Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

Why do girls look at me but they never say nothing they just look at me, but not a stalking kinda look, sometime its quick sometimes its long and I think that sometimes its from the corner of their eyes.

2007-12-18 12:02:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a gift to give my ex girlfriend for xmas, It is a gold heart shaped pendent, with matching earings and it is stored in a wooden chest which i have built for her. It is a very unique gift and something i know will touch her heart.
The problem is we will be apart on xmas day (300km) and i had arranged with her mother to give it to her xmas night but my ex and i had lunch together today for the first time since we broke up a month ago and she gave me a card which she had wrote before we broke up, the card said how much she loved me along with other stuff.
I now wonder if i should give my ex her gift before she leaves to go away as i would really like to be their when she opens it and see the look on her face!
So should i give it to before or on xmas day?

2007-12-18 12:02:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Don't your prefer, Beyonce or Jennifer Lopez (before Pregnancy)??? Want to hear it from the men.

2007-12-18 12:00:20 · 15 answers · asked by clever girl 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so this guy says his interested in me, but every time i text him or even call him he doesn't call or text back. Then when i confront him about it he apologizes and says he was busy what not but im so ****** confused. Like is he just pulling my string or something really going on? I don't feel like i'm given a chance to prove myself here, like im worth his time.

2007-12-18 11:59:21 · 24 answers · asked by HoplessRomance 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up a few weeks ago with someone that I loved very much, everything was perfect..except she had children. I love children, but did not want the "daddy" role I felt pressured into. (these were another man's children)- and knew we would never have the intimacy that I long for in a real relationship.

I know now this is a dealbreaker for me...but I can't help but feel at one point she would have been what I call the "soulmate". Is it better to be with your "soulmate" and have hard issues to deal with, or better to find someone compatible with you, that the love might not run so deep?

Also- do you think there is more than one potential "soulmate" out there for everyone?

I do want children...eventually with ONE woman...MY children (OUR children), so no- I do not dislike children.

2007-12-18 11:58:14 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sparing you guys all the details...

Grandma is negative, and likes to get pissy with my 2 year old sister and 6 year old brother., sometimes the 14 year old as well (I am 16). Grandma lives with us, but it was originally her house (perhaps why she feels like she owns us?)

She just seethes, 80% of the time. My mom (her youngest daughter) has bluntly told her so, and told her to calm down or whatever, but she ignores everyone. What can I say to make her calm down when she just wants to sink everyone's ship? I am her granddaughter, and a favorite, but She gets angry very easy.

I try to keep the house clean, i do everything she asks of me, but its never enough.

I am at my wits end. I cry almost every night, and I wasnt like this before we bought the house and moved in. I jsut want to be normal again.

2007-12-18 11:57:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I NEED A SONG FOR A FEMALE TO SING FOR HER FATHER BUT I CANT FIND ANY! I AM 2ND SOPRANO SO I CAN'T SING ANYTHING TO TERRIBLY HIGH....BUT ANY SUGGESTIONS WOULD BE VERY HELPFUL THANKS

2007-12-18 11:55:33 · 11 answers · asked by Alena's Mommy 7-1-11 4 in Weddings

There a commercial where a little girl and a women is dress up for a wedding and there by a merrior the women puts on some kind of perfume. I dont know what perfume is for but I just want to know the wedding song that is plays durring commercial. Hopefully some one know what i'm talking about. Thanks

2007-12-18 11:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by cmm14513 2 in Weddings

im in a long term relationship and i have friends that are in a gang and i chill wif them sumetime...my problem is that i love my girl alot and when i get mad at her i take out my anger by getting introuble in skool and alsowhen she makes me down but den when im straight with her theres always a problem involving my friends and i have to have my friends back but i dont kno wtf should i do to jus do good in kool and not tryin to do stupid disicions withou losing my girl either

2007-12-18 11:51:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i really really really like his guy at my uni. its been 2 years know. im pretty sure he like me too. he stares at me and lots of other signs....but that would be too long to get into..but...

anyway i was in the libary and just inorder to say something i walked ovet to him in the libary ile, he was crouched on the floor, he looked up and we both smiled at each other like in a gaze,for a long time and i said sorry. both still smiling...and then he moved out the way.

then about a month 4 months later, i was crouched on the libary floor and he walked over to me. i knew it was him and didnt look up for a long time,got shy, he was still standing waiting. i then looked up and he was all ready smiling down at me, big smile, with his head tilited. we smiled, gazed at each other for ages and he then wispers 'sorry'. i move.

after i got the feeling he wanted me to say something...likewise. we r both shy. and 21! what to do?

2007-12-18 11:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 11:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

if a cute girl was picking with you like saying hi a lot and smiling at you a lot...would you mind? :D and if you knew she liked you would you try to be mean to her?

2007-12-18 11:43:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy at my work that i have liked for about half a year now. we've went out twice and i had a great time both times. i know he likes me b/c of some of the comments he makes to me, and he's told me that he likes me, but there's so many things going against us, that he doesn't know if he's willing to get into a relationship with me. he said he doesn't want either one of us to get hurt. he's 24 and i'm 18, we live about 30 minutes apart, and he works second shift, so it would be hard for us to get together. the other day i gave my number to another guy and this guy got extremely angry when he found out. he called me later that night and said he wasn't mad at me, and he understands why i did it. (i don't feel like waiting on him forever if nothing is going to happen between us, but i like him so much). what should i do? thanks for your help!

2007-12-18 11:42:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what exactly do you mean by it? What is it about that guy that makes them seem "brotherly"?

I had a girl tell me that she thought of me as a brother and I guess it made me curious.

2007-12-18 11:39:44 · 23 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey

I always imagined a small wedding of about 150-200 people but my parents are like those people that know everyone. i'm an only child and the youngest in my family from both sides so this wedding is going to be on a grand scale. My parents are inviting everyone they know as well as people who hate me.

It's horrible and out of my control. I don't mean to sound ungrateful but the wedding list has reached sky high. I don't even know about 75% of the people and of those invited some actually really dislike me and yet they are going to come to my wedding.

What should i do? I don't wanna hurt my parents feeling but i want a small, memorable and intimate wedding not a circus. I know they always wanted this but it's my day too.

Please help.....

2007-12-18 11:38:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend is a strong southern baptist, and I'm bi. How do I tell him without loosing him? I really do love him

2007-12-18 11:38:42 · 18 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sick and very exhausted. My mamma is in Pasadena I live all the way in LA near Inglewood. I'm in glendale, so my moms is closer. Well I'm wondering if I should go to my moms or to my place. We live with his parents so I would really get some quiet at my moms.
It's raining and I would have to go on the traffic jam on the 110.

which hand?

Moms- warm, quiet, nourishment. Closer, maybe safer to drive to. Fold out couch.

My place- not so quiet, my hubby would be there, further drive. My own bed? Hubby wont get home till 9pm which I expect to be in bed by then.

what do you think. one night only

2007-12-18 11:37:32 · 7 answers · asked by MS.veronica 3 in Family

i need some1 2 share my problem & secrets.so be my fren please!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-18 11:36:31 · 16 answers · asked by shasha 2 in Friends

i havent had my first kiss yet and im 13. i go to an all girl school, but the boy's school is right next door. i sometimes and most of the time i get urges to kiss a guy. is it normal?

2007-12-18 11:34:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he only lasts for like 3 min and hes kinda small.

2007-12-18 11:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by maya 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this love or like? There is this guy, and I can never not even one second stop thinking about him. I never liked school, now I love it and look foward to it everday because hes there, and I hate school breaks and weekends cause I dont see him. When I dont talk to him, its like I cant breath, I go insane for days and need to talk to him so I can breath again, when I think about him my heart beats faster.

2007-12-18 11:33:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a girl passes you in the hall way or wherever.
what's the first thing you notice?

also whats turn off's and tun on's in girls?
( ex. big thighs, big boobs... or w/e)

ANSWER TRUTHFULLY!
thanks

2007-12-18 11:31:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was in my friends wedding and never got one. she just told us.

2007-12-18 11:30:13 · 14 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings

I'm from Knoxville, Tn, I only 20 years of age and I type of person that don't get out much because I don't know how to drive, I'm african-american perfer non-black men. Is it ture that maybe one day you run into your ex.boyfriends fall in love again. I wonder do any non-black men find African-American women attractive.

2007-12-18 11:26:59 · 21 answers · asked by Kelis Jordan 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you have a preference for introverted or extroverted friends, and why?

2007-12-18 11:26:45 · 7 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Friends

Heres the deal, my friend loaned her $$$ for the 1st month rent 2 years ago and HAS NOT received a cent back. Now that he has moved he is still pissed that she owes him. Was I in the wrong for giving him her address even though they were friends and she may have told him her address a while back?

2007-12-18 11:25:07 · 7 answers · asked by Terri A 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is one man who has been in love with her since they were teenagers, but she loves him in the way a mother loves a child. They are both a few years apart in age. She does not want or need a romantic relationship with anyone for she is devoted to bettering the world. Is she killing him slowly?

2007-12-18 11:24:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have this Great connection! We have sooo many things in common and we feel very very very comfortable with each other. We were cuddling and just holding each other was amazing. However....when he kissed me..I didn't feel anything. Yes, we are attracted to each other. But when we made out it just wasn't that great...it almost seemed he was somewhat inexperienced which he isnt. Does that just mean that hes not the right guy if the kisses aren't *BAM*
Please don't just write some stupid answer if you dont know.
I need honest feedback from experienced ppl.

Thanks a bunch :)
Love!

2007-12-18 11:23:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In previous questions , I told you about my situation , that the guy I didnt love wanted to follow me . You guys told me to calle to police , I threatened him if he dared to come over my house to meet me , I would call the police . But he didnt stop and he wanted to meet my mom to tell everything about it . I'm such a fool that I told him my weakness point that I dont tell anything or any relationship to Mom so he said because i didnt agree to love him , he'll do anything to get me . It has gone too far . What can i do now . Plz help me !!!!

2007-12-18 11:22:51 · 30 answers · asked by ngocphuong1989 1 in Singles & Dating

the groom's parents who are paying, who we barely speak to or us the couple?

2007-12-18 11:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings