, colour, shape, etc... that can of detail. How do you know?

2007-12-18 15:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

met my girl friend who is 25 years old (I am 32) over a month ago, she mention her previous boy friend was quite large. Last week was the first time we made love, I am not small about 8" but I was surprised as if there was nobody home. She too was disapointed, would it be true once a woman had quite an endowed man before would still desire what she had experienced before?

2007-12-18 15:32:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She was my girlfriend for about a week and then she dumped me. I got her the present about 5 days after we were going out. Now that she isn't going out with me, what should I do with the present? Should I still give it to her or wait till I find someone else.

2007-12-18 15:30:57 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi this is sandeep s. I wanna marry my girl frend very soon in temple under hindu marriage act. urrently I am in US and very soon , i will go to india only for a week :-(

my question is - after this when we go for marriage registration :

1. do the 2 witnesses have to be same as those during the marriage?

2. what are the necessary documents required in UP during marriage registration.I am from UP, india.

3. How much time will it take for the registration?

4. What are the difficulties can be faced during registration?

5. Some other suggestions you would like to provide except not to marry :-) ? the thing is our parents are not agreed :-(

thanks
SS

2007-12-18 15:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by sandeep s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm thinking of telling her I'm half French and I couldn't help it. You think she will buy it?

2007-12-18 15:20:59 · 40 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well today was slow in a pleasant sort of way. I was way too exhausted and stressed about a few big school things to muster up the courage to make myself go to school. So, I had a stomach ache and sore throat instead :) Ha. Unfortunately, I haven’t made any sort of effort to get those things done, and my “sick day” is almost over. Figures.
My twin brother and my best friend, Daniel, is on my mind tonight as well. He’s had a tough year spiritually...He hasn’t been hanging out with people who share his standards which has caused his to slowly lower considerably. Which in turn has left him very lost and confused. He feels that God is unreachable and that he is undeserving of him. The truth is though, is that he is an extraordinary person. I wish I knew what to say to him to point him in the right direction; show him that God is right there waiting for him. Please say one for him, and me.
On a lighter note, I was just watching the most fascinating show on the history channel called...

2007-12-18 15:14:19 · 1 answers · asked by roo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband says he is bored with the marriage and our sex life after only a year. He says the spark has gone. He still fancies me and he loves me but he said that our sex life feels like a chore. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me?

2007-12-18 15:13:09 · 32 answers · asked by lol 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was with my friends fiance and his guy friends. I accidentely
announced that I hooked up w/ there neighbor another guy friend of theres. Not on purpose Really, I was surprised he had not told them. This was like last summer anyway. So they are gonna ask him all the details now. Will he be mad. I was wondering why he had not said anything to them, cuz we all know each other. Will he be upset with me or think bad of me for telling them? ( I put this in divorce because he is recently divorced, and has had issues with that) I am not sure if he was embarrased by losing his erection or he just wants to **** everyone. I still do not want him to think I was bragging or something. Was it bad of me to tell his friends.

2007-12-18 15:11:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know ladies love Vic. Sec., but i agree something sexy is too premature. The pj's look comfy, classy, and not presumtuous. whatch'yall think?

2007-12-18 15:11:15 · 3 answers · asked by edit.reality 1 in Singles & Dating

My obnoxious father-in-law is coming for the holidays, what can I do as not to get upset with the things he says and does. I'm already having anxiety attacks and he hasn't even arrived yet, he arrives this Friday.

2007-12-18 15:09:59 · 10 answers · asked by shears 2 in Family

He's in Iraq, and I found out that he was cheating when he ordered this girl flowers and I saw it on the bank account. The card said "Here's to what we are and could be." Obviously it's just on the internet and over the phone, but it was enough to convince her they were in a "relationship" and enough to piss me off majorly. He cheated on me once before, before we got married, that was actually sex. And this girl he's been talking to is in the same place that he will be when he gets back from Iraq. He says he's sorry, and that nothing's wrong with our relationship, and that he loves me and wants to be with me, but how can I get over something like this? He was stealing my time with him to be with her in the only ways that I get him now. I know some people don't count online as cheating, but I count this. He went on myspace, made a single profile, and started chasing women. And if I hadn't caught it, who knows how far this would have gone? I love him, but I have pride.

2007-12-18 15:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by Chelsey M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would his view of her change? And would he be turned off?

2007-12-18 14:58:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Chick on the side

Ignore me in person
just walk by
like im not there ,
fine don't say hi

just call me at 3 in the morning
bored , drunk and annoying

looking at me from behind
i wonder if im on your mind

cause when your girl walks by
suddenly you go blind

filled with anger and frustration
sick and hated for the same situation

if you want me ,come get me
don't make me scream

Cause ive been here before
and ive been the slu t
ive been the whor e

The other women , the other girl
never been the main love
and i never meant the world

so next time you see me
go ahead and walk by
because from now on
im too good to be your
chick on the side

2007-12-18 14:51:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in my mom's room with her,talking about differant things. Then she took a drink from her cup and spit it up and fell back on her bed, it seemed like she had a hard time breathing and shook for a moment. I was going to call for help. But then she straighted up and said she was ok, but wasn't in the mood to talk any more. I do not know what happened and wonder if I should ask her what happen. What am I to do?

2007-12-18 14:50:50 · 4 answers · asked by Chloe 4 in Family

My best friend and i have lost touch...she doesnt liek the guy im seeing or some of the people i hang out with...shes too stubborn to talk to however and ijust want the person who i used to ttalk to about everything back in my life and stop acting so indifferent and mean towards me...basically i miss my friend how do i make her see i want her back in my life

2007-12-18 14:50:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

One of my really good friends life is getting really ****** up! Her abusive mom that she hates keeps calling her and making her cry. The boy she loves just got picked up for weed. His parents hate her and she hasnt done anything for them to hate her. I dont know what to do for her. She is always crying and depressed. I feel sooo bad for her.

2007-12-18 14:44:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My aunt was telling me about her pet rock the she had when she was younger. What is a pet rock? Sounds a little weird!

2007-12-18 14:42:38 · 6 answers · asked by Bionacca Waters 3 in Friends

....something that just drives you crazy!

2007-12-18 14:42:06 · 53 answers · asked by *LiLy* 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband has had 5 emotional affairs. But with no intercourse (there have been implied things and such) or oral. Nothing has "touched". But my husband sees NOTHING wrong with it. I already know my definition. But what guys out there believes in emotional affairs are true? Whats your definition on it?

2007-12-18 14:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce