2007-12-18 17:58:27 · 15 answers · asked by sam s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
nope! i believe everything happens in right time. To elope with someone is really wrong for me. you'll leave your parents worrying and disapointed with you. as for me, i cant be truly happy with someone whom my parents doesn't blessed with. id rather wait for the right time to be with someone. truly, i believe my parents has reasons of doing it....
2007-12-18 18:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by yheng_sho 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Her parents will be with her through all her problems and help to solve them. A lover is worth a dime a minute. Don't let your heart for a lover that obviously doesn't love you nor has respect for family. Because if he did you wouldn't need to ask this question. Your letting your heart go nuts over someone that can be replaced. But your parents are forever. I'd trust my parents more and believe in their wisdom. The lover is just looking out for himself. Not thinking about your family ties.
2007-12-18 18:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mouth of the South 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because if the girl runs with her lover after her parents say without referring to race or other forms of bias then the child will have to learn the lesson the hard way.
2007-12-18 18:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Darkskinnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you legal adults? if you are, then go. Just don't expect the welcome wagon when you get back. Are you sure you're ready for this? Make sure...you're jumping into a whole new world, that quite frankly, you don't sound ready for. There may be some reason for her parents saying "no"...
could it be maturity? Life experience?
Think about it logically, for just a moment. Is this what you want? Torn family members already? Stress in your marriage already? If it's stressful before you're married, it isn't going to get any better...don't be foolish or naive.
2007-12-18 18:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sam,
There are so many things you left out of your question.. Ages for one...
BUT I have to say.. just from the grammer you have used in your question.. my best advice is NO... stay home.. go to school... get an education..
If you are truly in love... it will last until you are old enough to get married with out consent... if your not.. well then think of the BIG mistake you just avoided!
Good Luck and Happy Holidays
2007-12-18 18:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by gin_in_mi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's ok if you really love him and he loves you too. But think about it.. you may really regret your decision some years down the road. Is this guy really worth it? Are you gonna break ties with your parents jus for this guy? I don't think it's a wise idea.
2007-12-18 20:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by SS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old r u...unless ur 18 or older then running away would b a huge mistake...1 that ud probably regret 4 the rest of ur life
2007-12-18 18:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Their blessings will protect you. Plus, you will insult your love if you just run away. In the end, love conquers all. So, have patience and things will fall in place.
Or.....their curse will chase you around.
2007-12-18 18:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by guide_12 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont ever ever make this f'in mistake!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if he is ur faith then someday ur parents will say yes
and u must be less then 18 to say that, dont let him lie to u!
if ur over 18 , then problem solved with u running
2007-12-18 18:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by lscence 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do what ever makes you happy, as long as you know that it isn't hurting anyone.
2007-12-18 18:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by mima... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋