Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

My boyfriend has just left and i'm a mess.I cried all day.I can't go with him because I would be leaving my friends and family.
I miss him soo much and I gave him my email address but he hasn't emailed me yet.I don't know what to do.I didn't even get to say goodbye.(sigh)plz help me!!!

2007-12-18 18:05:40 · 10 answers · asked by Chester11 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 18:04:06 · 3 answers · asked by badazzblondechick 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so iv had this friend for about a year now but he went off to the navy and now hes back we have bee texting alomost every day and calling each other when we text he calls me hun and sometimes babe and somtimes when i dont text him back he ask what im doing it seems like he likes me and my best friend even thinks so but im not really sure he is older but still i act alot older for my age hes coming to see me soon and i really need to know if i should go for it or if hes just being a guy friend. so pleas help!! thanks alot

2007-12-18 18:03:41 · 16 answers · asked by cherry girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel in love with a man i did not know had tourettes. He told me after i saw him shaking his head and blinkin a strange manner in our second date

I should of broken it up. But I was hooked i liked him too much.

One day he cried and told me how hard it was to have it. I cried too. Cause it broke my heart.

So I reaseach, studied and developed a program. It worked. It was working making him better there were less head shaking and eye blinking I was feeling releived as some times it can get bad and stressess me out.

But just a few days ago. He stopped.He has now gone back to drinking coffee and doing things which make his tourettes worse.

He has asked me to love him the way he is. But i then say how could you give up on something that was making you better? How could you give up on something that might cure you? As sometimes it stress me out cause i have to comfort him

whos right here? I am being unrenable or is he been selfish? and not thinking about his partner?

2007-12-18 17:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 17:58:27 · 15 answers · asked by sam s 1 in Weddings

2007-12-18 17:57:24 · 8 answers · asked by aishwarya66866 1 in Singles & Dating

Which one do boys like better?

2007-12-18 17:57:08 · 15 answers · asked by Eugene's Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to know what to say to these guys. Ignoring this doesn't seem to work.

1) Married senior partner asked me to lunch, I am *really* hoping it's work related, but since he has a tendency to stand super close when talking to me, probably not. Plus co-worker said she thinks he has a thing for me.

2) My friend's ex-bf (she's still friends with him, but she's now married) asked if I wanted to do something sometime. He seems nice, but I'm not really interested. She's encouraging me to go out with him.

3) A good friend I've known for years has started acting jealous that I spend a lot of time with another friend (both are guys). One night he said that if friend #2 was single, he would probably have asked me out by now. He's made other odd jealous-like comments which have led to awkwardness. Both are friends and I don't want to date either. (Friend #2 only wants to be friends too, so really no reason at all for #1 to be jealous...)

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2007-12-18 17:53:49 · 5 answers · asked by Brittae 3 in Singles & Dating

We married one year ago. i don't love my wife much. married life is ok. I am falling in love with my ex-girlfriend. now i want to divorce without hurting her much. how can i do it?

2007-12-18 17:52:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Basically I love this girl and she loves me back, but apparently she has gotten back with her ex and im kinda disappointed. We used to go out all the time and everything, but I dont know. Im wondering what to do, I mean I don't mind being friends with her, but it kinda hurts that when she told me she loved me and she back with her ex...I was wondering what should I do?

2007-12-18 17:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by Johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 17:45:59 · 11 answers · asked by brady m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it wrong?

2007-12-18 17:42:49 · 11 answers · asked by Tessie89 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to take a break from dating, but lately I've been hit on a lot and it's getting really irritating.

Wearing baggy clothes doesn't really help. Most days I roll out of bed, get dressed and pull my hair back without really styling it. I hardly ever wear make-up. I really don't see what these guys are seeing because there are way prettier girls out there who are actually trying...

I try not to flirt, but I'll talk to people and laugh at jokes, being friendly, but I try not to be overly friendly or give the wrong impression...

I was thinking of buying a fake engagement ring, but the guy that asked me out today is married, so obviously that's not gonna work completely...

Does anyone know what I can do that doesn't involve changing my personality or looking like a complete dork? I need to look nice for work even though some of these guys are at work. Should I make up a boyfriend and talk about him all the time? What?

2007-12-18 17:41:59 · 13 answers · asked by Brittae 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years i love him so much, he is my best friend, we have everything in common we are perfectly compatible he loves me with all his heart i feel like we are soul mates he is the perfect match for me when i THINK of everything i want in boyfriend.. but then on the other hand there is my friend that i have known for almost 8 years now.. we have always been the closest friends but we are complete opposites, but for some reason whenever im around him my heart totally melts and its been like this forever and i know he feels the same way about me but he is so wrong for me.. he would make the worst boyfriend he has all the worst habits the partying, the drinking the smoking the flirting all the qualities that my amazing boyfriend doesn't have but for some reason im so attracted to my friend it makes me crazy i dream about him every night. My heart tells me i should be with him but my head tells me to be with my perfect boyfriend. Who would you pick?

2007-12-18 17:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Beeg 5 in Marriage & Divorce

a)deena
b) Ronel

2007-12-18 17:37:07 · 7 answers · asked by sweetu 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 17:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by amanda h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

were makeing a bet.
if he wins i have to wear my sexyest outfit every wear we go and its really reveling

but if i win i get to dress him up in what ever i want!!


any suggestions that only i could win as a girl

(girls espesialy answer)

2007-12-18 17:30:36 · 4 answers · asked by Sara J 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not looking forward to planning a wedding, and I've been engaged since May. My fiance and I are in our mid 20s and not done w/school yet.

Is this normal?

2007-12-18 17:26:13 · 18 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

2007-12-18 17:25:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-18 17:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by namron 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she keeps on leaving me alone 2 go hang out wit her friends Im only 14yrs old and I feel like Im not getting enough love from her she hasnt told me tht she loved me in like 4ever and when she does stay home she stays up in her room and like ignores me and I help her a lot around the house and I did most of the dishes like she said and she got home and said tht if I dont start helping her more around the house tht she will ship me off 2 my dads house and tht Ill never c her again...Im really depressed and im usually happy but now she just ignores me and leaves me home alone on 4 like hours and hours like if she will leave at like 1pm she wont be home till like 10pm and Im just stuck her...And I kno she has school and work and everything but now she is out of school but still goes 2 work but she gets off at 3pm and then goes and hangs out wit her friends and acts as if she doesnt have a daughter tht actually needs her love and care!I feel like im missing out on a mothers love!HELP PLZ!!!

2007-12-18 17:23:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im 5'9 and I find that some guys really like that about me but it might be something else that they like about me, I dont really know. Anyways do guys like tall girls or shot girl? Mostly asking for guy's opinion but girls feel free to give me your opinion.

2007-12-18 17:17:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is embarassing, but I need to know what to do. I was recently laid off from work and have three kids (10),(7), and(18mon.) I have been with the mother of OUR kids for 12 yrs. Heres my question. We are about to run out of heat and I can't afford to fill the tank and buy christmas presants for my kids. Does anyone have any suggestions of what I should do?

2007-12-18 17:12:54 · 12 answers · asked by BadazzGTP 2 in Friends

2007-12-18 17:09:50 · 12 answers · asked by cali girl k :_) 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know there's just something about me that drives women wild. I don't want my wife to find out about me and all my lady friend. This is what I look like

http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/5019/0804allooo3.jpg

What should I do?

2007-12-18 17:06:23 · 14 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For example,if a woman's hymen is stretched,her cherry is broke
and she is no longer a virgin.Me and my college class mates
are doing an essay on that.Many of us guys were too embarrassed to asked to that question.We are still researching.In our health class,it was estimated that 6,000 young American boys and girls at the age of fourteen and older
loose their virginity every day.Neither of these teens were asked to give their names,but they had to give their age and gender.Most of them were boys than girls who lost their virginity ,their identity renamed private.
The professors asked these boys and girls how can they tell
if an older man is still a virgin,they had no answer.My health teacher says we have to do this project,because it has to do with unprotected sex from young teenage boys,and men,
and the aids epidemic going on in this country.I'm hoping someone older or with more experience,can give me this answer,so that I can get the best grade in class.This info was
in pb book 06.

2007-12-18 17:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, Who has been in this situation before? Kinda like what Brad Pitt had to deal with when he was seeing Angelina Jolie although he was married to Jennifer Anniston..

I'm NOT married but I live with my boyfriend of a few years. But, I'm falling for another man, possibly. He is into surfing, like me.. He seems to want 3 kids like me, wants to get married soon, wants to move to San Diego like I do etc.. So, we have a lot in common. I only met him twice though and we kissed and got along great. I'm still not sure if he's "worth" dumping my current boyfriend for as my current boyfriend has a lot of $$ and ambition and we have a history together. Although, my current boyfriend does not want to get married for a loooong time.

The problem: I just want to spend some time alone with him 1 on 1 so I can get to know him better and make my decision, but he found out I have a boyfriend and now he doesn't want to talk to me until I dump him. But, I'm not 100% sure..

2007-12-18 17:04:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 17:00:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone thirty or forty something want to talk on YM?

2007-12-18 16:59:04 · 7 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day my husband was telling me how the guys at his work check out the girls that come in and they tell him 2 look and hes says no that got me thinking and i asked him if hes checked out any women since he met me he said he hasnt checked out any since a while before he met me its weird 2 me cause all men look but doesnt mean its cheating is this true or am i fool for beliving him? i dont like lies if he does id be ok if he just be honest

2007-12-18 16:58:16 · 20 answers · asked by Laura W 2 in Marriage & Divorce