Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

To cut long story.I mistakingly accused a friend of taking some money from my room.I found out weeks later (last week)I was wrong (i found it).I have been to her house to apologize she won't see me.I have emailed her and txted her.Before I went to college we were such good friends.I have tried to say sorry so many times this week I don't know if there is anything else I can do.

2007-12-18 10:29:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-18 10:28:44 · 2 answers · asked by phoebe w 2 in Family

i'm 16 and my boyfriends 18. after he graduates, he's joining the army :[.... he's always telling me how he lusts for me and i can tell he wants me.
like i want to have sex with him because i love him, but i'm afraid that i'll be bad or not know what to do since i'm a virgin...

what should i do!?

2007-12-18 10:27:46 · 16 answers · asked by mea065 1 in Singles & Dating

mine has always been the morning.s the fresh air always ;seems better .

2007-12-18 10:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

At the dance she smiled at me and said Hi and waved at the same time and said my name while doing it. Here is how it went when I asked her out
The story starts out by my friend telling her I wanted to talk to her, she said hold a sec. Then she came over to me and stood very close and looked at me dead in the eyes. I said hey do you go out with anyone and she said no. Then I asked her does she want to go out with me and she smiled. She smiled like she was flattered. Then she tapped me on my left arm twice while saying" I'll have to think about that Cameron". I asked her if she wanted my numbeer and she said okay with enthusiasm. I gave it to her and she asked me did I already save it. But hen she did something that shattered my heart. In the hallway I came around the corner and she just walk to the other side of me, but when I came back she was talking to her friend. Then later in the day day as I passed her locker she looked up at me.

2007-12-18 10:24:02 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was with a guy for 2 years but it was weird because I was never sure if we were "going out". We were always together, we were eachothers first kiss, I lost my virginity to him, I told him my secrets. He did a lot of things to hurt me, and suddenly I realized them all adding up and felt sad. My friends, my family, and HIS friends even told me he didn't treat me right. I decided to break it off with him, but I didn't know how so in the beginning of the year I just stopped talking to him and walked away from the situation... In school we acted like we both didn't exist yet we still texted eachother often. There was a girl who was obsessed with him. They didn't start going out until 4 months later. I don't text or hear from him anymore. I knew it was going to end like this but I can't help but still miss him even though I knew he wasn't good for me. I guess it makes me sad to see he found someone. do you think he has any feelings for me at all or that shes a rebound?

2007-12-18 10:23:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok first off i dont want to hear negative things about our relationship...you dont know us.

but i am asking for help on how independent he is.

we had a huge talk about it and we both came to agreement he is to independent to be in a serious relationship esp if we are talkng about marriage in the near future.

we have been together for 4years.

(his long story short) he has been indep from age 8, father died, mother abandoned him, lived with his uncle who was never home. so he is used to being indep and depending only himself no one else...

well i need to feel needed. i knows he wants me in his life but i never feel he needs me. i believe the one ur supposed to be with, that you NEED each other...not just WANT...if that makes sense...

what can he do to either become less indep or show me he needs me???

and not just a nice night out telling me how much he loves me... but more like daily or weekly things he could do....

SINCERE ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!
thank you
happy holidays~

2007-12-18 10:22:36 · 6 answers · asked by roxybeach793 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd rly like to increase my chances of getting the type of girl I really want.. By this i mean not dating girls I meet at work and school, or at bars and clubs.. But girls I see walking down the street or shopping at the store... Any girls have tips on what you like best when a guy approaches you, or if you like to be approched in that situation? If you like it than any good conversation starters you think that guy should use when talking to you? What about body language what bothers you most when a guy approaches you?

2007-12-18 10:22:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with this girl two years ago and haven't meet her since yesterday and i still have fellings for her.
sould i ask her out again
Why or why not?

2007-12-18 10:21:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My lover seems to never have time for me. It seems she has found this ? answering web site ,and she answers every question. She seems to have an answer for every thing,what a shame. If only she would shut down her computer

2007-12-18 10:18:35 · 23 answers · asked by always right 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard one guy complaining that his gf never paid for anything....I didn't think it was expected of the girl to do so. Should I start paying for my half ?

2007-12-18 10:18:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our wedding is in August. I'm looking around at invitations. Did you order online or at a local party/wedding store? What are the advantages/disadvantages of ordering invitations online?

2007-12-18 10:17:57 · 9 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Weddings

well all my friends that i know say that i should pearce my ear i mean i want to but the only problem is that my parents dont think its a good idea BUT one time at red lobster my dad said i could but then my mom was like oh no and so my dad was like u know i was just playing right it was just a joke
how can i convince them to let me pearce my ear?

2007-12-18 10:17:37 · 3 answers · asked by hollister 2 in Family

What can i do to make myself happy again

2007-12-18 10:17:10 · 19 answers · asked by Iceprincess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I WAS LOOKING FOR HELP ON MY VAN AND I SAW ASK SO I DID BUT NOT KMOWING THAT THIS IS A CHAT ROOM SO I'M SORRY ABOUT THAT DO NOT BE MAD AT ME I JUST NEEDED SOME HELP AND I GOT NO RESPECT SO HAVE A BLESSED DAY

2007-12-18 10:14:18 · 4 answers · asked by elaineash46 1 in Singles & Dating

okay you know how when people and best friends they like finish each others sentences?
and married couples do that too.

and they like, say the same thing at the same time sometimes.

why is that?
is there an explanation?

2007-12-18 10:09:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't want me to have friends. I can't have any life outside of him. He's jealous and overprotective and controlling and unfair. He told me I could go out with old friends again, so last night I did for the first time in two years (since our relationship started) and he ended up getting unbelievably mad at me for it - like it was a big test or something to see if I would really do it eventhough I checked and checked and checked with him that it was really okay. He gave me an ultimatem to chose between hanging out with friends or staying married to him. I have to preserve my marriage, but last night was the greatest night of my life in years. This makes me so mad. Is he in the wrong?

2007-12-18 10:07:17 · 30 answers · asked by Mary 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we met for dinner he was drunk it was 6 oclock in the day , i hadent seen him for 4 months , i was with him for 1 year

2007-12-18 10:05:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going to call her tonight and tell her that i dont like her. Should i say "hey whats up" first then go to the "i dont like you we should stop" part or should i have a normal conversation for 10 minutes then break the news or what.

2007-12-18 10:04:24 · 50 answers · asked by steelermonarchy 1 in Singles & Dating

are there any guys left out there that dig chicks that r shy quiet earth-friendly and good behaved?

2007-12-18 10:03:35 · 16 answers · asked by flipper_maurin 2 in Singles & Dating

im going to my staff christmas party in like, 2 hours, and i invited this guy who i just met, but he's always smiling at me in the halls....and so today i asked him if he could come and he agreed! So....I'm wondering...what should we do, talk about and stuff?? this is my first date and i barely know the guy...suggestions?? thanks so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-18 10:03:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl but she doesnt like me. i asked her out a few weeks back but she said no. She has had alot of boyfriends not including me and i have had alot of girlfirends. What do i do now? should i ask her out? should i wait? i dont know what to do before some other boy gets her.

2007-12-18 10:02:49 · 22 answers · asked by I need answers 1 in Singles & Dating

my hubby (23) and i (21) will be married a year dec. 20th. right now, he's currently deployed and i'm 29 wks pregnant with our first. we're basically still starting our little lives and "trying" to save money. BUT my mother in law will ask him for money.. sometimes $400 at a time. doesn't bother me to help her, moreover that there are 4 adults working at their house! father in law, mother in law , & 2 bros in law (19 & 22). my sis in law (17) can work but wont. the other 2 are young (4 & 9) what i spend is for groceries, baby items, and things for care packages to send him. this month i sent $200, last month $300, and the month before that $250. i get upset and i tell him because we're trying to save money for when he gets out. he gets mad, like me, because of his 22 yr old bro won't help pay bills. but he feels bad to leave his mom hanging and that i understand. this has been going on since we got married.

ugh.. any advice or someone been like this before? :(

2007-12-18 10:02:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was asked out by the captain of the football team and he said he wants me to come over to his house and I am wearing a tank top and a skirt I am going to buy a skirt but how long or short should it be, and if it is too short do you think he would mind?

2007-12-18 10:00:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this girlfriend who is always trying to "help". Sometimes she can come off as very intrusive. Last night I was talking to her while shopping at the grocery store and out of the blue she started giving me unsolicited advice including how to manage my finances. Well, this is a different story....
Same person made a mockery comment to me that I should make a visit to her house so that she can counsel me how to budget my money. I really don't know what her deal is. She keeps telling me that I should stop eating out and cook dinner, make meal plan, etc.etc. Basically telling me how to do things etc.etc. I would usually ignore the comments except lately, it's been getting on my nerve. Well, to make things worse, when she was jokingly, passively saying that I need her help how to manage money, MY husband was standing there and also went in and indulge the joke and said "Yes,You should teach her"!
I felt like I am going to melt in humiliation. Was my husband being disrecpectful? :-

2007-12-18 09:59:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-18 09:58:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me 5 months ago. She still calls me evry 2-3 weeks. She calls and says she misses me and our relationship, etc.She has been seeing someone else and she has told me more than once that she doesnt like him that much and that they dont have the same connection that we have.A month ago I stopped taking her calls and havent answered her texts.She saw me 3 weeks ago with another girl and she called me at work 2 days later and told me several things about how she misses me and how special I am and then she started crying and told me she wanted to see me, and that she is thinking of leaving the guy she is with, etc. She never acts on her statements, so I told her that I am moving on and that I think it would be best for her not to call me again EVER. When I said that she hung up on me.she called today but I told her I had to go.I do want to be with her but she tells me she misses me but doesnt ever come back to me.did I do the right thing? Why do you get out of these games?

2007-12-18 09:58:28 · 10 answers · asked by zarro 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in california and she lives in canada.we have a strong relationship.she is related to my sister in law..my mom wants a girl from india. I know i will never marry anyone but her nor will she. my sister in law's family has lied to both sides about how i am and how she is..they have portrayed her as a party girl and me as a player. I cant live with out her but she does not want to run away..she wants to do it the right way. her family thinks she has stopped talking to me. my family knows i love her and want to marry her. i just want to fix things. i feel it is very unfair. i am punjabi sikh in fact we both are . no religions or caste issues..i dont understand what the problems is. my mom thinks it wont work out with her but has never met my girl or even talked to her.. she is basing it on things my sister in law has said..i really want to fix the siutation i neeed some help..i will do watever it takes to fix it..we both finished school last year and feel ready for marriage

2007-12-18 09:58:28 · 3 answers · asked by SACT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you forgive your wife if she has an affair while pregnant with your child?

2007-12-18 09:56:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for the best way to approach this. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months, and we are so very happy. The problem is his ex girlfriend. They have been broken up for a little more than a year, we live in California and she lives in Virginia. She won't stop calling, emailing, sending myspace messages to him. He has told her to stop calling and he has stopped responding to her emails and messages. But she continues. She sends me messages, saying that he doesn't love me and that I am only here for his entertainment. He has told her many times that we are happy and that he loves me and is not going back to her. Still she continues. Not sure how to get this to stop. Don't want to have to change phone numbers and emails if at all possible.

2007-12-18 09:54:02 · 11 answers · asked by MRS SOLOMON 2 in Marriage & Divorce