everyday I have to pretend Im fine, in order to cope with work and having to shop for food. If I could I would stay in my room and never come out. I am in my thirties and I am so sad and lonely. I feel like I will never have a family, but I dont know how to get one. I see other women like they just got a family, like I feel like they were just handed a family. you say well they must have done something and Im like I was a nice person and I was very good looking but no one will come rescue me. it's not that I want everyone in the world to care about me. it would be nice if just one just one person specifically a man would care about me , but they don't and I fear they never will. I get so stressed out. someone today accidently spilled his water on my clothes and I got upset because I was minding my business and this guy who Im not crazy about spills his drink on me. and thats all I get. I put them in the washer they will be clean right? I almost threw them out. I don't know
2007-12-18 15:45:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound very depressed, it might do you good to see a doctor for a checkup and describe some of your feelings. If it isn't actually depression, then you need to work on your attitude. You have to accept who you are, and have a positive outlook to attract someone. You can't expect someone to just show up on the doorstep and rescue you, it is when you don't need to be rescued that you will meet someone you can care about. Go to a bookstore and check out some of the self-help books, many of them have a lot of sound advice and can provide tools with which you can make some positive changes. Forget about wanting a guy for the time being. Start an exercise program, join a club, have fun with girl friends, cut your hair...just do what seems to feel good and eventually you will notice a new you.
2007-12-18 15:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess i can't really give you any advice that you probably haven't already heard but everything happens for a reason that's what everyone tells me anyway. i can understand where your coming from i have the worst luck with love every relationship i have been in I've been hurt i am now 23 years old with a 2 year old son with a 29 year old man that has cheated on me anger issues but i stay with him because he says he loves me and i just want to be loved. currently he is in jail i have no job and no where to turn so i guess things could be worse for you, anyway i hope i was able to help you feel better
2007-12-18 23:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem such a wonderful person..
i'm pretty sure you'll find him very very soon..
be more open-minded.. and view things openly..you'll never know maybe he's just there..you just don't notice him
2007-12-18 23:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋