The other day my husband was telling me how the guys at his work check out the girls that come in and they tell him 2 look and hes says no that got me thinking and i asked him if hes checked out any women since he met me he said he hasnt checked out any since a while before he met me its weird 2 me cause all men look but doesnt mean its cheating is this true or am i fool for beliving him? i dont like lies if he does id be ok if he just be honest
2007-12-18 16:58:16 · 20 answers · asked by Laura W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's not lying. He's just not sure how you'd read into it, if he said "Oh yeah I check out other women". Would you take it as "Oh he's bored with me"etc. Guys do. Just like women do. You're only looking. It's not cheating. I'd let it go. He probably looks and then looks away, as his buddies probably make disrespectful comments etc.
2007-12-19 04:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by celfone71 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only human nature to look.
However .. a person does not have to have bad thoughts when they look.
I like to look at people .. but I never have bad thoughts about them. And .. I am being honest.
I hear the things women say about looking at other guys ... but I do not think those types of thoughts ... and I am a pretty healthy woman in every way.
2007-12-18 17:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not saying he pervs but he has defintely looked 100% .my husband once said that to me its only to keep us happy so we do not get insecure .
do u look at other men just because they look good or a bit sexy yes we all do but that does not mean we will play up on each other .
dont let your husband think you are naive but remember he loves you and that is why he is saying it .as he does not want to hurt you really i do not think it is a liar
2007-12-18 17:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lindylu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband rarely checks out girls and hes been that way since before i met him. im friends with some of his exes, and some of his friends from when he was younger, so i got this info from them
2007-12-18 17:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Firdaus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between seeing and "checking out". I think a man (or woman) can notice others and think they are attractive... with out "lusting" after them.
That is all he is talking about.. My hubby says the same.
2007-12-18 17:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Danndie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. He may not check out girls at work, but there is no way he never checks out any girls. its against human nature.
2007-12-18 17:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
its because he's in love with you. He looks of course but he's not checking them out. He is comparing you two and thinking " Mines better" He doesn't consider it checking out because he isn't attracted to anyone else because he thinks he caught the best fish in the sea
2007-12-18 17:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Bailey G 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He's just teasing, he checks them out, it's a guy thing. He is just being tactful by not telling you that he does. ..Don't get yourself in a tizzy about it, he is being gallant and saving your feelings. His heart is in the right place.
2007-12-18 17:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no may be he is not lying if he is really checking for another woman he may not at all discuss the topic with u
2007-12-18 17:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
some times he may not get time before
2007-12-18 17:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by cmurugesh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋