I was with a guy for 2 years but it was weird because I was never sure if we were "going out". We were always together, we were eachothers first kiss, I lost my virginity to him, I told him my secrets. He did a lot of things to hurt me, and suddenly I realized them all adding up and felt sad. My friends, my family, and HIS friends even told me he didn't treat me right. I decided to break it off with him, but I didn't know how so in the beginning of the year I just stopped talking to him and walked away from the situation... In school we acted like we both didn't exist yet we still texted eachother often. There was a girl who was obsessed with him. They didn't start going out until 4 months later. I don't text or hear from him anymore. I knew it was going to end like this but I can't help but still miss him even though I knew he wasn't good for me. I guess it makes me sad to see he found someone. do you think he has any feelings for me at all or that shes a rebound?
2007-12-18 10:23:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he tried to make plans to hang out but I never followed through....
i asked him to hang out and he was all excited but then i said that this weekend actually wasnt good.....and i never heard from him...
2007-12-18 10:23:50 · update #1
lol im rly sorry but i didnt read it...
2007-12-18 10:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Who cares if she is a rebound. The bottom line is he wasn't nice to you. If even his family said so, I think you should get a clue here kiddo. You should only be interested in someone who values YOU and treats YOU with respect. Think of him as a good lesson....one that will bring you wisdom. Everyone has to have these lessons! Good Luck (stay calm!). Merry Christmas!
2007-12-18 10:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by ruth r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's..sad. how could he treat you like that. i ususally tell people what they want to hear, and i think you want to hear his secretly in love with you and is heartbroken...but that's doesn't seem true. she might be a rebound but it depends on how he treats her.i think he just go...bored with you. he got everything from you that you could offer (did you love him? and tell him that?)he may have feelings for you. when ur with someone that long it's hard to leave and forget about what u shared. but he's repressing them. he believes it's time to move on, and obviously you did too, or you would have stuck around.
if he hurts you, emotionally or physically, it's good he's gone.
you will miss him. it's hard to forget your first and your feelings for them. i still miss the guy who was my first, but i know we can never get togewther again. it's over. things will never be the same.
2007-12-18 10:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you did the right thing,you just need to move on your self. and some times we still remember that first person years and years later, doesn't mean we didn't do the right thing. be happy your out of a bad relationship . keep looking, the right persons out there! you just have to go through, other relationships to learn what you really need for a pardner in your life.
2007-12-18 10:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by benthr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and forget about this guy. It's over and you need to find another guy who will treat you with respect and cares for you.... Stop obsessing about this guy, and get rid all the feelings, and memories out of your mind, then once you have had that enjoy your newfound single life, and explore the dating types of guys until you find the right one.
2007-12-18 10:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY u r so sick u must be bold n cautious enough to these situations....u lost ur virginity to a guy who is not at ol gud 4 u.......at least think b4 having sex with someone dear............leave him now he no longer exists in ur life now get somebody else whom u trust okay??
n don't have sex again in a hurry.......first give him n yourself some time to settle...........so hope u get me n will do the same..
2007-12-18 10:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by KARAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. and i did read it unlike some people. i'm so sorry that happened to you. but it happens to girls all the time. Just take him out of your head. he is now nothing. if he treated you like crap when you were together you shouldn't even talk to him.he is just a jerk. (he needs to get a life and say he is sorry to you for treating you like crap.) i know that it sucks.
i'm so sorry that happened to you. he is just a low life jerk. and you shouldn't take that crap from him. when he trys to talk to you ignore hm, when you see him at school ignore him. sooner or later he will finnaly realize that he messed up BIG time. and he will try to take you back.
2007-12-18 10:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by angel432 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have feelings for you. Who cares if she's a rebound? What satisfaction will you get out of that? You need to focus more on you and move on with YOUR life.
Feel me?
2007-12-18 10:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that he has feelings, because it's pretty soon, but if it is a rebound, he could get to care about her. i think you made him think that you didn't want him around you...i thibk you're relationship was somewhere between friends and more, but you ended it. maybe he tries giving her a chance...but if he still has feelings for you, their relationship won't work. eventually it will end. and if not, they will "live happily ever after"-so, it will end sooner or later....i think...:)
2007-12-18 10:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by raluca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel bonded to him because of the sex, not because of anything good about him. You walked away. And now you're playing games, about the weekend thing. Silly silly humans, when will they learn?
2007-12-18 10:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to head on...he has. You continually remember about the guy you misplaced your virginity to. And it is no longer basic to recover from them, yet you will. Now in case you like help getting over him, permit me understand and that i will help you out.
2016-11-23 13:13:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋