I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years i love him so much, he is my best friend, we have everything in common we are perfectly compatible he loves me with all his heart i feel like we are soul mates he is the perfect match for me when i THINK of everything i want in boyfriend.. but then on the other hand there is my friend that i have known for almost 8 years now.. we have always been the closest friends but we are complete opposites, but for some reason whenever im around him my heart totally melts and its been like this forever and i know he feels the same way about me but he is so wrong for me.. he would make the worst boyfriend he has all the worst habits the partying, the drinking the smoking the flirting all the qualities that my amazing boyfriend doesn't have but for some reason im so attracted to my friend it makes me crazy i dream about him every night. My heart tells me i should be with him but my head tells me to be with my perfect boyfriend. Who would you pick?
2007-12-18 17:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Beeg 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stick with your boyfriend. You mentioned him first which clearly spells out your priority. Trust you're intuition. You've got an animal attraction for your friend. He's a bad boy and completely the opposite to your boyfriend. But your stomach's telling you there would be no future. Just keep it as it is and if he starts flirting with you, tell him how it is and to stop.
2007-12-19 04:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by celfone71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have 2 I would have to say neither. The reason for this is if you pick the "bad boy" the one your heart says to go with you will feel bad and who knows what else about your current BF. If you pick your current BF you will always be yearning for the other. So I say drop both and wait until you are ready for a guy who deserves you and you are ready for only one.
2007-12-19 02:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you are having relationship for last 3 years is right for you when you know that he is the one who has all in him that you want in a BF. The other one is friend for a long time.He can't be a BF of your liking.
Go for the this latest one who can really put you on .
2007-12-19 01:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you've been with your bf for 3 years, but your heart has been with someone else...hmm do what your heart tells you. And also...don't leave the person you love for the person you like because the person you like will leave you for the person that he loves. Good luck.
2007-12-19 01:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the currant boyfriend,if you went to the friend and got involved you will not change his ways, that is just setting yourself up for heartache.
the feelings you have are more fantasy because it is different.might want to try and spice things up alittle.
2007-12-19 01:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by azuzathebad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy friends habits annoy you now, wait until you are with him! It will drive you crazy!! I think it is just lust.
2007-12-19 01:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by whitewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋